guillermo? i think this is unnecessary. seems like a bit much. >> don't be silly, trees sea ellis ross, everyone who hosts gets a pedicure. >> even jimmy? >> every day. he likes me to do this little piggi went to market. >> he likes that? >> yes. do you want me to do this little piggy went to market? >> no. >> i like to go all the way home. [ laughter ] >> yes, i definitely don't want you to do it. >> dicky: from hollywood, it's "jimmy kimmel live." with special guest host tracee ellis ross! tonight -- mary j. blige, amanda de cadenet, and music from miguel featuring travis scott.

and now here's tracee ellis ross! [ cheers and applause ] ♪ >> tracee: wow! hello! [ cheers and applause ] hello, hello, hello. and welcome to jimmy kimmel live. i am your guest host tonight, tracee ellis ross. [ cheers and applause ] i know what you guys are thinking. really? another black jewish female host of late night? [ laughter ] i mean, you guys, we are everywhere. everywhere.

i'm actually pulling double duty because i'll here now and i was on a new episode of "black-ish" earlier tonight here on abc. [ cheers and applause ] yeah. that's right. even in television, a woman has to work two jobs to make the same money as a man. [ laughter ] [ cheers and applause ] i got more. as a black woman, i'm actually headed to my third job when i finish here. [ laughter ] you know, i was a little worried i wasn't going to make it here tonight. i slipped and fell at work on "black-ish" the other day. i did, i fell down. i was walking into the fake kitchen of my fake house but it had a really real floor. and i went down! hard! i was blackish and bluish. [ laughter ] [ applause ] i'm still a little bluish. anyway, if i fall tonight, guillermo? you got me? are you going to have me and be my guest host of the guest host of the guest host? >> i got you.

>> tracee: guillermo has got me. good, thank you, thank you. [ cheers and applause ] guillermo in to save the day. since we'll be spending a little time together, the next hour, i should probably tell you a little about myself in case for some strange reason you don't know me. i was born here in los angeles. yeah. my mom is a little singer. she's done a few things. she sang a few songs, made a couple hits, like three decades of them. got a few awards. had a couple of kids, i'm one of them. and i'm speaking of course of my mother, the great diana ross. [ cheers and applause ] not too shabby, that lady, and my dad is the painter bob ross. [ laughter ] do you remember him? do you remember him? yep, yep, yep. and that my friends is how you get hair like this. [ laughter ] no, no, no. bob ross is not my dad. actually, bob ellis is my father. yep, that's my dad.

i get my sense of humor and my nose from him. see? [ applause ] my parents deserve a nice round of applause. they did well. okay. i also have a lot of passions. i love me some social media. if you're not following me, get on it, i don't know what you're doing. i love the show "lockup: raw." okay -- where's the applause on that one? [ cheers and applause ]obsessiv. obsessively. i have so many bowls. i made a music video about them. ♪ ♪ ♪ wooden bowl ♪ black bowls ♪ pink bowls ♪ turquoise bowls ♪ green bowls

♪ blue bowls ♪ ceramic bowls ♪ ceramic bowls ♪ and some white bowls ♪ white bowls white bowls white bowls ♪ ♪ i've got so many white bowls [ laughter ] [ cheers and applause ] >> tracee: yeah. basically -- the only thing i don't do with bowls is smoke them. [ laughter ] are you guys in the holiday spirit? yes? [ cheers and applause ] it is that magical time in los angeles when the temperatures dip down to a brisk 84. [ laughter ] i like to do something a little different during the holidays. each year i give people verbal cards. i know. you heard me. i actually said verbal cards. i like to look my loved ones in the eye and say whatever i would have written in the card. guillermo, can i give you a verbal card? >> yeah, sure. >> tracee: this will be something special. [ cheers and applause ] guillermo, thank you.

okay. dearest guillermo, i'm wishing you the most happy of holiday seasons. and may your new year be prosperous and full of joy. best wishes, tracee. [ cheers and applause ] don't go. it is best to end a verbal card with a curtsy. do you want to try a verbal card with me? >> okay. all right. [ laughter ] >> dear tracee, you're so smart, so beautiful, and so nice. i wish you a merry christmas, feliz navidad and a happy hannukkah. [ laughter ] [ cheers and applause ] >> tracee: thank you, guillermo. thank you so much. okay. [ cheers and applause ] >> tracee: full disclosure for any of you that try this at home, it can be a little bit awkward but it can also bring you closer together.

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yeah, okay. by the way, if you are planning to go to a holiday party this year, you should pay attention to this report that was on the news. >> with revelations of sexual harassment allegations and the firing of multiple high profile men, there are questions that how companies will handle their yearly christmas parties this month. the alcohol tends to flow. people let down their guard and can forget they're at a work function. criminal defense lawyer randy zellen said his best advice to companies, have people monitoring the party. >> eyes open, ears open, don't wait if you see a situation. jump in immediately. >> thank you. thank you. thank you, mr. magoo. [ applause ] that was very helpful. if you see something, say something. and that reminds me, as a woman with a big platform like this, there is something i wanted to talk about tonight. that's the hollywood sexual harassment scandal. first of all, let's start with

the fact it isn't a search a section a sex scandal. it isn't a hollywood scandal. it isn't even a scandal. it is a systemic problem about the abuse of power that takes place across all industries. and has enabled a culture of inequity to persist for far too long. over the past few months, yes, the past few months, countless brave women have come forward to share their experiences. and while i'm not totally surprised by these stories, it seems like quite a few men are. treating another human being with respect isn't complicated. but it seems a bit confusing for a lot of men out there. so i wrote a book. [ cheers and applause ] it's kind of like a children's book. for men. that is going to make this really simple and just bring it back to the basics. do you want me to read it?

[ cheers and applause ] so listen up, fellows. get to the first page. there is a guy with ten long fingers. creepy glares and hugs that linger. if you're a woman, you're not a fan. i speak, of course, of the handsy man. [ laughter ] [ cheers and applause ] handsy man, based on the news, you seem to be a bit confused. listen, and i'll explain to you all the things you may not do. you may not compliment my butt. you may not call me ho or slut. even if you're stoned or drunk, do not expose me to your junk. [ cheers and applause ]

and if i am your employee, don't rest your hand upon my knee. no, i won't sit on your lap. i shouldn't have to say this crap. [ cheers and applause ] you cannot smell my hair, you creep, or grab my boobs while i'm asleep. i do not want a back massage. did you follow me into the parking garage? i do not like you, handsy man. you're not allowed to touch my can. not on a plane, not on a train, not on your boat, not in a moat. not in a tree, not by the sea, not in your mansion, help me, chris hansen! [ cheers and applause ] so handsy man, if you're still confused whether your

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>> kimmel live. i am still tracee ellis ross. tonight on the show -- she has two books out -- they're called "it's messy" and "#girlgaze." amanda de cadenet is here. [ cheers and applause ] and then his album is called "war & leisure." miguel featuring travis scott from the mercedes-benz outdoor stage. [ cheers and applause ] and i wanto ke a second to nd m whole kimmel family. i can't imagine what it is like for a father to walk all through this with a child. and i want to thank you for thinking of me as someone to step in for you. i know what a gift and a generous soul you have. you make what you do look so easy, and we all know that it's not. i won't be you tonight but i will bring my best.

and then tomorrow night, neil patrick harris will be hosting with his guests armie hammer, timothy shalomay, vanessa kirby, and he'll have snakes and lizards here too. i'm not sure why i didn't get the snakes and lizards. [ laughter ] but that's for another time. and then on thursday, melissa mccarthy hosts with guests octavia spencer, dave franco, and hanson. [ cheers and applause ] as a reminder, you can watch me on "black-ish" tuesdays at 9:00/8:00 central here on abc. [ cheers and applause ] and because i'm a really good daughter -- and it smells good -- i would like to mention diana ross's "diamond diana" fragrance is currently available exclusively through home shopping network. she's spent decades making music to put in your ears. now she's got something to put in your nose. [ laughter ]

all right. my first guest tonight is a multi-platinum selling recording artist and a great actress too. her movie "mudbound" is streaming now on netflix. please say hello to mary j. blige! [ cheers and applause ] ♪ >> hi! >> tracee: it's really nice to see you off a plane. little do you know, we seem to have the same flight pattern. >> all the time. >> tracee: how many flights do you think we've been on together? >> maybe five. it might be more. >> tracee: i said 12. we've been on so many flights. it's kind of unbelievable. i mentioned my mom's perfume. you had a perfume out, didn't you? >> yes. my life. and it broke all the records on

hsn. >> tracee: that's what i heard. [ cheers and applause ] unbelievable. when you -- you smell delicious right now. when you made your perfume, my life, were you totally involved? >> totally. >> tracee: did you put on the white smock and get in there? >> i was in the lab, i picked out the smells, i did all the little swatches. went to the lab and watched them make it. this is personal. a fragrance is personal. and i want people to believe me, what i'm selling. i don't want to sell something that stinks. i'll wear it. so what i'm wearing right now, and you love it, i want you to enjoy it like i'm enjoying it. >> tracee: i believe everything you do. i believe everything mary does. >> thank you. >> tracee: the fact we travel together regularly, i thought this would be an opportunity for me to dive into some other things about you that i might not know and other people might not know and i could ask you some random questions. some easy ones. like the quickies.

what do you think? >> okay. >> tracee: i'll start with an airplane one. window or aisle? >> window. all the time. i need the window seat. >> do you ever google yourself? >> no. no, no. >> tracee: i totally google myself. [ laughter ] my favorite is to go to google images. >> no. >> tracee: do you watch yourself back when you're acting? >> well, i have to. it's not like i want to but i have to watch it back. and this is new so i have to see what i'm doing wrong. >> tracee: some people have no interest. >> i have to watch it. i have to. >> tracee: all right. she watches herself. for a different direction, have you ever seen a ghost? >> i don't want to say -- >> tracee: i've seen a ghost. >> i've seen a lot of things. [ laughter ] i just don't want everybody to know what i'm seeing. >> tracee: okay. i understand. that's a very safe and smart -- and i've never seen a ghost. [ laughter ] i don't want people to know what

i'm seeing either. what is your favorite flatware? as in, are you a fork or a spoon gal? or chopsticks? >> i like forks and spoons. >> tracee: you like both? equal opportunity? >> yeah. if i need to eat, i need to use either/or. it doesn't matter. >> tracee: i really need to be better about that. i'm really partial to a fork. how about bowls or plates? as you can tell earlier, i love a bowl. >> bowl. >> tracee: you like both. you are a very fair person. i'm with you. >> i'm easy. easy with life. [ laughter ] >> tracee: totally with you. didn't need to be explained. that's good. i've got two more. who is your favorite super hero? >> well, wonder woman right now. >> tracee: me, too. [ cheers and applause ] i love that movie. so you are getting a star on the hollywood walk of fame. >> yes.

[ cheers and applause ] >> tracee: that's exciting. >> i'm super excited. i've been around a very long time. i won't say a very long >> tracee: every bit of you being around has been thrilling for me. i'm such a fan of mary j. blige. oh, my god!< >> i'm a fan of yours. thank you, i love you. >> tracee: i grew up on your music. i love you too. i always try to not fan out on the airplane. i'm like -- is she sleeping? get up to go to the bathroom too many times. hi, mary! hi, mary. did you get any chips, mary? [ laughter ] >> tracee: okay, okay. do you remember the first time you came to hollywood? >> the first time i came to los angele promotion for 411 and then i came back to shoot the "i'm going down" video. >> tracee: i'm going to pause there. haaaaa!

what's the 411? what is a 411, mary? you just said the best things ever. let's repeat those two titles. they are like the soundtrack of my life. do you have aa 411"? >> "love no limit." >> tracee: love no limit. love no limit. i think my life, it's like they all, they all just, it's the soundtrack of my life, my growing up. do you remember when you came on "blackish"? >> yes. i told them. >> tracee: you said you had a good memory. but that was a special one for me. >> i absolutely remember. tracee, i love that show and i was so grateful to be on there and so grateful to meet you. >> tracee: i brought a little photo of us from "black-ish." it was first season. i was her background singer. i got to sit on a moon behind mary j. as she sang.

[ cheers and applause ] mary is doing her thing that mary does. so making -- let me say this then i'll move into the acting. in this moment, if we could go back here on this beautiful photo. do you see the emotion that's happening on my face, mary? >> yes. >> tracee: what happened herisc you didn't take me on tour after this. [ laughter ] so maybe after this visit with each other, i could join you on tour. i could be your background singer. don't you think it would be incredible? >> sure. [ laughter ] >> tracee: well, we are going to talk about so much more because i want to get into "mudbound." which i'm so excited to hear about and hear about your acting process. so don't go anywhere. she's not going anywhere. we will be right back. g. but some people still like cable.

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just the general story? >> well, "mudbound" about two families, a black family, a white family, who end up living in theis the jim crow era. and they end up learning how to love each other an learning t and they have to h through tria tribulations. and it is about w men went off to war and they fought as free men. but they came back to the southernlaces and still being called n-word and being lynched. it's about a silver no matter how bad someone treats you or try to take something away from you, if you use your heart, you can walk away live in the situation with love. so love is the silver lining. it is about relationships and friendships and it is really a love story. these movies don't ever get a happy ending. i don't want to -- i just told it. [ laughter ] if you didn't see it -- >> tracee: it's streaming. >> it is very powerful and there

is a happy ending. it is a very relative story to today as well. people don't seem to get the t. we're all free. all of us are free. [ cheers and applause ] >> tracee: yeah. an important movie. when you look back, very important to match it up with where we are now. where did you shoot this film? >> new orleans. >> tracee: was it a long shoot? new orleans, that's hot. >> dee rees shot it in 29 days. >> tracee: 29 days. >> my part was probably a month, a month and a half. it was very hot. like 180 degrees. i'm exaggerating. >> jimmy: that's very hot, mary. [ laughter ] >> i mean it felt like it was very hot. the conditions were really, really real. really, really real. it kept us in character most of the time. the heat and the mosquitos and the mud was real. the rain was real. everything was real. and the feelings that we felt

while we were shooting the movie. it was like we were reliving what our ancestors had to go through. and this movie is about, it is an slave movie. these people are free and proud. it is not that type of movie again. it is a hopeful movie and an optimistic movie, i think. >> tracee: i can't wait to watch it all the way through. to continue seeing mary doing her extraordinary acting and sharing that love. "mudbound" is streaming now on netflix. thank you, mary. everybody -- mary j. blige! [ cheers and applause ] we'll be right back with amanda de cadenet! ♪ (christmas marching band music)

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amanda! what's new since we talked last night? my text an hour ago? that we were going to both wear red lipstick? we did, of cose. we didn't need to check in on that one. >> tracee: i'l at's your favorite mary j. blige song? >> there are so many? you cannot pick. anything she does, i'm so interestedn. i love that you got to interview her. she's amazing. >> tracee: another quick ecausea chance to ask you this. cast >>es i am listening to a podcast on . i am a founder of girl gaze. i love to know how othepeople builtheimpans. i need to hear about failures and successes and how they did it. >> tracee: that's good. i love that. did you recently listen to the rebecca traster with ezra? >> of course. she is one of leading feminists and she is amazing. if you don't know her, you

should check her out. i listen to anything that relates to women in business, ultimately. [ cheers and applause ] >> tracee: that's why we're friends. do it again. you have two books out right now. they're both right next to my bed. if i'm not trying to fall asleep, i'm looking at these. >> a slight overachiever. >> tracee: this woman is writing two books and i can't even get one out. >> you're kind of busy. >> tracee: yeah, well, you're writing books. so let's start with this. girlgaze. what was the inspiration behind this? >> it is my company that i am the founder and ceo of. girlgaze, our mission is to close the gender gap by providing jobs for photographers and directors. and we have a submission process. and we've had over 3.8 million submissions of images. [ applause ] on instagram of girls showing us globally how they see the world. and i was looking at all these images and i was thinking, if there is any doubt that women and girls have an incredible

perspective that needs to be shared, we need to put it in a book and show everyone. so if you want to check it out, it's an incredible book, it's a good christmas gift too. >> tracee: as a friend, can i get a discount to order a whole bunch? we can talk about that later. >> absolutely. a friend hook-up. >> tracee: i will say, girlgaze, the flip on male gaze. this is a really important way to sort of categorize things. >> it is very different.he male. >> tracee: and this is the other book out right now. these are words. >> that book was so hard to write. can i tell you? >> tracee: there's a lot of words in this book. >> you won't read it by stroking it. >> tracee: no, no. >> it's not like a man. [ laughter ] [ cheers and applause ] >> tracee: yes, amanda. as a known feminist that people know you're a feminist, what are some of the things that people, men specifically, say to you,

ask you? what are some of the questions you get in response? this book or just in general? >> this book is called it's messy on boys, boobs and bad ass women. all subjects i am very passionate about. i want to point out, it does have "boys" in the title.ur all. i have a husband and a son. i think that these -- >> tracee: i like men, too. [ laughter ] >> and there's nothing wrong that and that's important to remember. >> tracee: i it's about the equality of women. >> we have to create bridges especially now more than ever. to connect each other. we are so disenfranchised and it is men and women. and at some point we have to understand each other better so we can move forward without all of these issues coming into play. in the workplace. i just want to say that one of the biggest questions men are asking me now is what does consent look like? okay? seriously. in all seriousness, i have, two men i know who have been publicly accused of rape in the last week.

i've spoken to both of them and i've had very honest conversations with them. both of them maintained that those experiences were consensual. and i said, how is it possible that you believe this was consensual, and she has filed a rape case against you? how far away are we? men are asking frequently, what does consent really look like? can i do this? can i do that? >> tracee: one of the things i like to think to myself, how would you greet another man? >> you would not be -- well, maybe you would be touching his butt, i don't know. >> tracee: i don't see larry, larry david and jerry seinfeld pressing their bodies up against each other when giving a greeding. >> no.sat next to larry david at dinner not long ago. i was so excited. >> tracee: he sat down next to me on a flight and i was like, oh! >> okay, oh my god. i love him. and it was just when the harvey weinstein, the first wave of stories had broken. i was kind of joking with him. but not really. and i said are you nervous to sit next to me?

he was like, well, i am a little nervous. and i said, you need to really educate yourself about what is okay and what ist. and we kind went through what was okay and what wasn't. >> tracee: do you want to -- am i larry david? i'm a man, i'm wearing a suit. this will do. >> okay. i'll show you. you be larry. so the first one i said was, et your whole body against me like this. i do not want to feel your [ bleep ]. you can do this. you can do tha safe hug. the a-line h. the a-frame hug. >> the other is the sideways hug. like this. that means you're going into the shoulder. connecting. >> tracee:ward pie >> the other thing is do not do this.cee: this is another one. a pet peeve of mine. may i use your body? >> i'm consenting. >> did you hear that? "may i use your body for a

moment." it's a simple question. may i hug you? >> absolutely. >> tracee: so this is the other one. , it seems. this is a very tender area for ladies. >> it is vulnerable. very, very vulnerable. >> tracee: it is and not an area you want someone to touch and it >> that kind of dialogue right there. it's that simple. "may i?" >> tracee: yes. you ask the courtesy question. i'm standing out here but i'm going to do this because tanda. [ applause ] "it's messy" and "#girlgaze" are available now. amanda de cadenet, everyone! weth miguel and travis scott! [ cheers and applause ] ♪ >> dicky: the "jimmy kimmel live" concert series is presented by mercedes- benz. the best or nothing. .olution.

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>> tracee: that's our show. this was incredible -- i had the best time ever. childhood dream come true. check off the list. i'd like to thank mary j. blige, amanda de cadenet, and my friend jimmy kimmel. "nightline" is next. but first, here with the song "pin again, miguel! [ cheers and applause ]

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this is "nightline." >> tonight, the sole king returns. steve madden, the man behind the billion-dollar brand -- >> that's a great frigging shoe. >> making a comeback after a stint in prison using his second chance to pay it forward. the real iron man? a british inventor mastering the physics of flight. soaring in his homemade jet-powered suit like a big-screen superhero. already breaking speed records. now producing them for private sale. is it worth the risk? and capturing vietnam. he jumped out ofnd ran into battlefields. now this veteran abc cameraman recalling the dangers of filming america's first televised war. but first the "nightline 5."