from nbc news, this is "today" with kathie lee gifford and hoda kotb, live from studio 1a in rockefeller plaza. hello, everybody. i mean all of you. thank you for joining us for fun day, monday, the 27th of january. >> look who's back. >> i'm back. >> just look. >> i'm always glad. i'm not trying to ruin my -- waste my life, but i'm glad january is almost over. >> over. >> and february is the shortest month of the year and then we're already in march.

>> by the way, you picked the perfect week to be off, especially weatherwise. it was a nightmare. >> i checked it every single day. part of me felt sorry for you. other part was, like, oh, my gosh. here's what -- we were going to go, frank and i were going to go down to the keys with bambino, get in the sunshine for a little bit, for a week's vacation. my daughter who is 20, almost 21 called me up and said words that every parent longs for. mom, would you want to come up and spend some time with me in l.a.? >> oh, my god. >> you know what, the fact that your children even want to be around you much less come and spend time, so i did that. we had an awesome time in los angeles, saw some friends and the weather was -- i know it is a 100 year long -- worst drought in 100 years. >> wow. >> yes. it is terrible. it is really, really dangerous. so the people that live there are very, very concerned about it and rightfully so. you happen to be the blessed person that spends a few days there, you just -- i was going

to fly back to jfk and pick up my husband and my dog and i looked at the weather and said, see you in miami. and i was -- no. because there's frank and bambino, sitting -- sitting -- ♪ sitting on the dock of the bay ♪ we had a ball. that's how i wear my hair in the keys the entire time. that's my scrunchy. that's love right there. frank never says a word about it. >> how cute are you three? >> adorable. you know what, down there, you do not care. the trip to alabama jacks and bambino gets to -- i go to places where they love my dog. >> bambino goes to alabama jacks. >> a fan club down there. so, thank you, jenna bush, absolutely a doll. >> such a sweet girl and such fun. >> she is. she's no me, but she's a doll. i love her to pieces. i heard from lots of people that they enjoyed her as well so much. so, hoda, i'm back with you.

>> i'm glad you're back. i'm so glad. >> you -- >> i went to l.a. this is like every now and then you have a weekend, you go, i can't believe i had this weekend, i never have those weekends, but this time i did. >> you knew it was going to be magic. >> there was a big music cares celebration for carroll king, a fund-raiser. i was trying to get tickets and i couldn't and i couldn't. and suddenly we got great tickets, marty and his wife, dorothy, helped us out with great tickets. we helped out at the carole king tribute event. we get to the red carpet who is standing in front of me? james taylor. right in front of me. you're, like, oh, my god, look who's here. i was like the paparazzi. then i decided, we've got to get a selfie with carroll. >> and jen. >> jen miller was there. so pretty. we went to the concert in pink and all these wonderful -- >> performers. >> performers, that's from another thing -- were playing her song. we have a little snippet. >> you did video? >> a little. let's watch. ♪ ♪ come and get me

♪ i feel the earth move under my feet ♪ ♪ i feel the sky tumbling down ♪ so good inside good inside >> natural woman, huh? >> oh, wow. >> it was so moving. i was weeping. we had the best time. and then i totally squatted as you. >> squatted? >> there was a clive davis party, you got invited, i didn't. so i took your invite. it was so great. i was like i wonder if we're getting in. probably not. i get in there and i put on my red dress my mom got me and some girl is wearing the exact same dress. so we --

>> you did the right thing. you said -- >> it happens and we own it. >> it was -- stevie wonder was there, joni mitchell. all these people. people were performing macklemore and it was your seat. i'm sorry. >> i had a great seat down in the keys, baby, yes. hoda, i'm so happy. nothing makes you happier. >> it was an awesome weekend. we have to see "beautiful," me and you. >> "beautiful" in about two weeks. >> good. >> i'm so happy for her. she's one of the -- and james taylor. these two people, for certainly it was my youth, not yours, hoda, but they are the soundtrack of my life. two favorite albums, cds growing up, they weren't cds then, was tapestry by carroll king and sweet baby james. you want to know what a generation of unbelievable music was, listen to those two cds. >> daft punk last night -- >> i never heard of them, of course, but i am their biggest fans now. >> five awards. they played that song "get lucky" and that's the one that pharrell sings on and they won album of the year, they won all

these awards and they don't speak. they don't say anything. they're robots. anyway, here is a little bit of that. ♪ get lucky get lucky ♪ freak out ♪ freak out >> that's why i enjoy the grammys. i get to discover what everybody's been talking about. i hear the songs for the very first time. the ones you guys are all sick of, i go, yeah, yeah. that's kind of catchy. >> those guys never show their faces. we don't how old they are, what color they are, anything about them. >> they're french, right? >> they get all this success and they can still have an anonymous life. i think that's fantastic. >> one of the best duets in the whole thing. >> sara and carole. >> they sang this kind of mashup of beautiful and brave. only ten seconds, because -- >> otherwise we have to pay money. >> let's watch a little.

♪ say what you want to say ♪ and let the words flow out honestly ♪ ♪ i want to see you be brave >> their voices are beautiful together. >> you can look at sara saying oh, my god, she's singing my song. you can feel it when you're watching. >> you're disappointed she didn't win? >> why didn't she win? she was great. >> why haven't i ever been nominated is a bigger question? >> beyonce and jay-z, beyonce and jay-z opened the whole thing. >> i was on a cd that won -- >> what? >> but a little winnie-the-pooh album called take my hand. >> got nominated for a grammy? >> yeah, like 20 other artists on it, but -- >> who cares? you were on it. did you win? >> no. poor winnie-the-pooh, if i didn't have kathie lee on it, i probably would have won. pink sang while doing this aerial routine. >> she's such a goddess. >> visual artist. >> yeah, let's watch.

♪ got to get up and try, try, try ♪ ♪ got to get up and try, try, try ♪ >> now, does she ever come down? mingle in the audience, you know? or does she do the whole thing from up there? >> how does she sing upside down? >> very well. >> it is amazing. >> yeah, i have a lot of respect for her. >> paul mccartney and ringo star, dieing to see those two get back together. they didn't sing a beatles song but one of paul's new ones. the other big news on social media was pharrell's hat. >> finally -- that one would have fit you, hoda. yeah. >> they called him a canadian mounty. look at beyonce's face. oh, my god. >> can we talk about beyonce's body now? oh, my gosh. talk about coming back from a baby. she looks better than she's ever looked. >> we have a teeny clip of that beginning. no, we don't. >> we can't because we don't have any money.

>> we don't. okay. so we're going to talk more with tim stack. our stackables. >> watch what happens live at the andy cohen show that you know about. matt and savannah went on. when you were on the show, you are dead. it is live. >> 11:30 at night. what are they doing there when they get up at 2:00 in the morning? >> that's what they do. they played a game called wife power or fourth hour. matt and savannah had to guess if the quote came from our show , the fourth hour, or from the real housewives of anything. we're going to play two questions and see if we recognize it. let's go. >> we can't hear -- >> yeah. >> okay, we'll try it again. okay. we're ready. go. >> how did anyone get pregnant before there was the -- >> hoda kotb. how did yaep one get pregnant

before there was a -- >> we don't know what the question was, but -- >> this must be fun for you at home. >> kathie lee said that. >> one more time. i wish i could lip sync. >> i'm going to pee on your carpet. >> i know the answer to that because she then came to my house and peed on my carpet, that's kathie lee. >> and the answer is -- cam richards from the housewives. >> i would have said pp. just the p part is passe. i would have used the real term urinate but i never -- i've never been to matt's house. >> you haven't? >> no. so he's a liar. okay. so jonah hill hosted "saturday night live" for the third time. i guess he was great. a surprise guest came up. >> he did. "the wolf from wall street" leonardo dicaprio. watch a little bit of the monolog. take a look. >> can we do the thing we did every day? >> is it going to help you be

less nervous? >> yeah. ♪ >> am i flying, jack? >> yes, rose. yes, you're flying! >> that is cute. >> so good. >> that is cute. what you got? >> this is a beautiful smelling and a great thing for your skin called moroccan oil, a dry body oil. you used it. >> yes. >> you turned me on to all moroccan oil. >> it smells so good and it rubs right in. okay. >> egyptian skin. >> what you got? >> last week i didn't have a chance to tell you about debbie boone's new cd. if you love music from the '30s and '40s. there she is in one of rosemary clooney's dresses from years ago, she sang in -- she was the daughter-in-law of rosemary clooney. i had a chance to do debbie on

my podcast, starting this wednesday with nia vardalos, really fun. we're all doing rise to shine about giving back. if you're interested, get a book called "i like giving," practical ideas by brad formsa. >> okay. >> good stuff. >> if you couldn't stay up late for the grammys -- >> or out having some fun this weekend, we'll catch you up on everything you might have missed including the biebster. >> and the stars rocked their style last night. but you know who can make them look a little bit better. >> bobbie thomas. >> yes, she is. >> she's here with red carpet redos. first these messages. as a kid, i made a list of all the places i wanted to visit. i'm still not going to make it to mars, but thanks to hotwire's incredibly low travel prices, i can afford to cross more things off my list. this year alone, we went to the top of the statue of liberty... and still saved enough to go to texas-- to a real dude ranch! hotwire checks the competition's rates every day... so they can guarantee their low prices. so we got our 4-star hotels for half price. next up, hollywood! ♪ h-o-t-w-i-r-e

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>> how are you? >> good, how are you? >> the grammys, big deal. they had an impromptu sort of -- not impromptu but a big wedding that popped up a big gay fandango. that's what i'm calling it. but they played macklemore and ryan lewis, the song "same love", which is this beautiful love about acceptance and accepting gay people and basically queen latifah came out. i guess she's ordained now as a minister and she married 33 couples, weren't all gay, gay and straight couples, men and ladies, but it was just beautiful, and then madonna came out and sang "open your heart" and dressed like the sheriff of gay town. look at her. she looks like -- >> best little whorehouse in texas. >> what you doing here, partner? >> madonna, grills and the whole thing. >> and with her son on the red carpet. i love her, but madonna coming out with a cane made me really sad. a dark moment. >> don't remind people of your age. >> an interesting moment when

album of the year was announced and, well, let's just take a look at the moment, shall we? you break it down. >> and the grammy goes to -- "random access memories." >> she thought it was her. >> okay, so that didn't look like such a dramatic moment. taylor -- >> if you zoomed in on taylor, basically, the winner, we should keep that "random access memories," first it was like "red" is the title of her album, and you saw her react. her father was next to her and it looked like someone gut punched him. >> she's won before. she's won grammys before. >> yeah, yeah, yeah, she was dancing, having a good time, she and yoko ono. yoko was casting spells on people, like pointing at people with two fingers. >> don't get on her bad side. >> macklemore cleaned up they

did great. >> i feel bad for ryan lewis, because he never gets to say anything. >> i know. >> like hoda a little bit, you know? just not fair, right, hoda? come on. >> you're the ryan lewis of this duo. that's too bad. i'm not sure what ryan lewis is like, role is in that group. and they got cut off in their -- >> we made this album without a record label. we madth independently. >> still not giving him a chance. >> so they -- >> they crank the music up. >> that was not -- >> i don't know, it is weird, because he's like we made this without you all and then -- the music played. >> so many people are doing it their own way. they're taking advantage of social media, with the next subject we're going to talk about, i think justin bieber, justin's whole career came because of social media and youtube. >> absolutely. >> what is the latest on what is going on with him? >> justin bieber last week had

the big dui arrest in miami. and he literally, after he got out of prison, he flew to miami, like the next morning, saturday morning -- he was already in panama, saturday morning on vacation, i guess. and so usher, who sort of discovered him, flew down there and he's been hanging out and -- >> his mom too. >> yeah. >> i called his mom because we're friends and we were in the keys and i said, listen, i'm an hour away, we can come and bail him out if you want us to. and she said to -- my assistant, thank you so much, but his father is with him. i thought that was a good thing until then i saw the father might be part of the problem. >> yeah, it looks like the father might be partying with him, kind of like -- >> they said there was video out that showed he wasn't going 60 miles an hour, he was going in the 30s. i mean, do we know what -- >> does a maserati do a 30? does it go right to 60? >> there was a report that the owner of the car said that basically gps tracking said it

didn't go over 55 miles an hour, so who knows? he also, you know, the problem is that florida has a zero tolerance policy when it comes to underage drinking, so he's not -- >> and drugs. >> this is what happens when people adopt monkeys. >> my theory. he had a monkey, michael jackson had a monkey, zac efron got hit by a monkey on the show. what is it with monkeys. >> which stars hit a high note and which ones could use a remix? bobbie has red carpet radios do from last night's grammys. thank you, stackable. >> don't go anywhere because we might just be calling you in a minute. >> we may not. that's because you could be our fan of the week. >> we hope it's you. >> we hope so. but probably not. ♪ whoa, who-o-o-a ♪ whoa, who-o-o-a ♪ one, two, three, four! ♪ ohh, oh-oh-oh-oh ♪ ohh, oh-oh-oh-ohhh ♪ go, let's go ♪ hit me like a supernova ♪ let it flow ♪ over like an ocean ♪ when the sound explodes ♪ everybody's feeling all right ♪

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we're back with some of our favorite things to do on a fun day monday. the surprise hour, fan of the week. drum roll, please. while we spin the globe. never know where we might land. >> today it landed in albuquerque, new mexico. >> yes! >> karen greenlio watches us on channel 4. she's here with her daughter alexandria. >> hi, congratulations. >> hi.

>> how cute are they? >> beautiful. is she about 4 years old? >> she's 3. >> beautiful. >> we're going to tell you why you won, because you're such a fabulous fan, aren't we, hoda? >> karen's been a fan since the beginning, about the same time she had her first child and now a tradition of mother and daughter bonding. she continues now with her younger daughter, alexandria. >> they never miss an episode and developed a routine of exercising, relaxing with a glass of grape juice and laughing together while watching our show. so sweet. so, karen, are you excited to hear why you're going to go? >> we are, thank you. such a blessing. >> you and a guest will head to the beautiful crystal coast, located along north carolina's southern outer banks for four days and three nights. you'll stay in a multi-bedroom beach view cottage courtesy of blue water vacation rental. beautiful there.

>> you're also going to enjoy dinner at amos mosquito restaurant and explore the local nature. you'll have passes to the view forks historic site. vacation rental and airfare accommodations by the crystal coast tourism authority. are you excited? >> you taking alexandria? >> we are, yes. my goodness, absolutely. >> wonderful. thank you. >> thanks for watching, guys. >> thanks for being such a great fan. bye, alexandria. >> bye. >> good-bye, darling. how precious. okay. >> if you think you deserve to be our fan of the week, go to klgandhoda.com and tell us why. locker room catfights and extra points for cuteness. >> she'll tell us where the real action is on super bowl sunday. and grammy fashion fixes with bobbie thomas. all that and so much more after your local news. >> can't wait.

>> announcer: grammy's fashion is brought to you by lucky charms. we're back with more of today on this fun damon day. back with what we want to do on this show. >> we have bobby thomas. >> let's get started. first were some ladies, all that jazz with this category. these are just the big names that made a statement. you know, they're famous for artistic expression when it comes to the grammys. >> which means you won't like it. >> well, look, madonna's madonna. a lot of people compared her to a certain religious faction. then katy perry, you know, the valentino couture, i wasn't a fan. i did love cindy lauper, this is

just cindy. a little on the wild side. >> yeah. >> some of the women were big trend of the night, sierra. i loved taylor. she was looking -- >> excuse cisicitsit -- exquisi >> and then rita laura. it kind of changed color in person. next, someone we're familiar with here is zen daya. >> she was adorable. she stuck out in this dress from emmanuel ongaro. it was fresh and different. i loved that it was actually a dress and just a fun color that stood out.

this was a great pick. alicia keys looks fantastic and i wish i had this body, because she looks great. but i wanted to sort of share something at home, if you find a dress like this in the store and just don't think you can pull this off because you're not going to the grammys, you know, you can add a sheer panel just like that, and it still is sexy. i actually kind of like what the sheer panel did to her frame, bought she has great strong shoulders, but without the wide set straps, it pulled her together. >> would you do that or skin tone? >> you could do a lot, lace, you could do black. >> a great piece of jewelry to pull it over and tie it up. >> a lot of things. this is for someone who would want to try something like that and be more modest. >> what about gloria estefan? >> she is the nicest woman and most beautiful inside and out. i loved what she wore, but i did want to see this seam you see in the sleeve sort of -- i wanted to see it across there. >> makes it a little maternal, doesn't it? >> a little bit. and her hair. and, you know, i really can't -- >> look at the difference. >> look at how fantastic she

looks with just lightening up, crop the hair, crop the -- you can still have the overlay, but just keep it shorter because if you extend at that line, where if you see where the sleeve originally was -- >> it is slimming. >> before it kind of extended her. so this is just something to pay attention, especially if you have some girlfriends up top like myself. so now we have ariana grande, too much dress, too little dress. so this was something fun that i wanted to see the swap. and now you'll see that i think this is a little more youth appropriate. i actually wish that i put -- would have also swapped the shoes, but i really thought ashanti has such great curves and this line was so beautiful on her silhouette that it was really fantastic. >> i love a black background with a floral on it. it is unusual, very pretty. >> i have to say, thank you so much to all of our viewers, when he so many people tweeting suggestions and more of those swaps on bobbie.com and

todd.com. >> of course you will. >> on today.com, taylor swift was the favorite. >> what i loved about it, it was so elegant. >> lots of times at the grammys you see -- >> crazy. >> we all love it. but it was nice to see her dressed so elegantly. thank you, bobbie. >> thank you, bobster. if your marriage isn't the relationship you imagined, it may need some work. >> some advice to help you love the one you're with. and one team will get licked on super bowl sunday. >> in first ever kitten bowl. >> is beth stern here? >> yes, beth stern is here. >> i heard a rumor. >> aren't they sweet? need a spoon, dear? not anymore.

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all right, get ready to see the claws come out. this show is full of catfights. >> they're making their escape too. not this show. but the all new kitten bowl on the hallmark channel where players are rough on the astroturf, but behind the scenes, just a bunch of pussycats. take a look.

>> recovers the ball after that ferocious hit. he's at the 10, marching downfield. >> what a pass to snowball and gets in for the score. >> touchdown! >> of course. >> is there nothing he won't do? >> he's everywhere. and here with her pick of the litter that are all up for adoption is the show's host, miss beth stern. >> i made regis do this. he's my neighbor and he has -- ashley for years. i know he was a cat lover. i made him come on. >> tell us about the kitten bowl. what is going on with this? >> you joined us. i made you come too. >> she's allergic to cats. >> yes. she's a really good sport. it is a celebration of kittens. and when i say that, i just want people to watch the cuteness of the kitten bowl on super bowl sunday, tune into the hallmark channel. and see an adorable cat, all 71 kittens have since been adopted.

so we're hoping to inspire people, seeing a cute black, tabby, orange or black cat, go to your local shelter and give one of these guys a home. >> ridiculous to have any superstition about black cats. just in much need of a home and love as everybody. >> howard and i have a 22 pound black cat named leon bear and he has only brought our family good luck. so i say black cats are good luck and she needs a home. >> you're hoping people, while the super bowl is on, they may flip over to the hallmark channel and take a breath? >> it is fun. a little breather from the big game. >> got a runner. we got a runner. >> they're very nimble. >> look how cute. >> look how they chase the thing. >> all of these kittens are available for adoption at north shore animal league america right after the show. if any of these capture your eye, come over and adopt one. what is great too, on super bowl sunday, all the local shelters

will hold super bowl kitten parties. go to your local shelter. perfect time to adopt. it is winter, you don't want to train your puppy outside. >> we got a runner. >> that's the fun. wait until you see what happens on the kitten bowl. >> are there any big issues that crop up? >> hoda, a couple of catfights. >> of course there were. >> a few catnaps. we lost a couple of kittens on the wall, the wall was all velcro and when he to pull them off. it was adorable. it is fun. you see kittens having a ball. >> just being what they are. >> thank you to you. you do so much for animal welfare. you're synonymous with it now. fantastic. >> who else is participating? >> kelly rutherford fell in love with two of our players and adopted them. rachael ray, a huge animal lover and she helps and gives proceeds to her cat food line, which is so incredible.

we had such a fun day. yeah. >> it was a lot of fun. >> i think it will be fun to see on super bowl sunday. >> meanwhile, howard and i are fostering kittens at home, so if anybody -- we fostered 50 since june. adopted a blind cat. there is howard and bella, our blind cat, bella, look at her. she has one eye and our four other cats. those are my babies. >> it is -- why not? god bless you. >> we have cats all over the place. you can catch kitten bowl on super bowl sunday on the hallmark channel. >> why saying you love someone is easy, but showing your love can be hard work. >> i love you, hodi. and i'm rather fond of you too, beth. >> show your love for valentine's day. >> affordable get aways.

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>> you mean ben michaelis, don't you? >> what did i say, ben michaels? a relationship is not always easy, it takes work. you think once the romance is gone, the relationship is dead. that's not the case. >> we we have to put a lot in, a lot of time, a lot of effort, a lot of self-exploration as well. >> why does that come as a surprise to people, ben? >> people don't realize when you're choosing to be with someone, you're choosing to be with the person and who they're becoming. as you change in life, a lot of effort is required to make sure the bond keeps going. >> what if you don't like the change? >> what if you evolve into something you don't enjoy. >> what if they start going down a path that seems dark to you and doesn't bring out the best in them, then what? >> that's -- sometimes is when you get some help from the outside to make sure you are working on something together, you have the same intention in the relationship. >> i think it is funny. some people are make -- they can say the right words and that's great, because you feel all warm and fuzzy, but it is more about when someone does something for you as opposed to saying is