tonight, on an all-new "20/20." the oldest thing from the newest way. the new sex. first, the underground world of sex with strangers, just to have a baby. joe college becomes joe donor, the old-fashioned way. baby daddy. and the tinder explosion. forget chemistry, it's all about your looks. 30 million users and continuing. photo finish. plus, two of the world's biggest

adult stars, and now they're set to get married. he's still working in the business, so how does honey i'm home go over? strange bedfellows. and men have viagra. so do women. but the government won't let them have it. tonight, new world, new sex. here now, david muir and elizabeth vargas. >> good evening, and here we go. we're diving right into a debate this friday night. for most couples, when a husband strays, it can end it all. but this one, it keeps things going. >> when this woman says how was

your day at the office, it takes on a whole new meaning. >> reporter: the seductive lights of hollywood lure thousands each year in search of their big break. for kayden kross and manuel ferarra the dream came true. >> your business from the outside looking in, it looks like it would be easy and fun. >> it looks really easy from the outside. you're putting a camera in front of two people who are doing something that comes naturally. but -- there's a lot more to it. >> reporter: but these two don't live on rodeo drive in beverly hills, and their films aren't playing at your local theater. you're more likely to find them online. what was your reaction when the first person said to you, "i think you should do an adult film?" >> i never watched porn. i didn't have any feeling on it one way or the other. it just was not on my radar. it was more like, "huh." like, as if someone had just said, "oh, you could be an astronaut." it was, like, that far out of left field. >> reporter: she was discovered near sacramento.

by 21 kayden had made her first porn and within two years she was one of the highest paid performers in a $5 billion a year industry. that first film, aptly titled "kayden's first time", was with manuel. >> hey. >> don't worry about it. >> reporter: a veteran of the industry and at the time a married father. >> that's how you met? >> yeah, we met -- >> on your very first shoot? >> didn't go, like, really great, as far as a connection between the two of you? >> i mean, i was so nervous about how am i going to be perceived and does my makeup look bad and are they gonna really find out that i can't act and then there was that little fear that didn't occur to me until i was on set. where i started thinking, "what if i've been doing sex wrong my entire life and now i go and try to do it on camera and it -- like, everyone knows?" >> reporter: "that's not how you do it." >> right. like, i really thought, like, "what if -- what if no one told me i've been doing it wrong this whole time?" and you were gracious. but i -- i was bad. >> is that how you remember it? >> i only remember her -- incredible. >> no, no, that's not true.

that's not true. you're lying. >> reporter: it would be four years before they would meet again -- and when they did life looked very different. kayden was now a full-fledged porn star and manuel's marriage was head ed for divorce. >> i remember he showed up. and i was, like, mid-sentence. and i saw him. "that guy is beautiful." >> reporter: that movie was called "the smiths" and much like brad and angelina on the set of "mr. and mrs. smith" sparks flew. >> that's you. >> reporter: who's more embarrassed watching this? you or -- >> look, we're gonna k -- yes. and we're in love. >> reporter: kayden and manuel became porn's golden couple -- the brangelina of the industry. but as they fell in love manuel found it difficult to watch

kayden work. for the sake of their relationship kayden agreed to stop having sex with other men on camera even though she was making more money and manuel would continue to perform with other women. >> it was a lot of money to walk away from. >> why did you walk away from it? >> but it was a thorn in the side of our relationship. >> i'm a jealous person. >> reporter: so despite the fact that kayden was saying, "this is just business"? >> it's very difficult to understand how it's okay for me to do it and not for her. >> reporter: why is it? >> i know that when she did scenes with other guys, she would come home to me and love me. and i know that. i also know she was really good at her job. so it made it a little difficult. >> he just didn't want me there. and i could see it in his eyes. it wasn't like he went crazy. you could just tell it -- it bothered him. it hurt him. >> reporter: manuel admits his jealousy is a double standard but he says his sex on porn sets is strictly business.

>> so even though your job involves this incredibly most intimate physical experience two people can share, you're able to have a wall around it? >> of course. completely. it's not because i am having sex with a person in a scene that i'm gonna hold hands with her after the scene. we're done, we're done. >> reporter: today kayden has taken on a new role, more domestic goddess, than sex goddess. nine months ago she and manuel welcomed a daughter and these days the woman who starred in more than 70 adult films is more likely to be found at the park than on a porn set. it's a new spin on the common perception of a porn star. both kayden and manuel went to college, they're both are family and career focused and kayden's even a burgeoning writer. for many publications most notably "the new york times." do you think people would be surprised to see how the two of you live? how pretty normal this is? >> a lot of people are.

i often hear people say, "you could have done anything. why did you do this?" okay, well, tell me what anything is and how it puts me at age 29 with the love of my life and a baby in a nice house with my retirement set up, a good chunk of money in the bank, residual income, and all the free time to spend with people i love. >> so you can be talking as you come up. >> reporter: manuel has started directing his own films. with kayden even pitching in to help out with the wardrobe for the very women that will go on to have sex with manuel. you did write, quote, "i'm human. and i admit i size up the women in the makeup chair. is she sexier than i am? smarter, better in bed?" >> yeah, i do. i size them up. doesn't mean i get threatened and feel like he can't go to work now. but i'm -- i'm aware. i'm watching. >> reporter: think that sounds progressive? well how about living right next to your fiance's ex-wife? in addition to your normal life here, your normal life extends to your ex-wife. >> yes.

>> she lives right there. >> reporter: as in right next door. manuel's ex-wife dana vespoli is also in the family business. a porn performer and director, she lives just steps away with their three young sons, completing this very modern family. >> it works out. it makes sense. it's just, sort of, easier for everyone. >> what do they think mommy and daddy do for a living? >> they understand that we work in some aspect of production. >> so he knows you're making movies but not what kind of movies? >> exactly. >> reporter: but these parents know the day is coming when they will have to have a hard conversation about just what kind of movies they make. >> it's not gonna define us as parents. >> are you at all worried about the day that they see one of your movies? or the questions that they might have? >> the questions -- they're not gonna be fun questions to -- it's not like we're looking forward to that day. >> we all want the same things and we all love our kids. and we all work really hard to provide for them and to keep the family strong. and that's all that matters. and then -- secondary is like, "and, by the way, we make porn." "oh, i would have never

guessed." that's usually how it goes. >> yeah, like that. >> reporter: manuel is looking forward to the day when he can stop performing and focus solely on directing. do you think you'll miss that? >> i don't think so, no. >> you'll be ready to give up having sex with thousands of women to just this one woman? >> i've -- that's weird. i don't want to sound cheesy, but it's almost like i started porn so one day i could meet her. i know it sounds cheesy. it is cheesy, isn't it? i don't want to sound cheesy. next, tinder, the all-new match game. chemistry can wait. this is picture perfect animal attraction. we're going on dates to find out, when the new sex continues.

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>> yeah, that's a no. >> reporter: alyssa here is deciding, often in less than a second, whether she finds a slew of guys attractive or not. so, this is you rejecting them. >> no, no, this me swiping through all of their pictures. and then -- >> that's the rejection. >> mm-hmm. >> reporter: just bang, like that. steven is doing the same. >> it's ridiculously simple. >> reporter: it is ridiculously tinder. it's revolutionary. it's all about the way you look, period. online dating sites like match.com and e-harmony promise "ms. or mr. right," but first a long questionnaire. tinder offers ms. or mr. right now with as little background information as possible. >> i just feel like my generation, there's an app for it. >> and it's instant. >> yeah. >> it's not that your lazy? it's just this is available to you so why would you do it any other way? >> exactly. >> reporter: swipe right on a photo if you like it. >> so she's cute. >> reporter: swipe left if you don't. just a bad vibe? >> yeah.

>> reporter: if you both swipe right? >> just got a match. >> it's a match, you message, maybe meet, maybe more, maybe marriage. you have hooked up with girls through tinder? your mom's not watching. >> yeah, i have. >> are we talking once or twice, or are we talking 65 to 70 times? >> um, let's just say i have. >> how many matches have you had on this? >> let's see. 1,775. >> that's a lot. >> yeah, it is a lot. >> reporter: all the cool kids are doing it. 1.3 billion swipes every day -- according to tinder's founder and ceo 28-year old sean rad. all this swiping has landed him cover boy status on this month's forbes magazine. >> you're just the modern day hugh hefner, promoting sex. selling sex. right? >> no. we are making it incredibly easy for two people to meet. what they decide to do with that

is up to them. >> reporter: meetings based on four photos and maybe, maybe a one line blurb. star signs, favorite movies, favorite food, whether you like george michael or not, i mean, that doesn't matter? >> it matters in the long run maybe. but when it comes to developing that initial impression, we don't believe that that is necessarily the most important factor. >> reporter: we hate to admit it as a species, but looks probably matter most. you look at one photo. >> sure, sure. >> which is kind of caveman? >> it's efficient. somebody told me the other day that he's been exposed to more women in the last year than probably his ancestors have in a lifetime. >> reporter: rad boasts he met his own girlfriend on tinder. he swiped right, and he matched heiress alexa dell, daughter of billionaire computer magnate michael dell. he was lucky. it's a very simple idea? >> simplicity is sometimes very complicated. >> reporter: if the balcony scene from "romeo and juliet" was the old sex -- >> see how she leans her cheek upon her hand.

>> reporter: then, tinder is the new sex -- half of its users are between the ages of 18 and 24. >> i know when i don't like someone. i can tell immediately. >> reporter: it's just gut intuition? >> mm-hmm. >> reporter: alyssa, by the way, made a match, set a date. >> i really don't know that much about him. >> reporter: we'll get back to that a little later. tinder has penetrated society so deep, popular video bloggers like chris thompson are ranting about it on youtube. >> for every shirtless [ bleep ] on there, there is a duck-faced idiot girl. >> me and my grandma. >> dude, perfect. i respect women, love my grandma. >> and, have you had bad dates? >> oh, yeah! 'cause there's one thing that tinder can't do, and it can't tell you if you have chemistry with somebody. >> reporter: no chemistry equals bad date. and ticked off tinderites aren't afraid to post intimate details of dates gone awry on websites

like instagram and reddit. and just this week, this nosy new yorker couldn't resist live tweeting excruciating details of a tinder date at the next table. >> it became pretty clear early on that it was a first date. she tweeted, "sitting next to the most obnoxious tinder couple ever." "dude just casually admitted it's his third tinder date of the day." >> he was very proud of not only been on tinder, but having been a bit of a master at tinder. >> reporter: it gets worse. "he's swiping though tinder while she's in the bathroom." >> he was swiping to the right the whole time. i was amazed. i thought it was so obnoxious. >> reporter: our boy chris is hoping for a better outcome. he's made a match. she's late. >> if she doesn't show up, that's okay! >> reporter: back to chris in a minute. but first, is this superficial sorting actually the way to go? >> physical attraction is critical, it really is critical. it doesn't keep a marriage together, but it starts a marriage.

>> reporter: sociologist jess carbino lectures at loyola marymount and, she moonlights as a paid consultant, analyzing tinder behavior. are these kids dating differently than, you know, i did ten years ago, than my parents did? >> i think that young people are definitely engaging more in a hook-up culture than they have been historically. >> reporter: now, there are, of course, some tinder dos and don'ts. >> if you do a mirror picture with the phone. it's absolutely no. >> reporter: bawdy talk, too soon, is often off putting. >> oh my goodness. >> yeah. >> that's pretty forward. >> uh-huh, and that's his first message too. >> we can't even tell you what that guy said. >> reporter: posting pix with cute friends is actually a good idea. >> there's the effect of when you're posting with another person, and they're more attractive then you, they make you look more attractive. >> reporter: which brings us back to chris and his tinder date. >> well, she's about 25 minutes late. maybe she was just getting extra pretty for me. >> reporter: the lovely dana is a show. >> hey!

>> how are you? >> the hardest part when it comes to tinder, is that you don't know if they're going to be how they represented themselves and she did. she's awesome! >> he's got a great personality, super sweet, and i thought we'd have a lot in common. >> reporter: and alyssa's date brian showed up too. and so did i. seems to be getting on. he's relatively good looking, you both matched. what did you like online about each other? >> you know what, i didn't put much thought into it. really. >> jeez! wow! >> reporter: and why did you swipe yes on this guy? >> his blue eyes. the blue eyes, the dark features, tan. >> reporter: yeah. the blue eyes are working for you. >> definitely working for you. >> reporter: alyssa telling us she found herself a good one. so what do you think? >> i think he's really cute. >> reporter: yeah? >> yeah. >> reporter: this could be tinder working? >> this could be tinder working. >> reporter: is our smart phone now in charge of our sex lives? >> we're certainly yielding a

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now to strangers meeting in a hotel room, but it's not what you think. they're meeting to conceive a baby. debra roberts with the hidden way to build a family. >> reporter: 23-year-old kyle says he has the right stuff to be anybody's baby daddy. >> right now i'm attending university. both my siblings are engineers. the nuclear engineer is my twin.

i eat only sperm-friendly food. >> reporter: sperm-friendly food? >> wheat. brown rice. you know, stuff like that. >> reporter: he says he's a top student, studying for his masters in accounting. he's also a donor offering his sperm, free of charge, to women desperate for a baby. how did you come up with this idea of inseminating women? >> i knew a girl and she was like, "oh, you should be like a sperm donor. 'cause, you know, you have like good genes and stuff." >> reporter: you're not getting paid. what's in it for you besides random sex with a lot of women? >> it's like wow, like i just made life, like i'm passing on my legacy and giving these people kids. >> reporter: he's part of the online underworld of "natural insemination," where some believe that having sex with a sperm donor is the best hope for pregnancy. >> here's my ad i posted. i just put like a picture of me as a kid and a picture of me as an adult.

>> reporter: we went to kyle's home. yes, this is where life may begin, with a boost from kyle's super food, naked juice. >> i'm ready. >> my name is serena. >> reporter: she's never been married, and longs for a child. >> my name is serena and i'm here today to visit my sperm donor kyle. >> reporter: a 44-year-old insurance broker, she's never been married and longs for a child. >> have you always wanted to have children? sometimes career and life just gets in the way and then oops, i'm 38, oops, i'm 40. >> have you given any thought to the traditional route? >> reporter: unable to afford sperm clinics which can cost thousands, serena turned to the internet for help. the words "free sperm" led her

to kyle. what if you could afford in vitro, would you go that route? >> absolutely. without a doubt, i'd go to in vitro, i'd go to a cryo-bank if i could afford it. >> reporter: during the long two hour drive to kyle's, serena spoke of her hopes and her fears. did you specifically want a white donor? >> no. i'm from a multi-cultural family, so i'm not gonna say, well he has to be, you know, african american. >> what makes you think you're going to get pregnant at 44 when the statistics show that your chances are going to diminish at this age? >> i still have a strong feeling in my heart that i'm meant to be a mom. >> do you think he would be a good biological match for you? >> yes. i think he is the right match for me. >> i think we're ready. >> reporter: 20 minutes later, the deed is done. and the waiting begins. >> it went well. >> just wait 30 minutes for the sperm to settle. >> so you have sex and then what after? >> he makes sure that i, um, prop myself up. and that's when he does his homework. >> reporter: homework? >> i have this essay i want to

get your thoughts on. >> this is really good. >> what grade would you give it, be honest? >> i would say 86. >> and then you walk out and, thank you, see you later. it's like, see you next time! that's if she isn't pregnant in a few weeks. >> i know he's smart. it's hard to find the right donor. >> reporter: in fact, one third of women online opt for "natural insemination." among them this woman we'll call katherine. she already has an adorable four year old son. but longs for another child. how much does it mean to you to try to get pregnant? >> oh, it means everything. and i want my son to have a sibling, most of all. >> reporter: afraid of what her friends might think, she asked to remain anonymous. >> i always had that fairytale growing up, thinking that i'd find the right man. hopefully, i find the right man, eventually, but maybe he won't be the biological father of my children. >> reporter: after three failed tries with artificial insemination, she's now willing

to do it the old fashioned way though medical experts dispute that. >> i had read a couple of books that talked about fresh semen being a lot more effective than frozen sperm. >> reporter: when she met her donor at a local coffee shop, he nearly stopped her heart. >> i thought he was cute. and i was kind of like a giddy schoolgirl in a way. but yet i had to keep reminding myself this is a donor not a date. >> reporter: they had sex only once, yet she can't shake the memory. and when he left, what was that moment like? >> oh, it was sad. but it's the route i've chosen. and that was the hard part. it's still the hard part. >> reporter: while catherine tries to navigate this complicated balancing act, a thousand miles away, a man who calls himself "joe" has no illusions about love. >> i prefer to meet in a hotel.

>> reporter: he asked us to hide his face and disguise his voice because of the double life he says he leads on the web. >> reporter: i have a clark kent life. then i have the superman life. some people might want to have millions of dollars in the bank. and then, some of us might want to have dozens of children out there. >> reporter: he says he's an internet entrepreneur with a wife, three teen kids and a big secret. >> there's a kid in texas, detroit, wisconsin. >> reporter: he's donated by natural insemination to more than 100 women from every walk of life. writing about it in books. to show us how it works, he invited us to one of "donations" where we meet noelle, a young woman eager for her first baby. we get there just as she's checking in. >> hi, how are you? >> reporter: joe waits in his car until she texts with a room number. that's his cue to head in. >> hey. >> hi, there.

>> i think we timed it right so i'm hoping that this is it. >> reporter: but what about the medical risks with a guy who claims to have had sex with over 100 women? >> i test annually because that's what the cdc recommends. i ask people if they have anything. i mean, the testing is just an excuse for the sperm banks to charge a lot of money. >> good evening, this is karen, how can i help you? >> reporter: it's a shocking suggestion to sperm banks. >> each one of these boxes represent a different donor. >> reporter: like california cryobank. where each vile -- vial is screened. >> seventy-five percent of the guys don't qualify for our program cause their sperm isn't good enough. >> reporter: but all this oversight doesn't come cheap. >> really, what you're getting is not just the vial that you're buying. >> reporter: joe knows he

wouldn't qualify but still vouches for his swimmers. >> i already know my sperm works, because i have more than 30 children. >> i don't see this as a betrayal. it would be unreasonable to ask a women to give birth to 30 children. as of tonight, no pregnancy. what if this doesn't work after several tries? >> i want to try until i say you have no more eggs. >> reporter: only kyle found success in this cycle. this month, his first child was born. >> does that make you proud? >> yeah, i feel, i feel very successful actually. i feel like wow, i, uh, i did it. next, not feeling it? literally? join the club. >> i am 30 years old, and i thought this was supposed to be my sexual prime. and nothing.

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did making it turn into faking it? we're on the streets of new york, and found, though we tried -- >> i'm not answering. >> reporter: are you satisfied with your sex life? almost half of the women in america say they can't get no satisfaction. but one in ten women has no sex drive at all. it's a little-known condition. >> i just have no desire. >> it's not just reduced, it's, put that thing away. >> reporter: even young women can lose their mojo. catherine was once a promising country rock singer.

known for her sexy strut. >> i used to love performing, i had a certain sexual attitude. but my confidence is gone. >> a lot of people think that this is something people go through later in life. did this surprise you when you're so young? >> yes, i'm 30 years old, and i have nothing. it's not that we just stopped having sex. it's out of obligation. >> reporter: we asked which one is more likely to initiate sex? >> it was more me. >> it was a two-way street, turning into a one-way street.

and now it's just a closed dirt road. >> reporter: we asked how they rate their sex life together. why did you choose a three? >> obviously, because i'm dealing with some sexual dysfunction issues. i think it's my body that's failing me. >> at one point, an eight or nine. but now, obviously -- 9.9. >> all right. >> reporter: so, what's the answer? that's where sex medicine comes in. there are strange sex remedies by the score. >> the shot does have to be given in the vagina. >> reporter: but what if there was a pill, like the one that

turned ordinary men into champions? so far, there are dozens of drugs for men. but zero for women. but this woman is fighting to get the first low-libido drug for women out there. >> that's what's been missing. a blood flow issue. >> reporter: some say it isn't very effective? >> i would say, by whose definition? if it's modest, it's still better. >> reporter: and this woman volunteered for the trial. they once had the perfect marriage. >> when we were first married, i would initiate no matter where

we were. pretty soon, there was just nothing. i would go to bed early so i could avoid his approach. >> reporter: but after five days on that little pink pill, the sex drive came roaring back. >> i chase him. >> reporter: so, how many times would they want in a perfect world? >> is that 13? >> reporter: her experience turned her into an advocate. we followed her to washington, where she testified to the fda for her right to sexual satisfaction. >> we want to have a normal sex

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you can go on ebay and place a bid on what you want. and it goes to the highest bidder. so, what if you could do the same thing for your dates. well, as paula faris found out, now you can. and that's where the controversy starts. >> reporter: it's date night, and all across the country, millions of singles are getting ready to go out. some in search of love. others lust but nobody wants to be lonely. a select few are trying something radical -- going online not to search for a mate but rather buy one. >> at first it's totally about looks, it will catch my eye then i will read about them. >> reporter: meet 29-year-old pablo from los angeles. he's a busy entrepreneur looking for a good time. >> my type is fun, down to earth, adventurous, sweet, kind, dog lover. i love you. be a good boy. >> reporter: and with just a few

clicks -- >> she likes wine, she's young. >> reporter: he makes a $250 bid for a date with this woman cyndi -- a bikini model and nursing student. >> on all fours toward me. >> reporter: yes. he's paying big bucks to take her out. >> my guy friends think i'm a fool. this is the new way of doing things. >> reporter: and it's all courtesy of a new website called what's your price.com, an online ebay-like dating auction where rich men pay for a night out with attractive women. >> offers range anywhere from $15 to $300. most of the men i've meet are lonely and just want to spend time with someone. >> its like a business arrangement. sometimes i'll be at home, it's sad, but i can just go on here and get a girl, go out and have a good time. i'm helping them out and they are helping me out. it's a win-win situation. >> reporter: but the obvious question, is what's your price nothing more than the world's oldest profession, prostitution, revamped for today's digital

age? >> at the end of the day, it's all about economics, demand and supply. >> reporter: the website is the brain child of brandon wade. are the men expecting sex? after paying big bucks. >> some men do expect sex. and we tell them that that's not what they should expect. >> reporter: the site says it vets all new profiles and blocks about 500 hookers from joining each month. we really had to look, but there it is. but is pablo looking for innocent fun or something more? >> its no strings attached. so we will see how it goes. >> reporter: we tagged along on his date with cyndi to find out. >> i got you -- bam! >> you got me flowers. >> super nervous. you're beautiful though, it makes it a lot easier. >> reporter: the couple quickly discover they have a lot in common. >> what kind of dog? >> i have a yorkie.

>> i have a yorkie! >> no, you don't. later how their night ends. but across the country in new york, 19-year-old college sophomore selena has turned the website into a part-time job. i caught up with her and best friend leah as they were clothes shopping. how many dates have you been on? >> more than 100. >> reporter: what is the biggest perk for you? >> the cash. >> reporter: she told me she can earn up to a thousand dollars week going on dates. what do you say about those that think you're just money-seeking? >> everyone does different things for money. and, i'm really good looking and i feel like i should take advantage of it. >> reporter: but she has limits on just how far she will go. are you a prostitute? are you a call girl? what are you? >> an escort. i get that all the time. >> reporter: you get that all the time? >> yes. i do. >> reporter: so what's the difference between you and a call girl? >> i don't have sex for money, they do. >> reporter: that's where you draw the line. >> i have to treat it just like a first date. just like a normal guy i met on the street.

>> reporter: but not so normal. on this particular day selena has multiple dates with different dudes. two dates in one day. what's your record? >> five. >> reporter: are you more desperate for love or money? >> i don't look for love. i let love happen on its own. um, but i like, i like money. >> reporter: before she heads out, i ask selena a simple question. so you're getting ready to go on a date with, what's his name, again? >> i forgot. >> reporter: you can't remember his name. >> i do it all the time. >> reporter: but she really likes you. for the record, his name is greg. and it's clearly apparent right from the start. this date is awkward. >> have you ever killed an animal? >> reporter: the conversation is dicey and absolutely no chemistry between them.

but as agreed upon, watch again, as greg casually slips her the money. remember, he bought this date with her online. how are you not an e-pimp? >> i believe i'm matching people for meaningful romantic relationships. that makes me an, an e-cupid and not an e-pimp. >> reporter: selena's back at home getting ready for her second gentleman caller of the night. >> the guy i'm going to meet hopefully he's not boring because i have to spend an hour of my life with these people. >> reporter: but being bored is the least of it. meeting strangers online can be dangerous. best friend leah is constantly concerned about selena's safety. >> she is always worried that i'm going to be killed one day. >> you freak me out all the time. >> it is kind of sketchy. >> reporter: selena says she googles the guy before going out with them and lets leah know her whereabouts at all times. >>i love you, be careful. >> bye, guys. >> reporter: selena has arrived at a bowling alley for her next

date. but as the clock ticks, he is nowhere in sight. three -- se lena is not happy. >> i've never been stood up. never. it's upsetting because i could have planned a date with someone else who was more reliable. >> reporter: suddenly, selena's date wanders in an hour late. >> i'd love to have a date but you're really late. i am going to go. >> reporter: sometimes no amount of money can make up for a bad first impression. let's see if wade's cupid's arrow will work better on cyndi and pablo. they are now walking hand-in-hand as they take a salsa lesson. by the end of the night it was clear a possible love connection was made. >> really honestly i was super duper happy i met you. >> reporter: and once

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