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again. this is "nightline." >> tonight, reliving a nightmare. >> i saw, um, i saw him put the gun to dustin's head. >> the widow of a man murdered in a vicious carjacking. coming face-to-face with one of his alleged killers to testify against him. >> i turned around and i saw justin laying there in a pool of blood. >> the horrific details from that fateful night. plus, marriage 2.0. now you can have your wedding cake and eat it too. >> this is my husband jonathan, and this is my boyfriend ray. >> this poly amor us trio is living out loud to show the many of them hiding in the shadows. how they're making it work
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without making one another jealous. and return of "roseanne." the ground-breaking show with that bluesy theme song was one of the most popular sitcoms in television history. >> this is why some animals eat their young. >> now the legendary comedian says she's ready for a reunion. but first here, the "nightline" 5. >> and number one is
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♪ ♪ good evening, and tonight wrenching testimony from a young widow who witnessed the murder of her beloved husband. the first of four trials in an infamous carjacking case outside a mall in new jersey. on a night that turned from celebratory, to a nightmare. >> i saw him put the gun to dustin's head, and i heard bang bang, ssh. >> reporter: chilling testimony as she recounts the moment her husband was murdered right before here eyes. >> and it was so fast. >> reporter: this week, the first of four men accused of this 2013 murder is on trial. >> what had been a good day became the worst day of jamie's life. and the last day of dustin
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freedman's life. >> reporter: this man, 36-year-old basseen henry, charged with carjacking, unlawful possession of a weapon and first-degree murder. prosecutors say he drove the get-away car. he's pled not guilty. it was december 15th, 2013. just days before christmas. jamie and dustin were leaving the mall in new jersey, they just finished dinner to celebrate their anniversary, and the purchase of their new condo. >> we walked to the car. he opened the car door for me, as he always did. >> reporter: she got in and buckled her seat belt while dustin walked around the back of the car. she said she heard muffled conversation and thought her husband was making friends. i turned around and i saw dustin standing in the middle of a person, a man on each side of him. >> reporter: then seconds later,
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gunfire. >> i saw him put the gun to dustin's head and i heard bang bang ssshh, and then the windows shattered of the car, and then, like in slow motion, it played out. i saw the taller -- the taller guy, i saw him walk around, and he opens the car door, he leans in, he points the gun at my head, and he said, get out of the [ bleep ] car, [ bleep ]. and i said, okay, i'm going, i'm going, i'm going. >> reporter: mall goers nearby also heard the shots. >> i heard, pop pop pop pop. so i ducked. >> reporter: the mall was put on lockdown. >> they said there was an emergency and nobody could leave the building. >> reporter: according to jamie, the two suspects ordered her to get out of the car. within seconds they sped off with the freedlands' range
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rover. >> the car door slams and they skidded out of there. i just knew when i turned around, i knew what i was going to see. >> what did you see? >> i turned around and i -- i turned around and i saw dustin laying there in a pool of blood. and i ran over to him and i -- i couldn't get my phone to work because i had just got it at the apple store, it was right when the thumbprint came out, and i thought it was so cool, and i couldn't figure out how to unlock my phone to call 911. so i leaned down, i was on the floor, covered in his blood, and he was covered in his blood, and i held my hand to his head and i was screaming, i was screaming,
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stay with me, stay with me. and i see his eyes and he's looking at me, and he's gasping for breath. >> reporter: an onlooker called 911. jamie freedland waited in the parking garage, holding her husband in her arms, trying to keep him alive. >> when you were holding dustin, were you able to communicate with him? >> i was screaming, stay with me, stay with me. his eyes were following me, they were focused on me, he was blinking, he was gasping for breath. but i know he heard me, i know he heard me, but otherwise, he -- he could not talk, no. >> reporter: according to freedland, 30 minutes later, the ambulance still had not arrived. >> 911, is this an emergency? >> yes, it's an emergency. i'm at the short hills mall parking lot. my husband has been shot. >> reporter: the ambulance was there, but unable to clear the low ceiling of the mall's
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parking garage. emergency responders had to use a gurney to bring dustin down. he was then transported to the hospital. >> the doctors then came up to me and told me that there was nothing else they could do. >> she's a critical witness in this case, not just because she can provide the human side of the impact this had, but because she was there. she's the eyewitness who saw it all happen. so she's important, both emotionally and in terms of actual testimony. >> reporter: she's filed a civil lawsuit against both the mall owners and the security company, claiming they didn't provide adequate security. >> if you invite the public to shop at your mall, you better make sure it's safe. this mall didn't, and they need to step up to the plate and take responsibility. >> reporter: the mall attorney tells abc news, they don't comment on pending litigation, and the security company denies any wrongdoing, placing the blame on the four suspects. >> here you have the defendant,
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someone who is accused of murder, talking about possible prison time for life. in the civil cases, you're talking about responsibility, money damages, and there it is the mall being sued. >> reporter: but security video shows dustin may have been the victim of elaborate planning. this footage released by jamie's attorney allegedly shows the killer's suv in the parking lot three days before the murder. her attorneys say on this day, the suspects first stalk this white suv in their two-tone suburban, before they appear to tail it out of the mall. my colleague sat down with retired nypd detective. >> so they're testing security at this point? >> yes. and they're confident that they can do their carjacking whenever and however they want. >> reporter: now look at this video from the day of the murder. that lurking two-tone suburban is back, parking next to a white car. >> they're hunters, and they're looking for their prey.
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>> reporter: minutes later, with no shoppers in sight, the car is driven over to the next parking lot, where prosecutors say they find their target, the freedlands' suv, and that's when, according to police, they take his life and his car. >> i just knew when i turned around, i knew what i was going to see. >> reporter: in this case, all four suspects are being tried separately. so this widow will potentially have to testify three more times as the rest of the accused see their day in court. and next here on the show, we turn to something entirely different. there is no love lost in this family. the poly amerous husband and wife and her boyfriend who are changing the meaning of marriage. and later, could one of tv's biggest sitcoms be making a comeback? stop, stop, stop! sorry.
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♪ ♪ introducing your boyfriend to your family can be stressful. will mom embarrass you? will dad approve? will he get along with your husband? yes, you heard that right, your husband. abc's abbie boudreau introduces us to poly amory. >> there's a squash. >> reporter: carrie jenkins is very married. >> potatoes. more potatoes. >> reporter: but she's getting ready to spend saturday night with her boyfriend. does her husband suspect? >> i'm carrie, and this is my husband jonathan, and this is my boyfriend ray. >> reporter: we'd say he's got a
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pretty good idea. >> i'm in a relationship with jonathan, and i'm in a relationship with ray. >> they call it poly amory. defined as a consensual romantic relationship with multiple partners. you might have thought it was just fringey people on the coast who do this, but these buttoned down canadians beg to differ. >> we were amazed at the number of people who came to us and said, thank you for saying this. we're also in an open relationship, but we haven't felt secure saying so. >> reporter: carrie is a tenured professor at the university of british columbia in vancouver. she met jonathan, also a professor there. they fell in love and got married in 2011 in a scottish castle. >> i wore a white dress. >> reporter: but along with the i dos, came the i don'ts. >> i don't assume that romantic love and sex are the same. >> reporter: and a new set of rules that you won't find in
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most marriage manuals. >> if i were to go and have a secret romantic relationship and not tell carrie about it, that would be cheating in this relationship too. >> reporter: so tonight, jonathan gets to stay home while carrie flirts with ray in a bar. and holds hands with him at a restaurant. and yes, that's her wedding ring, still on her finger. >> for me, the idea of being able to be with two people at once always seemed like an impossible dream. now that i get to be with two amazing people at the same time, it feels like a dream come true. i feel like the luckiest person in the world. >> reporter: so what's in it for the men? they get to see other people too, although they admit neither is doing so at the moment. >> i consider myself open to dating people. i'm active on dating websites. i go through the world considering myself romantically or sexually available. >> reporter: ray says there are plenty of advantages. >> it's a loving relationship. i don't know if i were in a
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non-monogamous relationship, how i would answer it any differently. >> reporter: but carrie says they're not a true triad. ray and jonathan are not in a relationship with each other. >> reporter: though they're not opposed to the occasional hang out. any relationship in which all partners agree that each may have romantic and/or sexual relationships with other part nerds, which could range from friends with benefits, to open marriage. "nightline" has delved into poly amory before. there was danny and john. oh, yes, and melinda, who unlike carrie and jonathan and ray, actually all live together with their two kids. >> so if you're not a couple, what do you call yourself? >> we're a triad. >> yeah, some people say triple. >> reporter: they say the sex is really good. >> in the very beginning, there was a lot more three people
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having sex together often. >> reporter: but so is the extra set of hands for childcare. >> it's not only about sex, it's about family, it's about working together as a team. it's about accomplishing your dreams. >> reporter: one of their dreams, having children, and they managed to do that all together too. ella and oliver are just five weeks apart. >> it's one thing to have your relationship and have it exactly how you want it. but then to bring kids into your relationship, do you feel like it's a healthy way to raise a family? >> a resounding yes for me. more breast feeding, more opportunities, more team work. i can double breast feed while melinda's making food, and jon is, whatever it is. >> there's just more parental support for the children. >> reporter: and then there's john and ian who also live together with their one child. >> what do you say to people who believe that your relationship and the way that you're living your life is wrong? >> thank you for sharing your
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opinion. i mean, what else -- we're not here to convert people and tell people that monogamy and wrong. totally ve totally valid choice. >> reporter: and with the divorce rate hovering around 50%, who's to say these people might not have a point? carrie jenkins has written a book, challenging the notion that love requires monogamy. but what about jealousy. >> i think every relationship can come with insecurity. we're humans and we're never sure about our standing. >> reporter: we saw this play out again and again in our triads. >> jaya has her two lovers, but how do the men feel about each other? >> would you two be friends if it wasn't for her? >> i don't think we'd be hang-out buddies. >> they're very different. >> what do you think, john? >> way too chatty. [ laughter ] >> reporter: but in this
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three-headed household, who takes charge? >> do you consider yourself more the alpha dog in this family? >> uh, yes. >> well, jaya is kibnd of the alpha dog too. >> so what does that make john. >> john is somebody who gets fulfillment out of being in service, doing things for people. >> reporter: is it hard to share someone that you love that much? >> yeah, it can be. it can be tough. >> reporter: five years later, jaya, john and ian are still together. and then there's what they say is the social stigma. carrie's received loads of negative feedback. >> there is some -- sometimes vitriolic and mostly anonymous comments that i get. >> reporter: despite criticism, carrie and her partners say they're committed to sharing
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their story, for other poly amorrous people who aren't able to. >> people do need to understand and to see that this is a real way that people live. >> reporter: challenging stereotypes about love. >> i would like to be in my relationships forever. that would be my ideal situation. >> reporter: one date night at a time. for "nightline," i'm abbie boudreau. up next, a family reunion in the making, could a new episode of "roseanne" be in the works? abc news "nightline," brought to you by volkswagen. i know, we need to talk about this. it's time. it is a big decision for us... let's take the $1000 in cash back. great! yeah, i want to get one of those gaming chairs with the speakers. oh, you do? that's a surprise... the volkswagen 3 and easy event, where you can choose one of three easy ways to get a $1000 offer.
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♪ ♪ and finally tonight, america's favorite blue collar family may be making a comeback. ♪ ♪ >> roseanne warmed the hearts and the laughs of millions of viewers with its ground-breaking sark aftic brand of humor. >> i just bumped into my future and it was hideous. >> now they could be back. star roseanne barr tweeting,
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roseanne show cast is up for a reunion show. her tweet coming on the heels of a reunion on gilbert's show "the talk." >> i don't know how to say this, i'm a talk show host. >> for a minute there, i thought you were going to tell me you were gay. >> mixing brash and raunchy humor, they dominated primetime for nine seasons. >> shut up! >> this is why some animals eat their young. >> it was a mind-blower, from beginning to end and i just hung on by the tips of my fingernails. >> reporter: the show resonated perhaps because it went deeper than most, tackling real issues, such as birth control. >> you mean about the pill? >> reporter: and domestic violence. >> fisher beat the crap out of her. >> i don't want anybody to know about it. >> but the sitcoms finale was a shocker. the entire final season was a
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dream. >> no, the family had not won the lottery, and her husband dan, had died from a heart attack, with dan gone, a roseanne reunion might look a little bit different. we don't know yet whether a union will become reality. until then, we'll be replaying "roseanne" reruns. thank you for watching "nightline." as always we're online 24/7 on abc and our facebook page. thanks for watching and goodnight. >> last year, they were headed for the top until one question ended their game. now, these former contestants are getting a do-over. will they be big winners this time around? it's second chance week on "millionaire." [cheers and applause] [dramatic music] ♪ thank you very much. welcome to second chance week on "who wants to be a millionaire." [cheers and applause]
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today's second-chance contestant learned the hard way--don't say, "final answer," until it's really your final answer. from brooklyn, new york, please welcome back jeanell allen. [cheers and applause] >> hi! >> hey, jeanell. it's good to see you again. >> good to see you too. >> come on over. >> all right. [cheers and applause] ooh! mmm! oh, dear god. >> you don't get many do-overs in life... >> no, we don't. >> but this is one of them. >> yeah. whoo! i'm feeling it. >> are you? you nervous again? >> i'm feeling nervous again. i don't know. it's the lights, it's the music, it's everything. so, yeah. >> it's not me? >> no, you're good. >> okay. >> you're calming. you're good. >> here's the thing. >> mm-hmm. >> let's take a look at something, first of all. >> oh, we're going back memory-- down memory lane? >> sorry. you may-- >> [laughs] [laughter] >> at least you can laugh about it. that was your question that you stumbled on. >> yes. >> and here's the thing. >> you kind of knew the answer, then you switched, and then you just said something final, and it just happened, and it was over.
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