from nbc news this is "today" with kathie lee gifford and hoda kotb from studio 1-a in rockefeller plaza. we are going to do something we haven't done before, a whole show on before and after. >> we are trying to address all kinds of elements in your life, before and after. how you were before you were dating your now husband and how life has changed since you said you do. >> depending on how many years you do. and how to dress ten years

thinner. i say stay home. how to makeover the room in your home. how to makeover your living room and your kitchen. >> we are finally going to teach people something on your program and how to dress up your dinner. bobbie will show you how to get the best fake tan. a lot of people don't like to be out in the sun. >> you don't understand people like that, do you? >> i don't get them and i don't like them. i think since we haven't had much sun this is appropriate. >> this is interesting. time.com is reportg -- this is not a surprise to me. men in my house and it seems like maybe it is the same here. men find women more attractive with less makeup on. >> they don't like all the shellacking. this is scientific it came from universities. >> how did they get together?

>> i don't know but they photographed women with lots of makeup and some with little and asked them what they liked. the guys liked less. when there is just such heavy, your eyes are heavy. everything smears and then late at night. you ever gone to the bathroom you are all dressed up and you think you look hot and you go to the bathroom and you look at yourself and you can't believe it. i get the black raccoon eyes. and nobody bothers to tell you. >> somebody here, we have tested all of these different guys -- >> we have a lot of guys here. >> everybody has an opinion here. >> i have a theory about this. >> what is your theory? >> sometimes the man is waiting so long for the woman to get ready because she is putting on all of the makeup you are so mad when you get in the car you don't look at her anyway. >> has that ever happened to you? >> no.

it never has. >> how many of our guys agree? >> thank you. >> i get ready faster. we can't blame it on that. >> i think just the look a little bit goolish. >> are we putting on that makeup for other women? >> probably. probably. by the way, mainly because when you go to a party and you really dress well or look really hot and your husband doesn't notice or doesn't say anything you know your girlfriends will say i love that dress. and then you feel like at least somebody is noticing if he is not going to notice. >> that is kind of sad. our confidence is all about that. we have a solution for it. >> this is crazy. you heard about all of the plastic surgeries, nose job, chemical peel, anything. now they are doing something different. they are putting in dimples in people.

>> it is called dimpleplasty. >> people are getting dimples put into their places. mostly requests by people who have round faces. >> kate middleton and jennifer garner. >> they got them naturally and it looks adorable. it starts at $1,200. i don't know if it is for two or one. you sort of want it symmetrical. >> they make an incision inside the cheek. there is no scar, just a couple of stitches. apparently as your skin sags over as life goes on your dimple will droop with it. and it is not reversible. so that's it. >> what happens if the stitch pops and there goes your dimple. like when a tooth falls out. every time we go to london one of frank's teeth falls out.

we don't go to london anymore and he is fine. i don't know what happens. >> one time i had to do this interview. and this guy was interviewing and missing his front together. the guy was going to be on date line for the whole hour. we were like my god. he trained himself so long he talked with his lower lip. that was his normal conversation. i was going to get a get chicklet and fix it up. >> i never know what to say to somebody. a friend of mine is working with me on a project. i don't want to say too much about it. showed up at the house and completely missing one of his middle teeth in the front. you don't know what to say. it turns out it is not a happy story. he was waiting -- i love this

guy. he is fantastic. you know him, hoda. he is a big cyclist. he had an accident -- >> and his tooth fell out. >> it takes time to get a tooth made like that. it is a big to do. i'm going to see him today. i hope his tooth is in. >> tell him to get a temporary. >> those hurt. he has a temporary but they hurt. you heard of the selfie. now there is something called the shelfy. it is a social media trend. it is a photo of one's possessions arrayed on a surface. here is what our producers said they were going to surprise us in our dressing room and take a shelfy. >> like some people do of their book cases. >> this is kathie's. i'm sure it is probably nice and perfect.

whatever, okay. i like it. >> it's kind of messy for me. usually i like my shoes the right direction. so she has everything. >> one way. >> you can make more room that way. >> must have been a very busy day. >> a picture of my shelfie. anyway -- one more thing about look at me. >> you know what it's time for? >> what? >> "friday funny." [ laughter ] >> we're ready. >> i missed it. two guys are hiking in the forest when they come across a big grisly bear. one of the guys immediately stops and takes off his hiking boots and pulls out his running shoes out of his backpack. he starts to put them on and his

friend says dude, are you crazy, why are you doing that? the guy begins to tie the laces. there is no use. you are wasting your time. do you know how fast those grizzlies are? you are never going to be able to outrun it. the friend finishes up and says i only had to outrun you. >> a new single coming out called good kisser. and he has a message for us about it. let's take a look. >> kathie lee and hoda this is a sneak peek of my new video "good kisser." the shirtless shot i was thinking of you. drink to that. >> we are going to show you "good kisser" later on in the show. that is a tease. >> his new album to come out this fall. the skinny on how to dress up to ten pounds lighter. how does marriage change your relationship? before and after you say i do coming up right after this.

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talk to your son or daughter about opportunities in the army. you remember your wedding day. do you still feel the way about yourself as that day.

a weing went back to see. >> it is all captured in the hbo documentary "112 weddings" premiering this june. >> may our home be filled with love and laughter, patience. >> what did you think marriage was going to be? >> we have two children now. i tell you, i'm delighted the way it turned out. >> what a brilliant concept. >> how do you make the feelings last that long? creator of the neuman method. >> thank you.

>> we have a prince charming syndrome in our culture that we start with little girls from day one reading the fairytales and they live happily ever after. >> we are not doing them a service by letting them believe that is true. >> one of the first things scientific because research shows that you know that loving infatuation, that newness we love? it lasts about two years. by the time you get married you have known each other about two years so that starts to go away. >> so you are actually pushing it at six months to a year. what happens is a relationship in the beginning is exciting and new. it is like wow. >> that's the worse. >> and then you get bored. after a year you understand you are not bored, you are just comfortable. >> that the good? >> that is good. do you like comfortable shoes? think of a relationship like a car. if you don't put gas in the car

what happens? >> you also want a new pair of shoes once in a while. >> you want your slippers. we can't get a new husband and new wife. >> some people do. >> you have to create new stories for you as a couple. it's the new music, the new friends, new intimacy. you can't get to the 50 or 60 year mark doing the same old thing. you have to do is anticipation. before you get married you are anticipating the first date, the phone call, the wedding. we now know that anticipation makes you happier than the event you are anticipating. you like fridays more than the weekends. get back to anticipating. talk about what is coming up. >> get rid of unrealistic expectations. it is good not to be with your spouse every day. i'm not with my husband every day. i take two days for me. i find that my husband misses me. where are you?

>> he doesn't think you are having an affair? >> he misses me. he knows where i am. i am at an event or function or girls night. >> if one part of the couple wants new experiences and the other wants the same old thing? >> we are not supposed to recognize ourselves years from now. the reason we get married is learning a new perspective outside of ourselves. for all those people who say i let her go i don't mind big mistake. we get married because we are trying to learn about the world from someone else. go with that spouse and do new things. >> if you don't you end up in divorce court. it takes two to tango. if one wants to sit on the couch while the other says let's go to the park, that person has to get off the couch or you end up in divorce court. >> we like you two. >> nice. thank you. a questionnaire about how

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it is time for "bobbie's buzz." >> it's time to show some skin. everything you need to know from taking your skin from winter before. >> lots to get through. i know you are sort of afraid.

i want you to trust me. so many people at home -- >> i have rarely seen a fake tan that i thought looks great. >> here is what you need to do. shave and make sure you put up exfoliating gloves. dry areas will absorb more of the product. >> scrub yourself all the way. >> use that around your cuticles, elbows or toes because that will help be a barrier. add lotion to your hands and feet because that will help. >> this is all before you start. remember vaseline is going to fully block the product and lotion gives a little block so it will blend through. >> on your elbows where it is crinkly. >> when it comes to products these are my picks. they are online. if the products are clear it is dha. that is what turns your skin

into a color. but a lot of other products put color in it which is a dye. and that sits on your skin. it dyes the top and that gives you a boost. you have to understand that. if you want a product to do both and look immediately dark you want the combo. you want a gradual overnight you want the clear. it is not that hard. if you are going to use this they give you this. thihelps to smooth it on. >> you put the product on it. >> they also offer -- >> how do you get the places you can't reach? >> you either have a friend or you do like yoga. this is helpful to get further on the back. >> you know what i'm saying. >> so then they also offer the

wash off which has no dha. this will come off. i have that on my skin. if you wipe it off it will wash off. then you also want to invest in products if you don't want to do the mitt, wipes. these wipes will wipe on and blend off. and then jurgens natural glow. there are a lot of products. what you really want to know is get the three days to glow. this is like a 50% strength. it is not a full blast and not light. >> a white one and a brown one. you want to think of this glow product like half lotion. and then you can find other tips. coming up next -- >> we show yo ahow to dress to look ten pounds thinner.

we're back with a special before and after edition of "today." you want to look slimmer without hitting the gym? here to dress you up with the right shape wear, clothing and shoes is style expert rebecca george. >> i promise you. >> the first layer is always shape wear. you got to get the right type. >> so many women have trouble

with it because it is uncomfortable. we have two new finds here that are really cool and innovative. the first is hooked up. totally new in the market. you know when you want to cover the tummy but the shape wear tends to roll down and you show ofyour muffin top. it has these little hooks all around and they hook to your bra. whichever bra you love and have in your wardrobe you can add this to it. you will see how it stays up there so it tames the tummy. now we have to talk about taming this area that we all love. the hips, the love handles. some products can be heavy and feel too tight. this is from maiden form, the weightless collection. i will give these to you. feel them. they literally feel like a pair feel them. they literally feel like a pair of nilens.

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