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is here, starred in dozens of movies, one of my favorites "unfaithful." hots. >> and "under the tuscan sun" haven't see it? you haven't lived. >> and now done something never done before. how about that? >> and the wine is flowing at thanksgiving. so will the conversation with fun ways to keep everyone entertained before, during and after dinner. even the children, hoda woman. >> we'll do that. ready to get in their cars this weekend. >> i hear 1 million more are traveling this year than last year. >> on the road. >> i wonder if it's because gas is not as expensive? >> what they're saying. if you're hitting the road, nine out of ten, everybody traveling by car. bring games for the kids. keep them entertained. >> or jump on a train. the top four destinations based

vegas. >> what? for thanksgiving? >> not exactly halloween if you know what i'm saying? >> don't you eat turkey? >> they have turk any las vegas. a lot of people are avoiding think families. not everyone adores families like i do. and san francisco and orlando. family vacation spots. >> new york ranks fifth. makes sense, macy's day parade and stuff. a lot of us love our dogs so much we start looking like our pets. >> i wish i was that cute. >> there's kath and hers. remember your old hair? >> no. i hardly do. >> oh, look at little -- i love that dog! well, topher brody and his dog named rosenberg are not exception. became instagram stars. bres alike. people tell them they look alike and started dressing alike. teamed up way photographer and

>> ow cute. >> oh, my gosh! >> topher says rosenberg loves to catch balls, walk in the park and sit back, watch, looking wise and regal, of course, super adorable. >> oh, my gosh. his account is, topherbrophy. >> i feel guilty if i don't put a coat on blake. if you walk the streets of new york, they all have coats on. >> they already have a coat what joel says. >> i can understand protecting little paws, put the salt down. unless it's a freezing bitter day. >> i know. >> you have to do a quick walk. this is going to make you upset. >> make you crazy. >> the 1955 good housewife's guide. back in 1955, housekeeping monthly, that was a magazine -- [ laughter ] >> published an article called "the good wife's guide."

should act to be the perfect companion. >> all right. before we get to the rule, we'll go through them. look at this 1950s instructional film called "marriage is a partnership." >> first monday morning, i was so proud of my man going out to earn a living for us. another thing -- pete's contributions to my sense of accomplishment. i had a lot to learn about cooking and keeping house, and sometimes t unimportant and dull. a wife does appreciate her husband's appreciation. and, of course, that works both ways. i tried to learn about pete's job. sometimes i shared his enthusiasms, and there were times when i had to help absorb his frustrations. it was all part of the partnership. [ laughter ]

i was 2 years old. >> that was good! >> i was very much alive then. and actually, my parents' marriage at the time was very similar to that. it was the norm. it was -- >> the "leave it to beaver" sort of. >> yes. yes. you can't even say that any more. it's just -- nothing's the same! >> here, by the way, these are the rules that they had in that -- >> if you want a happy mirg n. that, what was it called? >> white house wife's guide. >> no "housekeeping monthly". >> who cares? it's not around anymore. >> here we go. before you see him, take 15 minutes to rest and check your appearance. this is hysterical. >> never complain if he's late or even if he stays out all night. count this as minor compared to what he might have gone through

give him a seat. >> doesn't he know where a seat is in his own house? >> arrange his pillow and offer to take off this shoes. >> this is true, everybody. always let him talk first. be happy, and i like this one. try to be interesting. >> speak in a low, soothing and pleasant voice. >> that one does work. >> how about this one? don't ask him questions. remember, he's the master of the house. [ laughter ] and as such, will always exercise his will with fairness and truthfulness. >> who is this guy? >> you have no right to question him. you were alive then! >> i know. >> okay? >> and i'm not proud. catering for "his" comfort. all the guys looking around, damn, i wish i'd lived then!

that's true, it will maybe you happy n. that list. makes sense. >> finally a good wife always knows her place. [ laughter ] >> if you know somebody like that -- i would -- we'd like to have you on our show. we really would. i mean, there are still people that think that there's nothing wrong with any -- and there's nothing. you got the right to live your life any way you want to. right? >> yeah, you it just sounds like you're at hick beck and call and get on your knees, say thank you. stays out all night and cheating wildly you say thank you for coming home this morning. can i get you breakfast? >> you had options. but you came home to me. i want to say this to you. so many people for years in the bible. the bible talks about wives, be submissive to your husbands. i looked up what that word actually means in the greek. it's a word call the hippotasso.

>> what? >> it means to reach down and lift up in loving support. completely different than being submissive. >> yes. which is what every one of those things says to be. >> yes. >> bring out our dawn adorable. >> something called emoji lips. a new trend. tiny, temporary emoji tattoos. all right. close-up on donna's lips. let everybody see. >> it's really disturbing. >> also on my >> on the lips looks like she's got a disease. i'm sorry. >> stick them everywhere you want. don't move, donna. got to get a close-up of your lips and eyelids. $10 for a pack of 100 mini pat tews add -- on your eyelids. i see, and your lips. how do they feel? >> they feel a little bit dry, but -- but pretty fine for the most part. >> what about if somebody wants to kiss you? >> i think it is really showing subtleties of your mood.

>> well, check it out. >> -- i mean i like you, but -- >> donna adorable. tip your waitress. you know what time it is, hoda? >> what? >> it's time for a friday funny. >> friday fun pip ready. >> jokes for the kids for thanksgiving day. okay? >> all righty. >> which means they're going to be stupid. >> i like these. >> not the kids are, but the jokes are. what did the turkey eat on thanksgiving? >> i don't know. >> nothing. he was already stuffed. [ rim shot ] why do pilgrims pants always fall down, hoda? >> i don't know. >> because they pair they are belt buckles on their hats. [ rim shot ] what did the turkey say -- really listen to this one. okay? what did the turkey say to the turkey hunter on thanksgiving? >> i don't know. don't -- >> quack. quack. [ rim shot ]

turkey. he's a quack. he's a duck. i told you to pay attention, hoda. >> maybe the hunter was hunting for duck. >> that's why i said pay attention. it said the thanksgiving hunter was -- the turkey hunter -- >> by the way, don't forget, you can always find us on sirius xm 108. in case you want to listen, mondays and wednesdays at 2:00. >> she's great. >> games. >> ways to keep big and little people entertained during your thanksgiving din.

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>> announcer: holiday entertaining is sponsored by -- pier one. find what speak to you at pier one imports. ever the next few weeks you'll be spending time with friends and relatives. we're talking a lot of time. >> whether you want to keep the conversation going at the dinner table or make sure everyone is involved, thanksgiving games. h orsini. hi, jenny. good to have you back. >> good morning, ladies. historically thanksgiving is all about the food but i think it's important to have activities and games for your guests as well. fun things to do on thanksgiving. >> a game called peg them? >> it is walled peg them . >> what is it? >> lasts the entire day. one is the pigger, with the clothes pin.

count down to ten means i have to start looking. look for a pin. you've got to tell me. are you wearing a pin? is there a pin on somebody? is something happening? >> oh. you have it on you. >> stra teachicsly -- okay. >> strategically. that's fun. >> now what? >> i have to do a charade. pull one out. you have these ready when your guests come. i read it. nobody sees it. >> we'll get it. >> surfing! >> >> and a word or movie or -- >> shhh! >> then what? >> take the peg, put 0 on somebody else. >> keep pegging all night. >> what about turkey hunt? one of my favorites. >> you have to do something for the kids. all this involves, go online, find a turkey picture. have them all over. send the kids on a scavenger hunt.

reach into the treasure chest find yours -- kids really, really love this. >> move on to the dinner table. shall we? >> basically now we have dinner served soon. right? >> looks beautiful. >> but we want to make sure that the -- you know, the talking continues. >> something called make a statement? >> this is called make a statement. i love music and chose song lyrics. on the bottom of each of your plates. don't look. you look, but don't show anybody. you have a statement. and it's a your job is to -- during dinner, at some point, you have to make that statement, somewhere. ?? >> like mine -- i was working as a waitress in cocktail bar. i have to say ta during dinner. >> say that during dinner. i wear my sunglasses all night long because my corneas are infected. >> end with a -- rate? >> have to go.

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spotlight nearly enentire life. her film career kicked off at 13 in the coming of age movie called "a little romance". >> loved that movie. from an innocent on-screen relationship to a naughty one scoring an oscar nomination, for the role as a wife who had a dangerous fair in "unfaithful." >> one of my favorites. should have won the oscar. >> yes. she gauss robbed. >> more than 60 films and tv broadway debut in "the cherry orchard." the play by anton, about a russian family on the edge of ruin while country's on the brink of revolution. >> yeah. it's a comedy. >> a tragedy, a little sitcom. good old -- >> saying the name like it's the first time you've done something is surprising to me, for some reason? >> i've actually been on broadway in the show before but didn't speak.

>> when was that? >> gosh, let's see. i need an abacus to count on. >> in 1977. >> '77. >> wow. >> vintage automobiles from then too. not the year, it's the mileage. >> whatever you're doing, looks great. >> what is it about this show that made you want to sign up for it? >> gosh, the writing itself. when you have such intense truth to power in the -- in the play itself, and the fact that stephen, who was nominated for a pulitzer. just that. so -- i mean it was a convergence of amazingly talented people. the round-about theater is a wonderful not for profit i support them in what they do. a little like a dare. do you really think you could pull this off? then high to try. >> of course.

am i going to dhu? 91 shows, but, hey, who's counting? >> only eight a week. >> limited. when's the last show? >> december 4th. discounts on thanksgiving week. what i hear, yeah. >> good, good. you're loving the whole experience of it? >> having a ball and -- >> take a break? >> kids came yesterday, a bunch of high school kids came. so much fun. like swimming in cold water instead of warm so exhilarating. >> they laughed, cried. with us, yeah. >> doing it years ago in the '70s, doing this play, there's a picture, a photo, i think. right? >> okay. >> it's a picture of -- i think we have it -- >> let's see. >> there's you. >> i think i see. >> joe, there i am. >> peeking out. >> yes. is meryl streep in there? >> bottom left? there with you? >> yeah. she was a fabulous -- mary beth

cast. >> must have been like inspired you to go do what those women do? . >> i had incredible reverence for this entire play, journey, experience, and going back to it, it's very serving of doing the part, because i am haunted by -- what my character is haunted by. it's there for me in the hard drive. >> i have to tell you this, and i don't any my daughter would mind. she's all the tile. her favorite actresses, diane lane and meryl streep. >> whoa. that's something to live up to. >> inspire add whole generation. >> thank you, kindly. >> "the cherry orchard" again runs through december 4th on broadway. so come on down. >> from one gorgeous hollywood star to another -- >> dennis quade gives us something to talk about, after your local news. it's a love thing.

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and take it slow? >> oh. where do you go with that voice? how do you -- >> just heavy breathing. don't sleep too much. >> a little kiefer. just a little kiefer. >> it's so funny that the art world is the back drop for all of this intrigue. you wouldn't expect it? >> a world i'd never seen before on television, not much in movies, either. it's what goes on behind the scenes. i was surprised. >> you should see it as art >> right. >> something stolen, not the -- the intrigue behind. >> a lot of heists going on behind the scenes. >> a lot going on behind the scenes. >> as well. but the art of moore is about lust for power and money and sex, and all set -- >> never enough. >> behind the beauty of art. everybody wants more. >> but it's not all real art. >> i got mine. how about a little bit of yours? >> exactly. do you know anybody like this? or did you sort of, that you

new york billionaire real estate tie tycoon with a penchant for politics. we were shooting the first season. all ten episodes written. two moss into shooting and donald trump announce ford president, a and i -- seeing my dialogue coming out of his mouth. so -- >> he does have some fine art. >> yes, he does. >> enough about melania. >> ba-dum-bum. >> the cast in the show is fantastic. kate bosworth. >> beautiful girl. >> and carrie and a new kid christian, amazing. >> love him. haven't seen enough of him. >> "princess bride." >> remember how great we was in that? >> i can't stop looking at dennis quade. thinking of the movie "the big easy" pull up that movie and

movie. >> [ speaking in foreign language ]. >> see? >> you've never been the same since then. >> there's something about -- looking at you and seeing you this close. >> how embarrassing that grown women still love you? >> hey -- [ laughter ] it's better than the alternative. it's a little break from the "parent trap" girls. >> oh, yeah. old women still do, too. this one makes a mess of herself all about it. it's really embarrassing. >> "parent trap" girls i tell them, look, i baby-sitter while your parents were in the other room. >> what do you want to do next? "the right stuff" your favorite and why put that burden on yourself? there could be great stuff ahead. >> could be, but so far. >> talk about your music and your band that you -- >> yeah. >> tell us about that. >> we've been together for -- what? 16, 17 years now. and -- a great bunch of guys, and we -- it's just a great time up there. we do like, half originals, half

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of thousands or offering support to celebrities like justin bieber or russell wilson he writes fantastic books. >> out with his newest book called -- wil "how your soul." >> thanks for having me a. great voice for millennials. you go up to them and don't basically say, how you doing? you say, how's your soul? >> it's elevator music and white noise. how you doing on the inside? the outside. we shoe live inside out not outside in. >> doing it backward, aren't we? >> yeah. >> and home sweet home. that matters. what you consider your home, isn't it? >> many of us live internally gnome matek. outside a condo, apartment, town home but is there a home on the inside? a place of reprieve and rest and refreshment? i believe with all my heart home is in god our create around we talk about that in the book what that means and what it looks

>> if you have that foundation you can move anywhere. you got the foundation. >> yeah. >> we're giving people takeaways things to do day in, day out. one is rest? >> goes back to the original creation, in the garden. we have four elements that provide for us the optimal environment for a healthy soul. first is rest. speaks that the tree was beautiful at the sight and food tasted good. or the fruit was excellent. so i think it starts with enjoying creation. enjoying relationship, and getting that margin of life we all need at the velocity of which we're living and traveling. >> stop sprinting. >> you also say rest is important because god had a great plan for us to work. it's important to work and then you rest from it. >> having a job is not a bad thing. a good thing, privilege and honor. scripture says, whatever your hand finds to do, do it with all your might. >> and with the richest of fair. >> we hit responsibility. move on to the next one. >> restrain is important.

our favor. all trees were permissible to eat from except for one. there's a thing calmed a necessary know in life. are we saying no to even good things? you can't say yes to everything. got to say no -- got to make a fair trade. one pastor said who you are cheating? your wife and kids or cheat others? in other words, got to say no to some people. even good people you love to spend time with the people that are most important. >> ultimately you end up cheating yourself. >> absolutely. >> and wrap up bible starts with good, good, good, first not good. adam was by himself. a lot of pets. eve created for adam and an incredible relationship. we think in terms of marriage, but they were best friends. imperative with pour into the key relationships willing to consider who the key intensive relationships god's put in my

myself to those? >> doesn't it make sense that all of these people go to listen to you? he's so real. >> the real deal, everybody. so good to see you. >> and loved your beautiful family. especially chelsea. god love her and your kids. >> thank you. >> and feeding your soul to feeding your brain about the scary truth concerning alzheimer's. >> maria shriver fills us in on something very important to her that should be really important to all of us, right after this. at progresso, we are passionate about our art. and our art is chicken soup.

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alzheimer's awareness month. every 66 seconds, think about that, someone in the united states developing the disease. >> the last decade nbc special anchor maria shriver dedicated letter energy towards fighting alzheimer's and is here today to talk to us about how it can help you. >> hi, girls. >> tough subject.

women. >> do they know why? >> no, they don't. why i'm focused on finding the answer. two-thirds of all caregivers, also caregivers month are also women and i'm trying to get researchers and scientists all over the country to focus on gender-based research. is it hormonal? menopause, depression, diabetes? why do women get this? maybe a combination of all of alzheimer's in -- >> 2011. >> it doesn't just affect obviously you. it affects your whole family. describe what that's like for caregivers? >> such a sweet man. >> he was, by the way, and brilliant. what's so amazing about this disease is that it robs your brain. i say it's mind-blowing for not just the person who gets it but for the entire family. so it's a spiritual journey. it's a financial journey.

so many people have to leave their jobs to care for somebody with alzheimers because it's 24/7. so it's really expensive. and it's disheartening, but i'm trying to really focus on the hope that's out there. we launched this challenge 66 so that people will give $ $6, $66 to fund gender-base read search. trying to talk about what each ander person can do lifestyle, diet, medication. >> what are some things you can do? >> exercise. that's really important. the blood that goes from your body goes up to your brain. they're connected, right? >> something you said i didn't know about. not just exercise. you have to do interval training. bursts of it. >> exactly. right. we're developing a whole curriculum, what's the right kind of exercise, diet, the right supplements, better to eat whole foods.

sleep, meditation. science says meditation affects the brain. music affects the brain. coloring affects the brain. all of these things we're learning through science. >> you're teaching a lot of people a lot through something that i participated in with you called "move for minds." something you're doing around the country that's growing. >> it's growing. partnered with equinox. so important you came there, you are there. >> what a good girl you are. >> expanding to eight cities next june and it's really to kind of hit people who are in g there is more to you than your lips, your thighs and your eyes. right? you have a brain up there and so you want to think about your body and your self holistically. i talk about alzheimer's as the ultimate women's empowerment movement because we have to think about the effect of our brains. how we use our brains and so if we have a great body but loses our brains, what good is it going to doing? on that event i move from minds,

experts, people who can give the up-to-date information about how it all works together. >> is it genetic? have you found? >> there is is a component that is genetic, but we're finding out more and more is that it's life-style and that your genes are not your destiny. that's really important for everybody out there to remember. your genes are not your destiny. there are things you can do starting today in terms of exercise, diet, sleep, meditation, and help us. >> and for people h >> women's alzheimer's movement we run telling thek move for minds event, what women are doing aover the globe. get involved. make sure if they're in this space they can raise money in this space and if they have a mom or a dad in their 50s or 60s, talk to them about their brain health. notice, how is their brain health? how are they remembering? all kinds of testing online to look at as well.

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