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. >> reporter: it could have been mistaken for a christmas miracle. instead, it was a mystery. this is where it all began for you. >> that's right. >> reporter: a newborn baby boy wrapped in swaddling clothes, lying in a manger, part of this catholic church's nativity scene 44 years ago. >> i was about five days old. >> reporter: no clues as to who abandoned him. his mother, missing. but another mother, watching over. >> i got a feeling like this might have been where my mother waited trying to muster the courage to do it. >> reporter: on that silent night, left with only a handful of disposable diapers -- but left by whom? now abc news and "20/20" are helping to track down his parents. and he's not alone. tonight, out of thousands of "20/20" viewers s d searchers on facebook, three desperate
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father -- why do you need to know who your dad is? a sister searching 29 years to find her brother -- >> what do you mean, there's two of me? >> reporter: what? >> she goes, "you're not alone." >> reporter: tonight, cold cases solved right in front of you. with a sleuth -- >> i've never seen these before. >> reporter: a scientist -- >> with dna, we will find a match for everyone that is searching. >> reporter: and a sixth sense. watch this woman, caught in a casino security video, captivated by the stranger next to her, believing he's that long-lost brother. >> oh, my god, it's my brother. total goosebumps. it's him. it's him. >> reporter: looking for the lost -- whether they want to be found, or not.
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since the day i was born. >> good evening, i'm elijabeth vargas. >> and i'm david muir. viewers desperate for our help finding loved ones. >>so, we assembled a team too solve the cases. but tonight, something new and undefinable. gut intuition. is t tre something to it? decide for yourself, as we start with my trip to that texas church, and the search for the mother that left her baby in a manager. >> reporter: it's the dawn of the aptly-named "me" decade. 1971. "all in the family" premieres on television. president nixon installs that recording system. and the beegees were tearing up the charts with "how do you mend a broken heart". my broken heart >> reporter: and in houston, texas, anotheheheart was s rely aching on a sunny wednesday afternoon, just days
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a bouncing baby boy is discovered inside st. anne's christmas nativity scene. compounding the mystery, he appears to be healthy and well-cared for. >> apparently the mother had taken the baby jesus figure out of the manger and put the child in the manger in his place. >> reporter: two prayerful parishioners find him, but it falls to catherine allen, a 23-year-old rookie with the houston children's protective service, to rescue the baby in the manger. >> i laid him on my shoulder and was quiet. >> reporter: at christsts in a nativity scene. >> exactly, what could be more dramatic? >> reporter: searcher d.j. williams, searching for his biological mother. d.j. went from the manger to just below the masthead as ont-page headline news. but if anybody knew who the mother was, they didn't bear witness. was there a plea for information?
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they had no leads to go on. >> reporter: what do you thi that means? >> i would say she didn't want to be found. >> reporter: d.j. would eventually be adopted and grow up in a rural houston suburb with a loving mother, father and older brother. but he would never stop wondnding about his humble beginnings. >> when i would be working on school projects or filling in family trees, i had to just kind of make it up as i went along. >> reporter: and young family and friends joined in the make-believe as well. >> they told me that my mother was loni anderson and that my father was burt reynolds. >> reporter: did you believe it? >> i did. i was gullible. i was willing to believe a aost anything. >> reporter: today, d.j. is a manager at a stataucks inside a grocery ore in baltimore, maryland. he lives with his partner, mike, and their 6-year-old camerershy son zephyr. they were home watching television last year when they believe their prayers were
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>> we had seen her on the "20/20" episode, with phone booth baby. >> reporter: so it was on this corner. 88th and columbus. it was the episode about louise jones, the woman abandoned as a baby in a new york city phone booth. with investigative genealogist pam slaton on the hunt for the missing mom. >> he felt connected to me and said to his partner, that's the girl that's going to help me. >> reporter: pam is constantly contacted for help, and she only works on cases she thinks she can solve. >> my stacks are kind of broken up by, current, not feeling it. driving me crazy. >> reporter: pam agreed to take the case. >> what we did do is have him submit dna. >> reporter: but d.j.'s case wasn't the only one confounding and cluttering the home office in pam's south jersey house. >> me, an umbrella, high heels and the stairs. let's see what happens. >> where are we heading to, pam? >> long island. >> reporter: o o next searcher, gina lozada of shirley, new
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half-sibling. she is a mother and a wife, but she still has a hole in her heart. >> i want a full relationship. i will get it somehow. i am determined. >> reporter: gina grew up as an only child on the east end of long island, new york, with her mother and father. >> from early on, like, why can't i have a brother or a sister? >> reporter: until that fateful day 29 years ago when a tragic event turned that hole i io a crater. gina's father died while on a construction job. he was only 48 years old, what happened? >> went to work one day, had a massive heart attack and that was it. never came home. it was devastating. >> reporter: gina's dad, and best friend, had passed away. she was inconsable. even her mother could not comfort her. >> i can't believe i have to go through this alone. if i had a brother or sister, we could kind of deal with it together. >> reporter: and then, a bombshell. >> and she was like, "i have to tell you something."
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you." >> reporter: what? >> she goes, "you're not alone." >> reporter: it turns out gina's father had a child with another woman before he married gina's mom. but when the young woman's father found out, he banished the unwed 20-year-olds and $% forbade them from ever seeing each other again. so what did he know about that baby? >> my dad thought it was a boy, apparently. then later on, i guess, my mother heard that her first child was a girl. so for about 15 years, i searched for a girl. >> she said, you know, "i don't know if i have a brother or a sister. i'm not really sure what name this person was born under, and i'm not really sure where." and i was like, you know, "i'd love to help you, but --" >> reporter: that's zero to go on. perhaps more promising is pam's third case, which brings us to philadelphia. not pennsylvania. philadelphia, mississippi.
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mouth-watering barbecue. >> wow, that is beautiful. we ain't in new jersey no more. >> reporter: meet the searcher in case number three. amanda holdiness, who is searching for her dad, her biological father that she has never known. >> where am i? hi, honey. how are you? >> i've always wanted to be a daddy's girl. >> reporter: amanda's mother told her she was not married when she got pregnant, and when she told the man, he left. the absence really hit home in one of the most important moments of amanda's life. her wedding day. >> i've always seen ladies walk down the aisle with their father, and i never got it. >> reporter: amanda finally confronts her mother and she finally lls her the name of the man she thinks is her father. amanda gives that information to pam slaton. >> all i did was give her five
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where he lived, when they met, how old he was when they met. she called me and she said, "guess what?" i said, "what?" she said, "i found him!" i just -- i started crying. i said, "are y y serious?" >> reporter: it happened so quickly. it was almost too good to be true. coming up amanda, and the test standing between her and the reunion she's dreamed about. >> when the lady called me from the dna place, she said, "i got the results." and i said, "where are they?" >> reporter: plus, what clues will be unearthed in this university of houston basement? >> these are the first time you're seeing these photos? >> yeah, i've never seen them before. >> that's incredible. >> reporter:ill they help crack the curious case of the mystery of the manger baby?before fibromyalgia, i was active. i was a doer. then the chronic, widespread pain slowed me down. my doctor and i agreed that movivi more
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>> to really try and figure ou who he is and where he came from. >> now abc and "20/20" are helping to track down his parents. >> reporter: how old were you when you finally got the full story of where you were found and how you were found? >> i was probably about 15. and i had been helping my grandmother and she showed me some newspaper clippings. >> reporter: maybe there are more articles that could contain a clue. the one newspaper that covered the story, "the houston post," is out of business but in n e basement of the university of houston library, some old rolls of microfilm. >> i have someone here by the name of erin. she is going to help us go through the microfilm. >> i'm pam slaton. and this is d.j. >> so you haven't seen the articles? >> never have. all i have is a little yellow clipping. >> well, it was definitely front page news. all right, so therit is. >> reporter: it didn't reveal much so we tracked the reporter of those old articles to hopefully shed some light. ry taylor was a cub reporter on the evening crime beat back in 1971.
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5:00 p.m. on a wednesday. >> okay. >> on friday one of our photographers came over to wherever you were and took this set of photos of you. >> looks like i'm yawning. >> these are the first time you're seeing these photos? >> yeah, i've never seen them before. >> that's incredible. >> that is amazing. >> reporter: next stop, we take dj to see bennett greenspan, the ceo of familytree dna. >> so let's go and let's look at your dna. and if you look right here, you have one match. >> reporter: in what seems to be an early breakthrough, some of d.j.'s dna is matching up with someone else in the database. >> it doesn't get a lot better than that. >> it's pretty incredible, huh? >> that is. wow. >> reporter: but who is it? when we last left searcher amanda holdiness, things were looking up for her as well. her ther's given her a name -- a man she says is her biological
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>> let me pop it open. >> reporter: now it's up to pam m to track him down. and just like that, she e es. >> reporter: in jupiter -- jupiter, florida. but her newfound father figure suggests they do a dna test. and the results are devastating. they are not related at all. so amanda, dejected, goes back to her mother, asking her for other names of tho who might be her father. >> i said, can you remember anybody else? she's like, the only person i can remember is samuel. >> reporter: and this was samuel skinner. >> correct. >> reporter: samuel skinner, a man amanda's mom lived with for a couple of years. pam finds samuel skinner living just down the gulf coast from amanda. in louisiana, just outside of new orleans. when skinner was dating amanda's mother, he was a firefighter in the military. today he enjoys feeding the
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looks a bit like santa clause. so, she called you and what did you say? >> she thought that i was her father. it was very shocking and my main question was, why so long? >> reporter: sam has spent the last 30 years thinking he only had one son. was re -- he wrong? back on long island,t was a longime coming as well for our searcher gina, to break down and finally caca her father's old girlfriend. remember, gina's dad fathered a child with her. gina's would-be half-sibling. why did you wait so long? >> what if i call and she denies it? but she's like, i have waited a litime for this phone call. >> reporter: wow. gina says the woman confirms the story about being forced to put a baby boyoyp for adoption. she tells gina that she has a
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name. gina immediately tells all this to pam. what did she need to launch this instigation? >> luckily i had the name. i knew probably where he was born. >> so i finally had a starting point. >> reporter: pam spends hours scrolling through birth index records and then a match. >> i realize that i am definitely looking at what i believe is her brother. >> reporter: ka-ching. wow. so pam makes the three hour r journey from southern new jersey to new york city to the east end of long island. to lend gina the support she needs for the phone call of her life. >> we are at gina's house and we are getting ready to contact her brother fothe very first time. >> this is so exciting. oh, my gosh. >> hi. >> hi, miss gina. >> hi, how are you? >> good. >> reporter: together they compare the photos of the man pam found and her father's
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unbelievable. >> reporter: remember, chris has no idea that he may even have a half- sister. >> here comes the moment. >> oh. the moment we've all been waiting for. >> reporter: gina is trembling. so nervous pam has to dial the phone for her. >> okay. i'm doing it. good luck. >> hi, can i speak to chris? >> reporter: but chris isn't home. it's chris' ' fe who answers the phone and gina doesn't want to leave a message. >> i'm actually searching for family so i'd really like to talk to him first. >> reporter: you had to coach her on what to say because it's important that you don't scare these people off. >> when you are contacting an adoptee, you don't really kn if they know that they're adopted. >> reporter: the wife sounds suspicious, but still gives out a number for chris. >> she was very nice, but l think she was a little taken aback.
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looking for chris. >> hi, chris? uy name is gina and is this a good time to talk? >> reporter: it is not going according to plan. >> can i call you back in a a w minutes? >> reporter: that telephone reunion 29 years in the making is falling apart. >e's on a conference call right now. >> reporter: 15 minutes go by. and this time he's not answering. >> oh, no, his voice mail answered. >> repororr: here comes attempt number three. gina doesn't want to pester, but she feels her chances slipping away. >> reporter: pam takes matters into her own hands. teing chris on gina's behalf. >> "hi, it's gina again. can you talk? i have information for you." i mean, it's enticing. >> if we don't hear back from him. >> we should call back the wife. >> reporter: up next, sometimes it's not sence that cracks the case.
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a weekend trip to a casino and gina thinks she, unbelievably, might be locking eyes with her missing brother. and it's all caught on tape. so you were having this reaction not because of what you saw -- >> oh, no. no, what i felt. >> reporter: stay tuned. >> our question for you tonight, if you got a phone call from a stranger like that, would you answer it? >> join the cobversation on facebook and twitter,use #abc2020. david and i will be right back.elieve that an ocean breeze is gonna blow it away? no. please. i know what clean smells like, bleach. the same bleach that knocks down dysentery. and cleans up crime scenes. you want to spend 3 bucks on liquid doubt, be my guest.
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she's come to the trickiest part of the search. hitting the phone harder than a telemarketer. >> my name is pam slaton. dna and databases are all well and good, but in the end it always comes down to persuading people to spill their family secrets to a total stranger over e telephone. pam makes a house call to client gina lozada on long island, new rk. >> hello, ms. gina. >> reporter: who is about to make her own life-changing call. after 29 years of searching, gina feels achingly close to making contact with her half-brother. he picked up briefly before, but nonothing. >> oh, god, he's not answering. >> reporter: gina's starting to wonder if this simply wasn't meant to be. in fact, it's not the first time she believes she hasasarely missed connecting with her brother. just days earlier, gina had a
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places, a casino. you and your hususnd decide to go gambling. >> yeah, we love atlantic city. >> reporter: take a look at the surveillance footage "20/20" has obtained from the golden nugget casino. you see gina and her husband suddenly come to a dead stop. gina says she is seized by the strangest feeling. you see her gesturing to her husband. she feels drawn to someone at the roulette table. ththe's gina. and see the gambler in the hat right there, not two feet away? a total stranger, but as the roulette ball bounces around, gina feels like her number just hit. >> oh, my god. that's my brother. >> reporter: what are the odds? >> total goosebumps. >> reporter: i can see them on your arm. >> my whole body just like, this is what happened. >> reporter: syou were having this reaction not because of what you saw. >> oh, no. no, what i felt. >> reporter: w wt do you think that was? >> i don't know what i believe in. but that was something from
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>> reporter: but if it was him, gina blows a chance to meet her big brother. she just can't work up the courage. you want to yell at the screen as she turns and walks away. days later, between those attempts to get chris on the phone, ginquestions his wife. >> let me ask you a question. was he just in the goldenugget on sunday? >> that was him. that was him. so many people spend their life wondering, you know, have i been in the same places as the person i'm looking for? is that the person i'm looking for across the room? they look like me. >> reporter: sometimes they are. >> exactly. >> reporter: sometimes they're right there. >> exactly. >> reporter: from gina's casino encounter, to rural mississippi, where pam is just in time for a
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>> this is the birthday boy. >> wow, look at that cake. >> reporter: amanda's son is turning 8. he may be wishing his mother's dream of finding her birth father is finally about to come true. pam and amanda and hererusband, mack, go to louisiana to meet a second man amanda's mother has identified as a possible father. his s me is sam skinner. >> i just really hope my journey ends here. >> reporter: when you met samuel for the firsrstime, what was that like? >> he couldn't keep his eyes. he kept on doing this and, i was like, why are you staring at me like that? he's like, girl, you are a spitting image of your mama. >> reporter: at their meeting and with many phone calls that follow, amanda and sam begin to bond. but just to be sure, sam agrees to take the final step to prove he's really amanda's long lost dad.
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i went to visit sam. you hope you are her biological dad? >> well, yes. who wouldn't want a 30-year-old daughter that's not ing to talk back to you no more and come around wanting money and already has grandkids you can spoil and send them home to them when i get --- who wouldn't want that? >> reporter: we were a little surprised to hear that sam says he's willing to be a father to amanda no matter what the dna results are. but he would insist that amanda stop searching. >> i think we would have to make some kind of arrangement. don't look for your other father then, no more. don't look anymore. you give me your love, i'll give you mine. >> reporter: but will amanda ever agree to that? depending on the dna results, she may not have to. meanwhile, there are some exciting new dna results for the man we affectionately call manger baby, d.j. williams. >> thereere two people who came up matching his dna very closely.
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these two pepele related? >> reporter: two dna matches. and that's when once again pam strikes gold. she figures out the man is d.j.'s uncle, and that woman, she is d.j.'s half-sister. >> and it was just like e christmas, i mean that for me was christmas, that was mind-blowing that it was such a direct dna hit. >> reporter: pam calls her. her name is rose and it turns out she's been on a search of her own. pam asks her why. >> and she said, you know, it's really funny, she said i just feel like there's something out there. >> reporter: what does that mean? >> i just fe like something's not right in my family, like there's a missing someone e om my family. >> reporter: rose has another revelation about the baby left at st. anne's church. >> i said, could you tell me what church your family attended? she said, wewe, i know that my
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>> reporter: st. anne's? >> yeah, st. anne's, which was -- >> reporter: the church where d.j. was left. >> so that was like, wow. thbig one. >> reporter: pam slaton drives to baltimore, where d.j. lives now to deliver the stunning news she has found his half-sister and birth mother. >> what we found out is that that person that matched you is your uncle and your half-sister because we were able to determine who your birth mother is. [ lauguger ] >> okay. >> i have goose bumps. >> it's just nervous laughter, by the w. >> are you shocked? >> yeah. >> yeah?
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>> this is your birth mother. >> oh. >> i can see that. >> i have her smile. >> yeah. >> that's crazy. >> reporter: but pam has heartbreaking news about the woman in the photo, the woman who left d.j. in the church, the mother he longed to meet, and maybe hug and hold. she is dead. >> unfortunately, she passed away. she passed away in 2013. >> reporter: still, this is not the end of d.j.'s journey, because pam has found four half-siblings. the family d.j. has always longng to know. and he's about to meet them in person. >> i had honestly given up hope for the longest time. wow. i just can't believe it.
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>> reporter: when our search continues. a reunion as big as texas. and we get the results of amanda's dna test. and so both of you took a dna test, right? >> yes, we did. >> reporter: and you have the results? >> i do. >> reporter: okay. stay with us. a shampoo system infused with luscious, lightweight oils. in just one wash hair looks instantly and visibly nourished. transforms dry hair without weighing it down. sumptuously soft, weightlessly flowing, brilliantly shiny. as if transfromed. extraordinary. an incredible rebirth for dry hair. new extraordinary oil from l'oreal advanced haircare paris. and you're worth it. you forgot the milk! that's lactaid . right. 100% r rl milk, just without the lactose. so, no discomfort? exactly. try some... mmm, it is real milk.
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located. and now her search brings her to investigative genealogist pam slaton. >> her biogical background. >> reporter: pam brought along dna detective and familytree dna founder bennett greenspan. amanda and her possible father, sam skinner, had both submitted and so both of you took a dna test, righgh >> yes, we did. >> reporter: and you have the results? >> i do. >> okay. let's see them. >> reporter: this is the second moment of truth for amanda, already let down by one other would-be father, excluded by dna. now, the results of the second man, sam skinner, with whom she and pam have bonded. >> i i itantly liked him and i loved seeing samuel and amanda together because there appeared to be like an instant connection and the two of them just, it was like they knew eh other their
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>> reporter: amanda, her husband mack and their children have already made room in their hearts for the man she can't wait to start calling dad. and sam is ready to answer to the name. he's already making plans, you know, for your kids. but can a lifetime of hopes and dreams survive the science? the dna results are in. >> the part of my job that i hate, and i know you've e en down on a long, long road. he is not your birth father. it's coming up negative. >> really? >> i'm sorry. you all right? i know. you've been down a long, tough road. >> okay. >> reporter: when the test came in, no match. >> that had to be one of the
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do, was to know that it wasn't a match and to have this girl who was so excited to finally put this behind her, and to give her this devastating news that it wasn't a match, was noan easy job to do. >> reporter: now amanda has to share the bad news with the man who was almost her father. >> hello? >> hey, samuel? >> yeah. is this amanda? >> yeah, this is amanda. >> what't'going on? >> they told me what the results are with the dna. >> okay, and? >> it's not good. >> reporter: in his own gruff way, sam couldn't have been more gentle and kind than if he actually had been amanda's biological dad. >> don't g discouraged. don't think bad. just think positive. >> but there is one unresolved issue between them.
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met him in new orleans? >> if i'm not the real father, i mean, we'll sit back and talk. if she's going to use me as a father, and i said that, use, we forget about the rest. don't go looking no more. >> reporter: he did tell me that he would be willing to be your dad,randfather to your kids, but his one condition was that you stop looking. >> wow. >> reporter: amanda is stunned. but now on the phone, sam is ready to stay in amanda's life with no conditions. in fact, he encourages her to keep looking for her biological father. >> i hope you don'n'stop your search. and i hope you keep continuing on and find what you need. >> i thi he fell in love with her. he must have really loved amanda's mother and i think he felt that connection and i think he really truly wanted to be her
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biological father, he cared enough about her to step in and, and take over as her father anyway. >> reporter: and yet for amanda, that wasn't enough. >> even though she has an emotional need to find a father, she also wants that real blood connection. >> reporter: so she's still looking. >> right. we're still looking. >> reporter: but will our otr searcher cases have far better outcomes? after that fateful casino encounter, hours of unanswered calls straight to voicemail, followed by frantic texting and about five miles of pacing, all the love bottled up inside g ga for 29 years is about to finally come pouring out. >> here we go. >> reporter: she finally gets the man she is convinced is her long lost half brother on the phone. >> hi chris, it's gina.
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yes, i finally found you. are you shocked? oh! >> reporter: something so many of us might take for granted, a simple phone call. in this case, life-changing. for both of them. >> wow, this is crazy. i've been looking for you for 29 years, chris. >> reporter: gina has a million questions. >> what do you do for at&t? do you have any children? you have a stepdaughter, but do you have any other? no children? how long have you been married? what date in september did you get married? wow. my mother guessed that date actually. that was her parents' anniversary as well. >> reporter: later -- >> we'll do it. >> reporter: -- they make an appointment to meet in person, and you're invited to the reunion. that's still to come. >> well, it was great finally talking to you and i'm very happy that i found you. >> reporter: down in baltimore, d.j. williams is happy too, getting ready to meet his family. but can his brand new texas
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since the day i was born continues on "20/20." >> reporter: a lucky summer day in atlantic city, new jersey. after 29 years of searching, gina lozada is heading back to the golden nugget casino to collect a jackpot. gina had spotted this man, chris depaolo, who she is sure is her half-brother. now, her head-spinning moment at the roulette wheel iabout to be trumped by this. >> hi!
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let me look at you. >> oh, my gosh. you look so much like your dad. unbelievable. >> reporter: sometimes just one hug is not enough. chris and gina return to that same roulette table at the golden nugget where she had that jolt of intuition about the gambler in the hat. >> you were oblivious. and you were just playing and focused. it was just so funny. i sat there and watched you and it was just crazy because i knew it was you. >> it's crazy. >> i just thank her. i mean, thank her and be a good brother. >> reporter: chris and gina say they are so sure their personal details match up that they don't want or need a dna test. they say they know. >> reporter: there are lots of siblings who grew up and spent their whole life together and might not be as close as gina and chris seem to be. >> i think he's just -- he was
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had ever known. >> if you ask her, she would tell you he does. >> reporter: right. right. meanwhile, anda, even after two devastating false leads in her search for her biological father, still hasn't lost hope. she gets a p talk from pam slaton and our dna detective bennett greenspan. >> i brought bennett here because it was important for me that you remain hopeful and optimistic. >> i know this is painful news, but you have a lot to be hopeful for. thousands and thousands of people are testing every month and they're adding their samples to the database. i think it's only a matter of time. >> i feel like i've been on this journey with you. i have been. i will remain committed to you and getting to the bottom of this, i promise you. >> reporter: and in houston, the biggest reunion of all, d.j. williams, also known as
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meet -- for the first time in his life -- blood relatives. three half-sisters and a half-brother. and here they come, marching down the sidewalk and right into d.j.'s life. d.j.'s first hug -- and it's a long hug -- goes to rose, then katie, robert, and finally kirsten. for the first time since he was left alone in a church 44 years before, d.j. is in the arms of the biological family he never knew. >> so what are you thinking? >> you look like o uncle john. >> reporter: but amid the joy, there is tension as well, because d.j. now has to tell them the story. they have no idea he ws abandoned, left in a manger alone. now heells them what their mother did. >> i guess i should start
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>> yeah. >> when i was about five days old, i was found in the nativity scene of st. anne's catholic church.. i was well cared for, very a stack of diapers and some formula with me. but looking back on e story and what i know now, i think that i was left there because that was the safest place that i could have been left at that time. i was born in december, so it was around christmas time. and, uh -- and so that would be the safest place that i would be found. i know that this information is
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this is the article that ran in the "houston post." i know this is a lot to take in. >> reporter: d.j.'s search continues. the other big unknown -- his birth father. maybe, just maybe, he's out there somewhere watching tonight. there is one other person who was there almost from the very beginning of d.j.'s amazing journey -- the young social worker photographed so long ago, cradling the foundling in her arms. her name was catherine fitting, and we found her, living in colorado. she was happy to fly back to see d.j. again for the first time in more than 40 years.
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i did. >> he was the most precious baby. you were a beautiful, beautiful baby. >> reporter: as r his birth mother, sadly, d.j.'s half-siblings -- all born later -- have no clue why she did what she did. but d.j. says he can live with that. really? you can be at peace with just knowing who she is, not why she did what she did? >> exactly. i mean, for me, it -- it was about finding that connection. you know, you're like a -- like you're just floating in the sea and you don't have any anchor to -- to hold onto. and so now i -- i have something
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if you are looking for a lost loved one, we want to hear from you. go to abcnews.com. i'm elizabeth vargas. >> so many of you responding to our first report. can't wait to hear from you again. i'm david muir. have a good night. >> a developing story, a violent home invasion, leaving one man dead, two women many the hospital, and three suspects on the run. >> anchor: a lawyer accused of getting intimate with an inmate, and having sex at the broward county jail. >> anchor: gold hold up, a boy just 13 years old, targeted by an armed robber held bent on
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