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how to flirt for the first time. >> but sometimes finding lasting romance -- >> your eye contact is piercing. >> -- requires some tough love. >> we have to talk. >> embark on the ultimate journey. >> i'm excited about it. >> with a world renowned expert as your guide. >> many of us fall in love. the person that we think still to come. >> i feel like i have been reminded there are a lot of things in life to be reminded about. >> tonight paul brunson. >> you can only find yourself love. my job is to give you the tools to do it. >> help. i need love. ♪ >> my name is courtney. i live in new york city. i have a daughter olivia who is 10 and she is beautiful. funny. loving. oliv's

and i met in 20000. we dated for two years. we got married about a year and a half later decided let's try to have a family. and after trying for a while we realized we probably should seek some help. so we ended up having the good fortune of ivf be an option for us and we got pregnant on the first try. when olivia was born, ray found a piece of himself. becoming a dad changed him. which is heartbreaking because that was what he would cry about when we realized that he wasn't going to get to see her grow up. ray was diagnosed with cancer at 37 which then led to a horrific two years of treatments. ray died in october of 2009.

that was the worst time of my life. >> look at this. mw mwah. i love you. >> love you. >> i've been a single mom for over six years. i want to fall in love again. of course i want to find love again. i miss passion. i miss romantic love. i miss holding someone's hand. it's hard to have time to care for my daughter, do right by my job and have time for myself. which is the piece that gets sacrificed. i don't have a whole lot of energy after spending day with middle schoolers. i teach english and theater in the south bronx which is one of the most poverty stricken districts in

the kind of work that you have to want to be there to stay there. awesome. go. thia. >> she had what could have been the perfect relationship. and that she lost it and is now willing to attempt to get it back. that is very powerful and that's someone who i really want to help. >> courtney is so busy between being a single mother and school that i'm taking her on a week-long retreat where she can focus on courtney while olivia's grandparents look after her. there she is. >> paul! >> courtney. >> how are you? >> how are you? >> i'm good. >> your journey begins here. it's designed to get you out of your every day experiences so we can get to the core of

you're not finding love. >> let's go. >> let's do it. i know it's not going to be easy for her to be away from her daughter a whole week but sometimes you have to put yourself first. have you been dating at all since ray's passed away? >> it's really hard to make time when i'm tired and feeling run down. >> right. you've overcommitted to your work. you support everyone in your life. now is the time that you have to make you a priority. you know, i look at self love like the oxygen mask on a plane. you have to apply it to yourself first before you apply it to the person next to you. when i look at your life, you've been running around here putting that oxygen mask on everyone else. and not on yourself. and courtney, this is where we put it on you. >> that would be good. >> you have to put yourself above

>> it feels like it's time. >> i believe you can only find yourself love. my job is to give you the tools to do it. so i've designed a whole week just for her. >> mommy. >> olivia! >> i miss you mom. what have you and paul talked about. >> he's trying to teach me how to think about doing things for myself. >> i want to introduce you to carlton spence. he's been working with my matchmaking clients for years. >> what you we're is so important for the first impression. three seconds to make that. i'm going to help you make the best impression. >> finding space in my life for me to have fun. >> we'll get started just in hero pose to get us centered. this feels like a good thing and i cannot wait to hug you when i get back. >> i'm sending you to a beauty salon for a

colored in my life. i can't believe i'm doing this. i have no idea what's going to come with this journey with paul but i feel really supported by him. >> courtney. look at this. looking nice. can i get some? woo! you look great. >> i feel great. thank you. >> good to see you. >> i'm learning how to find somebody special who i could meet. >> how do you flirt now? >> i don't. >> i don't. >> here's the trick. while you're having the interaction, this is belly button coming back into you because if it's not, you know he's not interested. so today we get off the sidelines and get in the dating game. let's have you flirt with someone in here. >> oh, my goodness. >> before i put her on a real date i want to first teach her how to flirt. go try talking to that guy at the end of the bar. because flirting is how you make a connection on a first date. if you can't make a conneio

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i'll see you guys. on these first dates i want courtney to focus on forming a mutual attraction and chemistry with these guys because i'm going to ask her who she's most interested in seeing again and i'll be talking to the guys to see if they are interested in seeing courtney again. >> hello. my ping pong partner i think. i'm courtney. >> hi. >> hi. >> richard. >> nice to meet you, too. >> it's nerve-wracking to go on a first date. very exposing. >> you look so nice. >> thank you. >> you'll be styling playing ping pong. >> i don't mind getting dirty. i'm worried though. i think you're this ping pong hustler and win a lot of money off of me. >> you do? >> my immediate thought is i am very attracted to him. >> where did you grow up? >> in indiana. i grew up in -- >> indiana. >> where is your family? >> everyone is pretty much in the east coast no

this is a heck of a rally we got going. >> i've been trying hard to be more flirty. >> oh, my god, what a shot. >> do you want to take a moment? >> yeah, let's have a sip. >> let's do. i needed a breather. you're wearing me out. god. >> this may be random. your eye contact is piercing. >> i'm sorry. >> in a good way. no. i appreciate it. i don't know. little things. i'm already struggling to be a better flirter and for whatever reason there were some crickets going on. i had forgotten how difficult a first day can be. but you know what, paul said this is going to be a journey and so next. why

person who iem eam to meet toda? >> i don't know. i'm ray. >> i'm courtney. nice to meet you. >> he is literally a petite male. i've been always drawn to bigger men. >> how long have you been in the city? are you from this area? >> do you think i'm from this area? >> i don't know. what part of town do you live in? >> mid town. >> 30s, 40s, 50s. >> yeah. ish. around there. >> are we going to be very vague about this? >> i never met you. >> courtney. your mind-set is everything when it comes to the date. typically people go on a first date and look for any characteristic to exclude somebody. right? to push them out. he's too short. you know, his lips are chapped a bit. right? i want you to be looking for characteristics that make him someone who should be in your life as opposed to out of your life. >> hi, there.

flowers. i'm courtney. >> i'm michael. >> michael walked in with flowers. that was just sweet. what is it that you do? >> i do a few things. i'm a filmmaker and an author. what do you do? >> not that. is that your phone? >> that's my phone. >> you're very popular anthony. >> michael. [ laughter ] >> i am definitely overwhelmed by this process. i'm courtney. >> jeff. nice to meet you. >> nice to meet you, too. so who are you jeff? >> i like animals more than i like people. >> okay. >> right now i'm taking care of three cats. >> wow. i'm a very highly allergic person. >> so cats are out? >> yeah. >> as a mom, as a working person, it's a lot. what's going on? you look so nice. but i'm enjoying meeting these men who really could -- they could be someone special in

life. >> i've been checking in with courtney and also checking in with the guys and not all the feedback has been work. >> she seemed to be a little bit uptight. >> made me feel uncomfortable. >> i'm going to watch in on her date tonight without her knowing to see what's going on for myself. >> hi. >> hi. >> i'm courtney. >> how are you? >> i'm paul. very nice to meet you. >> what's up? >> not much. do you live nearby here? >> i do not live remotely nearby here. i live in manhattan. >> all right. as do i. beyond the bubble sometimes it's referred to. >> you live in manhattan? >> i do. >> and we're hanging out in new jersey. >> a day trip. it's exciting. >> plus jersey is very underrated. >> whatever. >> i lived here for a while so it grows on you. the view of manhattan i

river. >> i'm sure it is. you work in finance? >> i do. >> do you have computers and calculators and what do you do with them? >> courtney is super sweet. but on these dates she's coming across ruthless and giving the wrong impression. i can see what these guys are talking about. >> it's really nice to meet you? thank you. >> i need to help her fix this right now. >> shut up. >> courtney. >> shut up. >> we have to talk. >> coming up -- >> i've been talking to all of the guys. >> courtney made me feel a little awkward. >> a little negative. machines don't have emotions. but the rare few can inspire them. ♪ with a naturally aspirated 5-liter v8 engine,

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tight because it's probably not going to be what you want to see. >> so what else you got? show me something else. >> grew up in brooklyn. >> you told me that. >> i would tell courtney to be laid back about things. >> a little negative. >> made me feel a little awkward. >> i know this is difficult for her to watch but she needs to see this so she can understand what she's doing wrong and become a better dater otherwise she may never find love again. what do you think? >> i guess i'm just -- i felt pretty darn good and now i don't. >> okay. so -- okay. >> that's not helping. the thought of moving forward very much. >> if all tonight is about is okay, this is another lesson for us, this is a journey and as long as we're learning along the way we're winning. i'm not asking you to do anything drastically different. i'm saying when you come into these scenarios be

what you're doing is going to be interpreted a certain way. >> that makes sense to me. i thought i was putting something else out there. i really did. and until i saw it, i didn't know. and i'm here to work through this stuff. and i'm open to it. i'm going to do the best i can for the rest of this journey. i'm courtney. >> how are you? >> michael. >> nice to moeet you. >> where are you from? >> 20 years in the city. what about you? >> i grew up in white plains, new york and i got married and we moved away. my wife passed away about a year ago. and here i am. >> my husband passed away as well.

[000:26:59;00] >> not last year. six years ago. i'm very sorry. i felt an immediate connection to mike. there are not a lot of men who are my age who have lost spouses. when you have something like that in common with someone it's rare. >> do you have kids? >> i do. i have a daughter. she's almost 11. >> i have 12-year-old twins. >> holy cow. >> mike is adorable. there is something about him that put me at ease very quickly. >> here. try it. >> so sweet. >> i felt giddy during the date and after the date. i've been thinking about him since i met him which i know is a good sign. i'm excited about him. >> i think when you find somebody that you can be vulnerable with, that's it. >> interesting that you should say vulnerable. how very interesting. >> why? >> i'm working on that.

>> as time goes on i realize i'm able to take the lessons i'm trying to be more open to listen, to be less abrasive. amazing what a difference it has made. i'm thinking maybe this is why i hadn't been able to find love before because i didn't have the tools. >> are you a triple threat? can you sing, act and dance? >> it depends who you ask. >> this is it. this is her last date. courtney evolved into a totally different person and learned a tremendous amount about herself. >> i'm courtney. >> i'm craig. nice to meet you. >> she should just stop and celebrate. >> i guess i'm dating myself. i'm 45. >> that's great. you should embrace it. >> i do. >> i'm the same age. i'm 44. >> not 45? >> god no. >> craig is quick as a whip. he is going back and forth with me as if we had spent four hours together prior to meeting. >> what do you do on the side? >> sleep.

>> you sleep on the side? >> which side do you sleep on? >> my right. >> your right side. i'm a right side sleeper. [ laughter ] >> this is decision day. this could be a life-changing decision that she's making right now and the people that she is selecting to continue to see, one of those could end up in her life forever. courtney when we met, you told me since the passing of your husband that you were not spending a lot of time on yourself. >> that's true. >> and because of not spending time on yourself, your romantic life suffered an since then i've put you on 20 first dates in 20 days and you have done phenomenally well with this and hopefully you connected with some of the men. have you? >> i have actually. i'm happy to say. >> excellent. who are some of the men that you would like to move forward with on the dating journey? >> i think the first man i met

who kind of got my heart beating a little fast and made me smile. >> mike z. >> yes. he's one of the very few men i've ever met who is a widower. so we had that in common which created a connection that was built in. the next, i did not see it coming actually was cole. >> cole. >> my head wasn't in the game at the beginning and by the end of the date i realized i needed to rewind and reflect. i left wishing i had knew more and the last gentleman who i met who caught my eye, his name is craig. >> craig. >> he is hysterical. there's something about him that's very familiar. >> okay. just feels naturally comfortable. >> yes. >> that's big. out of the 20 that you're really interested in, mike z, cole, craig? >> yes. >> so all those men that you said you would like to see again i asked if they would like to

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interested in seeing you again. he said if there was a connection. >> i'm disappointed. >> okay. >> and it's -- i'm a little embarrassed. >> you shouldn't feel embarrassed. you know why? not every great guy is meant for every great gal and that's okay if mike z is not meant for you. right? >> okay. rejection comes with a territory and i accept that. but still, it stings. of course, it stings. >> but i have good news. craig and cole are interested in seeing you again. >> awesome. >> how does that feel? >> it feels good. >> all right. i love it. the next time that we come back here i'm going to want you to tell me who you want to exclusively date. you think you could do it? >> i will try my best. >> i know you will. i know you will. let's continue the journey. >> okay. >> let's do it. >> let's do it. >> all right. >> courtney's next phase of dating is all about values. all about values. so she has to really observe and

see how these good chemistry is what gets a relationship started but values is what keeps the relationship going. >> hi. >> nice to see you. >> it's great to see you again as well. >> cole did not get the best of me on that first date and it was not his fault. i'm really glad he wants to go on a second date. >> do you have socks on? >> i do. are we going to go swimming? let's do it. >> take your shoes off. however, i might. >> my socks. >> you are so coordinated. i respect it cole. >> i feel like we're sitting in the caribbean at poolside with our feet in the water. >> something as simple as cole taking off his shoes and socks that's very attractive to me. >> want to grab a drink? >> i would love that. yes. >> let's do it.

how is olivia. >> no she hasn't. she's good. i'm a very lucky person. what do you think about the fact that i have a child? >> i'm -- >> is that too direct? i mean it's out there. >> i always pictured a marriage with two kids by now and it just didn't work out that way. if the way i have a family is because i meet someone who has kids already, then so be it. why would i close my mind to that when that's what i always wanted. >> cole is definitely someone i'm surprised by. at this stage in my life i thought i would be with someone who has been married and either divorced or widowed, who has a child, close to my age if not older than me and cole is none of that. and i like him. >> thank you very much.

>> thank you. >> enjoyed >> good night. >> courtney has come a long way but this is where it gets real. this is where she has to be extremely vulnerable. where she has to be extremely self-aware, where the tough conversations happen and this is where also the magic happens. ♪ >> i will pull out the chair. >> thank you. thank you. i left my first date with craig thinking i have to see him again. >> jacket comes off. >> can i -- >> hat comes off, too. >> can i have your -- >> seriously, absolute wilabsol. >> i'm really cold. >> i'm conflicted about craig. he makes me laugh a lot but i don't know if he can step away from the self deprecating humor long enough for me to see who he is. >> i find you very interesting. incredibly easy to talk to and

you have managed to not that i'm keeping score. but i -- >> 37 times. i'm actually keeping score. >> well -- >> i don't know craig well enough to know what is the reason for that instinct to go to the humor but i also want to be serious and i want to talk about values and i want to talk about things that i know he's scared to share. you said you're trying to get back into dating and -- >> was married. just that we kind of grew apart. and a few years back that we parted, we still have love for each other in the regard of good friends, family and the parents of a wonderful kid. and i finally have gotten to a place where i'm ready to get out there again and that's i guess what -- that's where i'm at. >> thank you. >> thank you very much. >> do you think you want to get married again? >> yes. >> that was quick. i didn't expect you to say that. >> no.

>> i didn't know w but i didn't expect that. >> i think my persona is more of relationship. i value monogamy. >> i do, too. i'm so attracted to craig's humor and tonight i am thankful that he showed me his serious side. ♪ >> at this point i'm very confused. i'm actually having a really good time with two men which is the last thing i expected. >> every time i have gotten the opportunity to see you again has felt important to me. i really like hanging out with you. >> by the way, i'm a minute away. awesome. >> i've never been in this situation and i don't know what to do about that. >> today is a big day in courtney's journey.

she's she has to decide just one person to move forward with. >> hi, paul. >> hello courtney. it's great to see you. welcome back. >> thank you. >> the last time you were here, you had just finished your 20 first dates in 20 dates and picked cole and craig to move forward with. tell me what's happening with them right now. >> right now they both have got me confused. >> okay. >> never in my life have i been in a situation where i have been attracted to two different men at the same time and had that reciprocated. >> so you have a dilemma right now. we're going to work through it together. all right. tell me a bit about craig. >> there's something very easy about him. we have so many things in common. it's not that butterfly. it's almost like the butterflies

have already come and gone and now old with him. >> that is very perfect. but yet, you're still confused? so what is it that cole does for you? >> i get butterflies before i see him and when i see him i feel like i want to know all about everything about him. quite frankly i'm taken off guard that i am as interested in him as i am considering he's younger. that he's not been married. he doesn't have kids. and those are all things that i have said that i think i want. >> so we're definitely in a sticky situation right now. okay. but we're going to work through this together. all right. here's what i know. don't think about what could happen in the future. but stay laser focused on the here and now. ultimately all we have is what's here and what's right now in

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even if you're not a customer. the last time you were here you had picked cole and craig. so you ready to make a decision? >> i'm not used to making choices like this. so it's going to be

uncomfortabl i'm going to take a chance on cole. i think i'm going to take a chance on cole. >> i really like cole. i really do. >> i do, too. >> clearly. she went with her gut feeling. she went with who wasn't necessarily safe. i really, really, really like courtney's decision. what i want you and cole to do now is pretty big. courtney has reached add point where she knows this is a good partner for her. there is the beginning of romantic love. now is the time to allow cole into her entire life. and olivia is a major part. so i'm taking them on one final trip. ♪ >> i think it's important for them to meet on neutral ground so they can create their own new shared memories.

>> cool. >> hi, ladies! >> good to see you. good to see you. how are you? >> good. >> good to see you. olivia, good to see you. welcome to santa barbara ladies in the four seasons resort, isn't this beautiful? >> amazing. >> now, you know courtney, this is the end of our journey. this is. it's bitter/sweet and that's why it's great you're here because this is a big step and olivia we're going to need your help. >> okay. >> your mom has met lots of great people but she's met a man named cole and so you're going to have an opportunity to meet cole on this trip. courtney, at the end of your time with cole on this trip, you'll have to decide what your next step together is. and if one day you see yourself forming a family together. >> okay. >> okay. >> when i started on this journey i wanted to meet someone who i wanted to introduce to

olivia and i didn't know if it would happen or not and and i'm excited for them to meet and at the same time i'm terrified, still really scared. ♪ >> if cole and olivia don't get along, it's really going to be tough for courtney to see them as a family. >> you ready? >> yeah. >> okay. >> i think ultimately what that will mean is that relationship between cole and courtney will be over. >> hey. very nice to finally meet you. how are you? i've heard a lot about you. >> coming up -- >> up to this point this journey has been my own. >> this is a long-awaited moment. i've been on this crazy roller coaster ride of emotions.

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special k. up to this point, this journey has been my own. and olivia is here with me now. >> you ready? >> yeah. >> okay. >> that makes me nervous and at the same time, i'm ready. i'm ready for olivia and cole to meet. >> hey. very nice to finally meet you. how are you? >> good to see you.

this is the long-await and here we are. >> i've heard a lot about you. >> you okay with that? >> yeah. >> cole and olivia finally met. and i am so relieved. nice. nice. >> let's go. >> oh, yeah, i'm feeling this. >> a little sea lion there. >> where? >> oh, i see it. i see it. >> that is one of the sweetest things i have ever seen. >> yeah. >> he's just taking a nap. >> this is off to a great start. it was a perfect start. for cole and olivia to meet, to get to jump right in literally into the water. i was very nervous about the two meeting and i feel so much relief right now just hanging out and being able to be in each other's presence and -- i don't know. thank you for making it nice. >> i enjoy spending time with your mom. your mom is actually pretty cool believe it or not. >> thank you. >> she is.

>> it was a great day. coaster ride of emotions including stress and excitement and fear and joy and it worked out beautifully. >> beach. ocean. check-check. >> courtney is officially at the end of her journey. there has been lots of ups and there have been lots of downs. but she continued to move forward. and that is why i'm so proud of courtney. ♪ >> hi. how are you? >> i'm good. this is it. >> i know. >> this is the end of the journey. >> i know. can you believe this? >> no. >> it's been a while right? >> i'm feeling really good. >> okay. >> these are good tears. >> good. >> overwhelmed. that's all. >> yesterday cole met your daughter. >> they did. >> how did that go? >> it went beautifully. it went beautifully. >> did it really?

>> yes. >> my goal was always to find someone that you could share the rest of your life with. did i find him? >> yes. there is the potential of family. yes. cole and i are in love and haven't been in love in a long time and that emotion can wash over you when you realize wow, this is what i wanted and here it is. >> look at that over there. >> i didn't think i realized it. how much this has changed my life. thank you very much. >> i thank you. i thank you for trusting in me and i thank you for always risking yourself. love has made courtney see the

world differently. she sees more possibility, not just in everyone else but she sees more possibility in herself. and i just can't wait to see what's going to happen in her future. i'm front row at your wedding courtney. front row. >> i think i've been sad for a long time. and because of this experience, i feel like i have been reminded that there are a lot of things in life to be very happy about and to be excited about and to appreciate.

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