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♪ i know what few can do ♪ how angry words can pierce the heart ♪ ♪ how a soul can sink so low ♪ i feel like a forgotten man, yes ♪ ♪ i feel like a forgotten man ♪ well, i feel like i'm forever damned ♪
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♪ since our love is gone ♪ no lust no rage ♪ no wicked thoughts ♪ just pain that lingers on ♪ i feel like a forgotten man ♪ i feel like a forgotten man yes ♪ ♪ i feel like a forgotten man [ cheers and applause ] see more tom petty and the heartbreakers and catch other future digital exclusives from the band, go the mayspace.com/"jimmy kimmel live." ♪
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[ cheers and applause ] >> jimmy: i want to thank kerry washington. i want to apologize to matt damon. we did run out of time for him. this is the new album. it's called "hypnotic eye." here with the song, "you get me
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high," once again, tom petty and the heartbreakers. [ cheers and applause ] ♪ i remember feeling like this i think it was as a child ♪ ♪ inspiration at my fingertips imagination running wild ♪ ♪ oh, oh, oh ♪ oh, you get me high you get me high ♪
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♪ you give me something so deep you get me high ♪ ♪ i remember feeling this way ♪ you can lose it without knowing ♪ ♪ you wake up and you don't know ♪ ♪ which way the wind is blowing ♪ ♪ oh, you get me high you get me high ♪ ♪ you give me something so deep you get me high ♪
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♪ i ain't afraid of what people say ♪ ♪ ain't afraid of the great deception ♪ ♪ every bad dream comes my way ♪ turns to smoke on closer inspection ♪ ♪ oh, oh, oh ♪ oh, you get me high you get me high ♪ ♪ you give me something so deep
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you get me high ♪ ♪ ♪ oh, you get me high you get me high ♪ ♪ you give me something so deep you get me high ♪ ♪
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[ cheers and applause ] this is "nightline." >> tonight, sexual healing. not everyone's getting lucky. even for celebs, like meghan fox. sex can be hard to come by. >> my oldest son sleeps in bed with us. >> now, couples in sexless marriages are going to extremes to get the spark back. >> what if we had sex every night for the next month? >> he was like, yeah. >> talk about commitment. >> and it was a lot of fun. ♪ talk dirty to me
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plus, talking dirty never sounded so good. but jason derulo hasn't forgotten his roots. now, the pop star with the soundtrack to summer, shows us how he keeps that body wiggle-worthy. >> i feel like i'm in the time of my life. and homecoming king. lebron is back. the four-time mvp returns to the cleveland cavaliers. how fans welcomed him home. but first, "the nightline five." ♪ things are going to go my way i think it's going to be my lucky day ♪ ♪ my lucky day ♪ now's my chance now's my time ♪ ♪ it's looking up and it will be fine ♪ >> fill their bowl with the meaty taste they're looking for, with friskies tender grillers. in delicious chicken, beef,
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good evening. i'm dan abrams. it's the topic everyone seems to think about but many just aren't doing. sex. whether it's babies, chores or life getting in the way, many couples have just thrown in the towel. so, how do you re-ignite that spark? we followed the extreme measures one couple took to get their groove back. here's abc's abbie boudreau. >> that beautiful smile, meghan. >> reporter: when you think of hollywood bombshells like megan fox, you would imagine her real-life romance to be just as steamy as we see in movies.
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but not so says megan. sex for her and her husband, seems to be rather challenged nowadays. as she told the ladies of "the view." >> it's slowed down, which happens to all moms. >> my oldest son sleeps in bed with us. there's really no way. >> reporter: and megan's not alone. for many couples, life gets in the way. and there's little to no time for sex. some have sex only once a month. meg connolly and riley bingham know all about that. married for eight years, they had little time for sex between their hectic jobs and two, young daughters. >> life got busier with a child, and school and work. the laundry list got so long. and sometimes there was laundry. we got busy and we started to miss each other. >> reporter: worried she was losing touch with her husband, she decided they should embark on a sexpierement.
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have sex every day for 30 days. >> he got home from work that night. what if we just have sex every night for the next month? he said, yeah, what if we do? so, we did. and it was a lot of fun. >> reporter: you're thinking, oh, my gosh. >> hit the lottery. i dropped my bag out of shock. >> reporter: why did you want to do this in the first place? >> when we were first married, there was a lot of sex and it was fun. what bothered me was we hadn't hands. >> reporter: were you noticing that you weren't as intimate as often? >> absolutely. >> reporter: what did you think? >> how do you sleep next to someone and you miss them? >> reporter: meg wrote about their journey on her blog, really striking a chord with couples. some called her idea brilliant, genius. others questioned her ways.
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i don't buy at all. >> for many couples, one of the biggest challenges is we tend to put everyone else first. we worry about our children. we worry about our work lives. and we take for granted the partner who may be laying next to us. >> reporter: instead of watching reruns, meg and riley focused their attention on each other. >> just for the record. was it every night you're actually doing the deed, correct? >> yes. >> reporter: did you ever feel like, i am just too tired today? >> totally. >> reporter: and it started to feel like a chore? >> there were times i would look in the bathroom mirror and psych myself up. you can do this. it's okay that you're tired. it's okay that you're insecure about your body. this is important. i craved it. i craved the time with him. i craved the sex. i craved what it was doing for our marriage. it was fabulous. after the 30 days was up, we just kept going. >> reporter: but experts say it's not about the quantity, but the quality. >> if it starts to feel like
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it's a chore, if there isn't genuine pleasure that's coming from the 30 nights of sex. sex is supposed to be pleasurable. it's supposed to be enjoyable. and if it feels like a chore, it's not going to be good for your relationship. >> reporter: these days, there's a whole industry out there to help couples unlock the secrets to a lasting libido. from swingers club. >> this is swing school. swing school is how we welcome beginners into the lifestyle. >> reporter: and mommy mojo classes. >> anybody read erotica this week? no. >> reporter: to erratic boudoir photos, capturing couples at their sexiest. for this couple, the extra intimacy was exactly what they needed, becoming more open and vulnerable. what do you think this did for your marriage? >> it added excitement. he would come home from work. and he'd come into the kitchen, pick me up and twirl me around.
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it felt like we were kids again. we were talking more. the lines of communication really opened up. >> we talked more. we would be more generous. less selfish. we were on the same team again. instead of two separate players doing two separate things became more two people doing the same thing for each other and for the better good of our family and our lives. it was just phenomenal. >> reporter: what can you do to avoid a sexless marriage? >> finding ways to show your partner that you care about them, one or two times a day. it's probably more than we're doing already. and those type of little things lead to more. and better sex. >> reporter: for meg and riley, though they're no longer having sex every day, the couple makes time for one another. >> we make a point to be intimate every day, whether it's hand-holding or kissing. it has to be something just her and i, where we feel close. whatever it is that day, it's just us. >> reporter: for "nightline,"
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abbie boudreau, provo, utah. next, will life imitate art for "marry me" singer jason derulo? he opens up about his almost proposal to a certain other famous singer. proposal to a certain other famous singer. ♪ will you marry me i ruggled to get going,, even get through the day. so i was honest with my doctor. i told him i'd been feeling stuck for a long time. he said that for some people, an antidepressant alone only helps so much and suggested we add abilify (aripiprazole). he said that by taking both, some people had symptom improvement as early as 1 to 2 weeks. i wish i'd talked to my doctor sooner. [ female announcer ] abilify is not for everyone. call your doctor if your depression worsens or you have unusual changes in behavior, or thoughts of suicide. antidepressants can increase these in children, teens and young adults. elderly dementia patients taking abilify have an increased risk of death or stroke. call your doctor if you have high fever, stiff muscles and confusion to address a possible life-threatening condition.
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he's the man behind the soundtrack to summer. but that's not jason derulo's only impressive body of work. he's picked up many talents on the path to pop stardom. and tonight, he's talking dance
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and romance. abc's cecilia vega got a private show for our series, "on the town." >> reporter: when most other musicians are still asleep, at 7:00 a.m., jason derulo is lunging up the hollywood hills. >> people probably think i'm fit for my shows. but it's not that at all. i probably workout twice besides the show, every, single day. >> reporter: those moves do require stamina. but here's the funny thing about the pop star known for getting down while talking dirty. ♪ talk dirty to me >> reporter: and wiggling. ♪ wiggle, wiggle, wiggle >> reporter: known for his rock-hard abs and his rock-solid relationship with singer jordin spar sparks, is also a classically-trained musician.
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derulo studied opera, ballet and -- do you tap? >> i do. >> reporter: you do? >> hard-core. >> reporter: show me. do your best shuffle. >> three, two, one. >> reporter: whoa. that's impressive. >> yeah. >> reporter: but not nearly as impressive as his resume. three number one hits, more than 20 million singles sold in the u.s. alone. and more than a billion views on youtube. and by the way, this industry veteran is only 24. give me a list of the people you were working with when you were 16 years old. >> anybody from pitbull to candy cane to cassidy to sean kingston. >> reporter: raised in miami, the son of immigrants was still in high school when he was writing for some of the biggest names in music. >> i was jealous of all these people.
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i was always this close. >> reporter: what's that feel like when you pour your heart and your mind, your brain, into these songs and then someone else gets the credit for it? >> if you're a song writer and you like to be behind the scenes, it's all good. but if you want to be the person in the spotlight, it's like torture. it's like hanging a steak in front of a dog. >> reporter: he's in the spotlight now. deru derulo's latest album has been called the soundtrack of the summer. this fall, he takes his tour to the u.s. at this los angeles dance studio, we found derulo scouting backup dancers for his performance at this weekend's teen choice award, where he's up for four awards, including best male artist. all these performers, waiting for this exact moment, a shot to show off their moves to the man in the corner. this was you for a long time, right? you know exactly what they're going through. >> i know what they're going through. but that's rough. you're waiting all day for your chance. and your chance comes and they
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tell you, okay, thank you. you just have to go home. you literally got 30 seconds. it's brutal in this industry. only the best survive. >> reporter: he speaks from experience. he's faced his fair share of critics. the word misogyny keeps coming up. sexism. >> you can take any song and say anything about it. but i'm in the booth and i'm making a song called wiggle, you know what to do with that big, fat butt. nowhere in my mind am i thinking, i'm objectifying women. i'm just making a fun song. it's not necessarily to tell a woman, you know what to do with that big, fat butt, like i'm being like abusive or anything like that. it's literally just a fun song that's not really supposed to be taken in that light. >> reporter: even though he's been on the charts for years, this was his breakout song, "what you say."
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♪ how i live with myself knowing that i let love go ♪ >> reporter: it seems he hasn't managed to break into the ranks of top superstardom. and he has a theory why. >> i make pop music. besides rihanna, you don't see african-americans on the pop charts like that. >> reporter: do you think you had to knock a little louder, work a little harder, jump a little higher to get noticed because you're african-american in pop? >> yeah. still at this point, for sure. >> reporter: now, with this new album, hip-hop keeps coming up as a label. is that a fair box to put you in? >> not even close. if you call me hip-hop, you're completely just saying you're hip-hop because you're black. >> reporter: despite all of that, he says it's his fighting spirit that has propelled him forward throughout his career. derulo has earned a reputation for an insane work ethic inside the studio and out. after all, these abs don't come easy. >> you kind of feel like rocky
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when you get up to the top. you know what i mean? you feel like you've done something. >> reporter: these days, he's even working out with a broken wrist from a recent basketball injury. >> my body, actually, after breaking my rib, i got a little -- got a little pudge happening. i'm trying to get this thing back together. >> reporter: he's been hurt much worse. two years ago, while rehearsing a back flip, derulo fell and broke his neck. >> i was either supposed to be paralyzed or not here at all. it's totally a miracle. >> reporter: his new song, "trumpets," a celebration of love. ♪ the trumpets they go >> reporter: his comeback, he says, taught him to be truer to his music. >> at the beginning of my career, i was playing a role. now, somebody doesn't like it, give them the finger. >> reporter: and truer to himself. >> i really feel like i'm in the prime of my life. and i think a lot of people don't notice when the prime of
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their life is. and they kind of miss out on it. >> reporter: at the center of his life today, his girlfriend of more than two years, former "american idol" winner jordin sparks. derulo's song "marry me," yeah. it's all about her. >> i wanted her to know that when the time is right, it will happen. it will be the most amazing time when i do get down on one knee. it will be one of the most amazing experiences of my life. when the time is right. >> reporter: what do you love about her? >> she is exactly like my mother. always thinking about others before she thinks about herself. supercharitable. we're such opposites. just like polar. >> reporter: really? >> i think that's what works. >> reporter: the other ladies in derulo's life. ♪ i'm not that kind of girl >> reporter: sweet suspense, an up-and-coming girl group he signed to his record label and now is coaching. >> that special something. >> reporter: today, derulo has
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what he wanted years ago, when he was that song writer, jealous of others in the spotlight. so, is site all he hoped it would be? he says, sort of. >> more money, more problems. you know, that's what they say. >> reporter: has it been true for you? >> yeah. but nobody wants to be broke. >> reporter: is it lonely? >> it can get lonely. for sure. you feel like you're by yourself when there's hundreds of people around. >> reporter: despite the loneliness that can come with success, derulo says his songs, whether raunchy or romantic, are really about connecting with people and their emotions. >> you're having a bad day. and your favorite song comes on the radio. and it brightens your day. you know, it's there for a reason. "marry me" is for a specific reason. "trumpets" is for a specific reason. all these songs are worlds apart. and i made them for a reason. ♪ vertigo >> "vertigo," it's the best in
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the world making songs out there. >> reporter: that's the reason for that song? >> yeah. absolutely. >> reporter: for "nightline," i'm cecilia vega, in los angeles. next, lebron james is coming back. and tonight, they were hot in cleveland. ♪ yeah, girl ♪ you know, i've been thinking about us ♪ ♪ and, uh, i just can't fight it anymore ♪ ♪ it's bundle time ♪ bundle ♪ mm, feel those savings, baby and that's how a home and auto bundle is made. better he learns it here than on the streets. the miracle of bundling -- now, that's progressive. if you're suffering from constipation or irregularity,

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