♪ good morning. it is tuesday, may 12th 2015. welcome to "cbs this morning." breaking news -- other massive earthquake hits nepal. the deadly rsaftehock causes buils dingto collapse and panic in the streets. tom brady suspendeded for four four games did the nfl go too far in punishing the super bowl mvp and the patriots. and a legendary artwork sold for $179 million. we're live with the most expensive painting sold at auction. >> but we begin this morning with a look at today's "eye opener," your world in 90 seconds. >> people in the capitaly cit of kathmandu rushing out on to the

streets. >> nepal hit with another massive earthquake. ag>> mnitude of 7.3 felt by many in the aftershock. >> quake. >> this is a crisis in new england. >> i think it's incredibly unfair. it's way too steep. >> tom brady will be suspended four games after the deflate-gate scandal. >> i don't think it tarnishes a ga lecy but i thitnk i impacts it. >> it's another day of ntpoteially severe weather in the plains. >> people cleaning up after an ef-3 tornado touched down in van, texas, killing two people. >> george zimmerman with another tishoong in florida. the alleged triggerman had a showdown with zimmerman. >> this is an opportunity for to you get outf o my face right now. >> two people have been shot near university of unc campus.

>> and it was much more than expected. >> john kerry meeting with opinion putin for hitagh-skes talks to discuss syria. >> a bolt bus exploding in flames on. massachusetts turnpike. >> you're on fire you're on re fi! >> all that -- >> plus a painting was auctions for a record $174 million. >> and "all that mattered" -- >> a lot of hot dogs not to mention churros. >> christie defended himself saying, hey, both of those games went into overtime. >> on "cbs this morning" -- >> come here is this our football time together? come here. >> no! >> kiss me now! kiss me now! championship [ cheers and applause ] >> announcer: this morning's "eye opener" is presented by toyota, let's go places. the captioning funded by cbs

welcome to "cbs this morning." charlie rose is off. so jeff glor of our digital network cbsn is here. good to have you here. we start with breaking news a major earthquake hit nepal this morning. reports say at least 19 people are dead and hundreds injured. >> this quake caused panic in nepal's parliament as the lawmaker was speaking people ran to the exit. it comes after two weeks after an 8.2 magnitude weather killed 8,000 people. seth zoen isdoane is in beijing. >> reporter: the a mountainous region from kathmandu and mt. everest. eyewitnesss report people running into the street. we just got off the phone with a journalist visiting the

epicenter of the april 25th quake. he describes scene as people running out panicking screaming earthquake, earthquake another earthquake! he describes it looks as if they were going to collapse but some regions hit so hard that there simply was nothing left to collapse. we visited that sindhupalchowk area. the area hit so hard. we visited the high up mountainous remote villages where we saw so many villages where nearly every single home had been damaged or destroyed. and people were waiting even a week after the earthquake and still have not yet received any aid. that is one of the things that we kept hearing. that this is such a difficult country to try to get aid to those in need because the infrastructure is so weak, jeff. >> seth doane in beijing, thank you. the new england patriots are

standing behind tom brady. his agent promises to appeal a four-game suspension for brady's role in deflate-gate. don dahler is outside of patriots headquarters at gillette stadium. good morning. >> reporter: good morning, tom brady wasn't the only one punished. the league also fined the patriots $1 million and took away two of their future draft picks. brady is arguably the nfl's gg biest star and today, some of his teammates areal rlying around him. >> i think it's incredibly unfair. >> reporter: even with the nfl season four months away the punishment is big news. >> the nfl suspended patriots quarterback tom brady. >> go after the golden boy, can you say appeal? >> reporter: on monday the nfl said the two patriots employees accused of deflating the footballs at the afc championship game in january, john jastremski and james

mcnally likely would not have acted without brady's knowledge. troy vincent wrote your actions clearly constitute conduct detrimental to the integrity of and public confidence in the the game of professional football. jason la canfora said brady deserves some of the blame for the deflate-gate. >> he didn't stop it. and they're taking this as a pretty serious affront to the game. >> reporter: brady's agent called it ridiculous. we will appeal and if the hearing officer is completely independent and neutral, i'm confident the wells report will be exposed as an incredibly frail exercise in fact-finding and logic. brady vigorously denied any wrongdoing and addressed it last week. >> certainly, i accept my role

and responsibility as a public figure. >> reporter: some of the teammates criticized the decision on twitter. bob kraft wrote, tom brady has our unconditional support, our belief in him has not wavered. >> but eli manning called it conflicting. >> if someone is breaking rules, i understand that you get punished for it. >> reporter: those two staffers jastremski and mcnally has been suspended indefinitely by the league. the nfl said they will not be allowed back into professional football without the league's approval. >> peter good morning. >> good morning. >> four games, the biggest team fine ever in nfl history, too tough? >> i thought on behalf of -- especially against the patriots themselves -- i thought it was harsh. i thought it was a little bit of a sledgehammer killing an ant.

in the ted wells report there is the acknowledgement that yeah we find fault with brady here we find fault with the two club employees but everybody connected with the patriots was cleared. that's why i thought the two draft choices -- the money is the money, but the two draft choices, that's harsh. >> what's the message being sent here? one of the messages seems to be we have no favorites, the nfl has no favorites? >> gayle, i think that's a vital thing that the nfl did. 31 owners were watching this. i think a lot of owners felt that the patriots enjoy favorite status in the league. and this san effort on the nfl's behalf to try to get it right in terms of fair play but try to say we play no favorites. >> we knew brady was going to appeal. but the statement from bob kraft said, or indicated at least, that they were going to appeal potentially, because they said

the punishment was too much. what do you expect will play out there? >> i think when bob kraft went to bed last night, he went to bed a guy who is carefully weigh wering had his options. i don't think he's making any decisions about whether he will appeal. my bet is he will go rogue on this, and head will try to appeal this penalty in a court of law. there's no way he can appeal this as an owner because owners have to take the sanctions that the league has set down. >> do you think that the suspension is ultimately upheld or do you think it changes? >> i think so the suspension of brady is probably going to be changed. he could win and it could be eliminated altogether. or it could just be reduced. >> and if brady appeals, does he thought then have to produce some sort of evidence to back up those appeals, potentially those phone records that he refused to turn over before? >> there's no question that if this ever gets into a larger court and away from the auspices of the nfl, that the nfl i'm

sure would push for him to produce his cell phone and just say, hey, list he's not nothing to hide show us your fine. >> but the suspension is uphold when they say the indianapolis colts -- >> are you saying a fix was in? >> imagine that. >> if you look at the patriots schedule, they have a gillion marquee games. i understand it's just a coincidence. more violent weather in texas caused a scare for a plane's passengers and crew. lightning struck a united airlines flight from houston to mexico. the plane diverted to san antonio. >> 4291 all i got was that you were hit by lightning and you've lost some instrumentation. >> many in the community outside of dallas are still picking through the rubble from a deadly weekend tornado.

vicente arenas was in van, texas. good morning. >> reporter: good morning, this is a building that was torn apart by a twister. and in the back you can see electrical crews still trying to restore power to the community. it was a storm that killed two people and sent more than 40 people to the hospital. the deadly tornado damaged an estimates 100 houses here in van, texas, with wind weres up to 140 miles per hour. this house was swept up in the air and moved 12 feet. >> house picked up from its foundation and it landed back again and the debris started falling on us. >> reporter: on monday community members combed through the rubble. >> i lost my ring but they found it. the rest of it we can -- we can take care of. >> reporter: in neighboring arkansas scraps of wood and belongings littered yards where homes once stood. michael and melissa died

protecting their 18-year-old daughter from the ef-2 tornado that ripped through their mobile home park in nashville. back in arkansas red cross volunteers distributed supplies the a shelter. >> it can be replaced. >> reporter: den and donna strum stood outside of their house and tells it looks like a war zone. at what point did you know that your home had just been ripped apart like this? >> when we looked up and saw the sky. >> reporter: what do you do when you have a moment like that? >> pray. >> yeah. >> reporter: two of the five schools were also battered. this is a cafeteria at the elementary school. >> we feel very blessed this did not happen during a school day and i'm not standing up here right now talking to you about any kids. >> reporter: the schools mooer in van are still closed. the good news is the eight people that were missing have now been found, jeff. >> vicente. thank you very much. we are just learning this

morning about a huge merger between two communications giants verizon announced a few minutes ago it will buy aol for $4.4 billion. verizon says that deal will improve its mobile and advertising options. funeral arrangements are set this morning for the two mississippi officers gunned down over the weekend. officer benjamin deen there are buried thursday. funeral services for his colleague, liquori tate will be saturday. the two were killed during a traffic stop. anna werner is at the hattiesburg station with a grieving community. anna, good morning. >> reporter: well the first suspects charged in this case appeared in court for the first time yesterday. now, authorities are still investigating this case but meanwhile, the community came together to remember their fallen officers and honor them as heroes. law enforcement from across mississippi helped to escort two of their own monday. the bodies of officers benjamin

deen and officer liquori tate were transported to their respective hometowns as their families prepared them to lay to rest. it's a day he's dreading. >> in mississippi, i said well you know i said to call us when i get there. my son will be dead my heart's going to be dead, too. >> reporter: sores tell cbs news deen was shot in the face after he pulled a vehicle over saturday night for speeding. tate was hit in the side of his back as he tried to take cover. monday a judge denied bond to marvin banks, the man accused of killing the officers. murder charges against his girlfriend joanie calloway were downgraded to accessory. one other passenger in the car was also arraigned along with

another policeman. as the suspect appeared in court, more than 1,000 people mainly fellow members of the hattiesburg police department packed the convention center to honor the two officers. >> he was proud to wear the badge, he never dishonored it. >> i believe tate's passion and dedication to be a cop was part of his ultimate dream. >>. >> reporter: u.s. attorney general loretta lynch called hattiesburg police chief yesterday to express her condolences and offer any aid the city needs, gayle. >> anna thanks. the words from the father very difficult to hear. secretary of state john kerry arrived in washington this morning to meet with russian president vladimir putin for the first time since the ukraine crisis. margaret brennan is at the state department with a new diplomatic push. margaret, good morning. >> well, good morning, this is secretary kerry's first

face-to-face meeting with vladimir putin in two years and his first visit since that russian military incurringgment in ukraine. but today, kerry is going to make a longshot pitch to enlist russian support in brokering a peace deal in syria. and he's going to ask for a pullback from ukraine, where russian troops are amassing at the border. in a sign of just how difficult this is going to be the russian foreign ministry released a statement saying, the ukraine crisis was, quote, largely provoked by the united states. but despite this acrimony russia and the u.s. have to work together because washington needs mock-up support with any

support of iran. with that impending visit, the u.s. says this is a chance to speak directly to putin himself because he is the sole decision maker. and there is an investigation into what forced a plane to make a belly landing at los angeles international airport. omar villafranca shows us what happened when part of the landing gear on sky west would not deploy. >> is it the left gear or right gear? >> it's going to be the left. >> reporter: landing problems for flight 5316 as it skid down l.a.x. smoke as it leaned to one side. dennis thanass was one of the passengers flying. >> it was very fast. as soon as we missed the airplane the first time we knew they were going to dump the fuel. >> reporter: all 43 passengers

and crew members got off the plane safely. this man took this cell phone video. passengers credited two pilots and a flight attendant for coaching them through. >> they were just very calm. they told us exactly what to do how we should put our heads down. >> much smoother than i expected. they did a great job. >> reporter: sully sullenberger said it was crucial. >> they were able to prevent a spill and prevent any sparks from igniting that. >> if you have to be in a plane crash, that's the one to be in. >> reporter: the national transportation safety board and the faa are investigating what caused the mechanical failure. for "cbs this morning," omar villafranca, los angeles. a dramatic bus trip in

boston. check out what happened while a local tv news team covered last night's fire. >> the traffic continues to go by and one lane of traffic. >> oh, my gosh -- >> my goodness. >> wow, the explosion blew the windows right off that bus. the passengers were heading from new york to boston when the fire broke out. >> and they got off. >> and everybody is okay yeah. some midsize suvs do not make the grade when it comes to certain front end collisions. they have the models that performed badly in the

a fresh start turned into a nightmare when a moving company failed to deliver. >> it's devastating. there are things that we find every single day that aren't here that we know we'll never get back. >> ahead, the new efforts how

americans fight back against movers who hold furniture as hostage. >> tewhe ns is back here on "cbs this morning." stop in for lunch and tap, swipe, and go. chili's. fresh is happening now.

how does it feel to lose the first 10 pounds on weight watchers? ♪ let's go! ♪ ♪ ♪ ♪ ♪ join for free at weightwatchers.com and lose ten pounds on us when you sign up before june 1st. the world is filled with air. but for people with copd sometimes breathing air can be difficult. anoro ellipta. it helps people with copd breathe better for a full 24hours. anoro ellipta is the first fda-approved product containing two long-acting bronchodilators in one inhaler. anoro is not for asthma. anoro contains a type of medicine that increases

risk of death in people with asthma. it is not known if this risk is increased in copd. anoro won't replace rescue inhalers for sudden copd symptoms and should not be used more than once a day. tell your doctor if you have a heart condition, or high blood pressure. tell your doctor if you have glaucoma, prostate or bladder problems, or problems passing urine as anoro may make these problems worse. call your doctor right away if you have worsened breathing chest pain, swelling of your mouth or tongue, problems urinating or eye problems including vision changes or eye pain while taking anoro. nothing can reverse copd. the world is filled with air and anoro is helping people with copd breath air better. get your first prescription free at anoro.com. hi. hi, we're here to look at a camry. we just came from a birthday party. ohh, let me get you a new one. camrys are so reliable. yeah... and you gotta love that bold new styling. here you go. whoa! wow. those balloon towers don't make themselves. during toyota time, get 0% apr financing for 60

months on a bold 2015 camry. offer ends june 1st. for great deals on other toyotas, visit toyota.com. thanks jan. thanks jan. now you both have camrys. yeah! toyota. let's go places. introducing lunch at outback every bloomin' day! hurry in for all your outback favorites. plus new aussie tacos, new savory ribeye melt and our delicious burgers. over 70 lunch combinations starting at just $6.99. it's lunch at last every day at outback. how much protein does your dog food have? 18%? 20? introducing nutrient-dense purina one true instinct with real salmon and tuna and 30% protein. support your active dog's whole body health with purina one. save on everything for summer fun, starting wednesday at kohls

♪ michelle miller is close enough to touch the world's highest priced painting sold at auction. >> norah, i am tempted to touch it. the price on this picasso masterpiece kept rising.

>>who... is this?! >>hi, i am heinz new mustard. hi na na na na >>she's just jealous because you have better taste. whatever. >>hey. keep your chin up. for years, heinz ketchup has been with the wrong mustard. well, not anymore. introducing heinz new better tasting yellow mustard. mmm!

♪ the nfl has suspended tom brady for four games over deflate-gate. [ applause ] >> yeah. yeah, you're going to punish him by making him stay home in his mansion with his supermodel wife. [ laughter ] and think about what he did wrong. [ laughter ] >> that's awesome. that's really funny. >> kind of a nice way to be punished, i think. >> absolutely. you wouldn't mind being punished that way would you, jeff? >> i'd take it if it came to that. >> except your supermodel wife is nicole. >> i have my own supermodel wife. that's right. coming up in this half hour keeping you and your family safe on the roads. we'll have the results. latest crash tests. for midsize suvs ahead. plus a picasso masterpiece

is the all-time king of the auction. with the record-breaking price. what it's sold for and the pricey art is booming. that story is ahead. >> michelle there with the artwork, wouldn't you just touch it? >> i would just touch the corner, the frame. >> you totally would, gayle. >> i would. time to show you some of this morning's headlines. "the washington post" says christianity is declining in america. a survey found adults who describe themselves as adults dropped 8% to 71%. the drop is due in part to unaffiliated americans. "the new york times" says a judge rules against two banks in the 2008 crisis. she said freddie mac and in the

representation. >> and "usa today" says obama administration approves arctic drilling plan. environmentalists say it could lead to a catastrophe for wildlife. shell will start work after receiving state and federal permits. major league baseball pumped up the security for game balls in the wake of the nfl scandal. the clubhouse assistant carries them from the umpires to the field. that was the ball boy's job alone. >> not bad to be careful. and cbs new york says drug seizures in the bath room at the airport. agents found 12 pounds of heroin in one of the bathrooms after a dog picked up the scent. two days later, they discovered heroin and cocaine packages

stashed behind a toilet. so far, no arrests have been made. >> stuffed in the bathroom. >> yeah a new way to smuggle it in. safety ratings are out there this morning for the latest crash tests of midsize suvs. they focus on offcenter crashes which are the most dangerous crashes. wyatt andrews with the details. good morning. >> reporter: of these four tests, four of the seven suvs tested rated marginal or even poor and that includes the dodge journey. the collision they tested is right here essentially the spot in front of the driver. front end collisions that happened off-center in front of the driver are now a priority in insurance industry tests because the spot in front of the driver is among the most vulnerable. the crush zone here has got to do a better job of protecting --

of absorbing energy. >> reporter: david zubi is the chief officer for highway safety. >> a quarter of the deaths that are in crashes are in crashes that look like this. >> reporter: one of these off-center crashes happened to this mom in 2011 when an suv crossed the center line and slammed her car with such force she suffered extensive injuries to her legs back and its. a life long equestrian she doubts they will ever return to high level competition. >> the driver's seat was twisted sideways. the dashboard came in it pinned my knees against the back of the seat. >> reporter: in the latest round of the crash tests called small overlap front crashes, the industry studied. midsize suvs and gave a top rating to the nissan murano.

but four of them tested mar eded marginal. the dodge journey rated poor because of multiple failure. >> mastiff tests on the dummy. high forces around the left leg. the parking brake pedal ripped through the simulated dummy's leg. >> reporter: you're projecting serious deaths in that car? >> we think a number of people experienced a similar crash will experience a possibly fatal injury. >> reporter: chrysler responded with the statement saying the dodge journey has the highest possible safety rating in any other test including top crashes. and more front end collisions which focuses more dead center. gayle. >> we thank you this morning. an anonymous bidder is the new owner of the most expensive painting ever sold at cause of action. the picasso oil painting call

the "the women of algiers" version o sold for nearly $180 million last night. michelle miller is at christie's auction house with a record setting bid. >> reporter: good morning, bidding actually started at $100 million. christie's tells us there were nine other pieces at last night's auction sold for record prices. >> so many people in the day. >> $19 million. will you give me 160? $160 million. >> reporter: it took just 11 minutes and 34 seconds for a phone bidder with a weighty pocketbook to make history. >> $160 million -- it's yours. >> reporter: including the auction house premium. this pablo picasso oil painting sold for an all-time auction record of $179.4 million. when you looked at this piece coming in did you have any idea just what it would go for?

>> behind sussus is a masterspiece. this is the highest point. >> reporter: it's considered to be one of the picasso's most important works. >> 500,000. >> reporter: the chief auctioneer is the global president of christie's auction house. >> it's a great, great collection previously that was sold here at christie's. >> reporter: this vibrant depiction of nude and semi nude women, version "o" is the final painting in a series of picasso from 1954 to 1955. >> $16 million. >> reporter: in 1997 the picasso work sold for $39.9 million. last night's auction showcased more than two dozen 20th century would of art. the pointing man, a bronze by

alberto gioclemente sold for $2 million. what's behind this boom in the art world? >> it's culture. it's global culture that goes across continents. >> reporter: he says the globalization of the art market makes the world feel a bit smaller. >> when you're asian or russian or american or european you're into each other's culture. >> reporter: the head auctioneer at christie's the high global market where high price, driven by investment is showing no signs of slowing down. and new york's series of art shows, or art auctions we should say continues out there the rest of the week including another one right here at christie's later on this morning. gayle, norah. >> and you didn't touch it michelle. you didn't touch it. good job. >> how far away are you from it

michelle? >> i'm like a centimeter away. >> wow. >> they're watching me. >> wow. it was interesting to see how the price went when it started at 500,000 and it went so much higher. >> in 11 minutes. >> in 11 minutes. i want to go to that person's house and see that on the wall. very nice. and it's called a hostage road. many americans can't get their belongings. if you're taking your kids to school or heading out to work set your dvr to watch "cbs this morning" anytime. we'll be right back. we got the new tempur-flex and it's got the spring and bounce of a traditional mattress. you sink into it, but you can still move it around. now that i have a tempur-flex, i can finally get a good night's sleep. when i flop down on the bed, and it's just like, 'ah, this is perfect." wherever you put your body

it just supports you. like little support elfs are just holding you. i can sleep now! through the night! (vo) change your sleep. change your life. change to tempur-pedic. new flonase allergy relief nasal spray. this changes everything. flonase is the 24 hour relief that outperforms a leading allergy pill. when we breathe in allergens our bodies react by over-producing six key inflammatory substances that cause our symptoms. most allergy pills only control one substance, flonase controls six. and 6 is greater than 1. so go ahead, inhale life, excite your senses, seize the day and the night. new flonase. 6 is greater than 1. this changes everything.

how much protein does your dog food have? 18%? 20? introducing nutrient-dense purina one true instinct with real salmon and tuna and 30% protein. support your active dog's whole body health with purina one. in this moment your baby is getting more than clean. your touch stimulates her senses and nurtures her mind. and the johnson's® scent lather and bubbles help enhance the experience. so why just clean your baby when you can give her so much more™? one of the foot's favorite rituals happens at the water's edge. here, they must look their best. smooth, beautiful skin is an advantage. the others can only hide in shame. introducing the new dr. scholl's dreamwalk express pedi.

introducing the sirloin third pound burgers from mcdonald's. they're 100% sirloin topped with premium ingredients. and they're only around for a limited time. but that's not the only reason you need to hurry ... (robble, robble) enjoy this lovin' while it lasts. ♪ ♪

♪ the warmer weather means you'll see more moving trucks but this morning, the government is launching a new campaign warning of fraud by moving companies. you can move property and see

your things effectively held hostage. chris van clearkris van cleave is in washington. >> reporter: 36 million americans move every year. the hostage load, that's when the movers pick up your stuff and say you have to pay up. it's not been easy to settle into her new home after she says the travel from california to texas turned into a nightmare. >> i'm still missing a significant number of items. and the majority of what i owned is either damaged or missing or broken. i don't even know what to do in order to get the things back that we've lost. at this point, we're really either living without or we're purchasing new. >> reporter: o'connell says after receiving an estimate when they are moving day came the company raised the price more than $4,600. and ultimately delivered her

family's belongings weeks late. many items were damaged and she says more than two dozen boxes are still missing. >> it's devastating and ongoing. we find things every single day that aren't here that we know we'll never get back. >> reporter: o'connell filed a complaint with the federal moving safety administration. the agency received more than 8 complaints per day. florida leads the nation in complaints followed by california, new jersey new york and texas. >> moving problems are a big problem. >> reporter: the deputy administrator. how important is it for consumers to do their homework before they hire a mover? >> it's critical for consumers to do their homework. they have to understand that's their best information, understand their rights. >> reporter: to help consumers do that, the agency is launching a new campaign aimed at educating people before they

move. >> it's embarrassing i'm an educated adult. i picked the wrong organization. and i didn't do enough homework. if anybody is hearing my story and learns from it so it doesn't happen to them i'm embarrassed it happened here. >> reporter: o'connell did file a complaint with the government and managed to get that $4,600 back from the moving company. that company denies any wrongdoing in all of this. the government protect your move website is allows you to check complaints against movers and helps you walk through steps if there is a problem and you can check in with the better business burroweau as a great resource. >> like your mom told you, do your homework. it always comes back to that. >> thank you, kris. there's new evidence pouring in about coffee and the health benefits. you have heard? which diseases it may protect you from? plus, a wearar pair of waitresses

learn the price of royalty after >> announcer: this portion of "cbs this morning" sponsored by toyota. let's go places. camrys are so reliable. yeah... and you gotta love that bold new styling. here you go. whoa! wow. those balloon towers don't make themselves. during toyota time, get 0% apr financing for 60 months on a bold 2015 camry. offer ends june 1st. for great deals

on other toyotas, visit toyota.com. thanks jan. thanks jan. now you both have camrys. yeah! toyota. let's go places. shopping online... ...is as easy as it gets. wouldn't it be great if hiring plumbers carpenters and even piano tuners... were just as simple? thanks to angie's list now it is. start shopping online... ...from a list of top rated providers. visit angieslist.com today. ♪ i found a happy place ♪ ♪ it's written on my face ♪ ♪ we're singin', we're

singin' ♪ ♪ i found a happy place ♪ ♪ a rather happy place ♪ ♪ i'm singin', i'm singin' ♪ ♪ ooh-ooh-ooh-ooh-ooh ♪ ♪ i found a happy place ♪ [ female announcer ] with ingredients like roasted hazelnuts, skim milk, and cocoa there's a whole lot of happy in every jar of nutella. sp treadhe happy. your allergies bring more than sneezing... ...and itchy eyes. they also bring tough nasal congestion. so you need claritin-d. it starts to work... ...in just 30 minutes. in fact, nothing works faster. so blow away nasal congestion, fast, with claritin-d. ♪ the scent of vanilla now melon, then white flowers. new air wick life scents in summer delights the first constantly changing fragrance that acts like real life and says 'stay a while'. air wick home is in the air.

wish your skin could bounce back as quickly as it used to? introducing neutrogena hydro boost water gel. instantly quenches skin to keep it supple and hydrated day after day. formulated with hydrating hyaluronic acid which retains up to 1000 times its weight in water. this refreshing water gel plumps skin cells with intense hydration and locks it in. for supple, hydrated skin that bounces back. new hydro boost. from neutrogena. introducing lunch at outback every bloomin' day! hurry in for all your outback favorites. plus new aussie tacos, new savory ribeye melt and our delicious burgers. over 70 lunch combinations starting at just $6.99. it's lunch at last every day at outback. when i'm out in the hot sun, i know how to hydrate on the inside. but what about my skin?

coppertone sport sunscreen puts a breathable layer on your skin to help keep it hydrated by holding in natural moisture while providing protection from harmful uv rays. game on. coppertone sport. ♪ i've got the paperwork and i thought, i was shocked, shocked in disbelief. i did not expect it call. >> new york city waitress maureen donohoe has a new outlook. thanks to a customer's will. one customer thanked she and her niece with $50,000 each. >> he was sort of famous. he was a man that gave forward, never looked for anything in return. i'd rather have him here. >> oh. >> her niece claims she used the money to save for a wedding.

donohoe has her eye on a boat. her niece is also named maureen. they weren't expecting anything. they were clearly touched by how she took such good care of him. >> at a steakhouse. revving up efforts to get driverless cars on the road. new details about a crash that could challenge the technology behind the ride. chili's. fresh is happening now. if your purse is starting to look more like a tissue box... you may be muddling through allergies. try zyrtec® for powerful allergy relief. and zyrtec® is different than claritin®. because it starts working faster on the first day you take it. zyrtec®. muddle no more™ . ♪ ♪ it may seem strange, but people really can love their laxative. especially when it's miralax. it hydrates, eases and softens to unblock your system naturally so you have peace of mind from start

to finish. love your laxative. miralax. why am i so awake? did you know your brain has a wake system... and a sleep system? science suggests when you have insomnia, the neurotransmitters in your wake system may be too strong, which may be preventing you from getting the sleep you need. talk to your doctor about ways to manage your insomnia. ♪ "smash me. dear god, smash me into a million pieces" little miss puffytail thinks every time someone enters this room. for while the people who come in here can use quilted northern, a toilet paper that works so well they can completely forget their experience... ...little miss puffytail can never forget. she can dream. dream for the sweet, sweet swing of a careless elbow. quilted northern. designed to be forgotten. people with type 2 diabetes come from all walks of life. if you have high blood sugar ask your doctor about farxiga. it's a different kind of medicine

that works by removing some sugar from your body. along with diet and exercise farxiga helps lower blood sugar in adults with type 2 diabetes. with one pill a day, farxiga helps lower your a1c. and, although it's not a weight-loss or blood-pressure drug farxiga may help you lose weight and may even lower blood pressure when used with certain diabetes medicines. do not take if allergic to farxiga or its ingredients. symptoms of a serious allergic reaction include rash, swelling, or difficulty breathing or swallowing. if you have any of these symptoms stop taking farxiga and seek medical help right away. do not take farxiga if you have severe kidney problems, are on dialysis, or have bladder cancer. tell your doctor right away if you have blood or red color in your urine or pain while you urinate. farxiga can cause serious side effects including dehydration, genital yeast infections in women and men, low blood sugar, kidney problems, and increased bad cholesterol. common side effects include

urinary tract infections changes in urination and runny nose. ♪do the walk of life♪ ♪yeah, you do the walk of life♪ need to lower your blood sugar? ask your doctor about farxiga. and visit our website to learn how you may blbe ae to get every month free.

[ female announcer ] business travel isn't just about the going. it's also about the going home. and being connected all along the

way. whether you're working or recharging do business travel on your terms. acela. take off.

♪ it's tuesday, may 12th 2015. what were you doing 29 years ago? i was having a baby. happy birthday kirby. welcome back to "cbs this morning." there is more real news ahead including tom brady's suspension. jim gray interviewed him right after nfl deflate-gate report came out. we're asking if the punishment is fair. but first here's a look at y'todaeys "e opener" at 8:00. >> a quake struck a remote mountainous region people running into the streets. brady wasn't the only one punished. the league fined the patriots $1 million and took away two of their draft picks. >> when they come back they're facing the indianapolis ltcos. >> you can see electrical crews

still trying to restore power. it was a storm that sent more 4thanop0 pele to the hospital. a huge merger verizon announced it will buy aol for $4.4 billion. >> relations are atir the lowest point since the cold war. it's surprising that putin flew to kerry. >> it's smoother than the landings with the gear down. >> well, bidding on this picasso actually starts at $100 million. christie's tells u nine other pieces sold for record prices. >> hey! why is your energy so low? >> man -- >> no way! [ laughter ] >> announcer: this morning's "eye opener" at 8:00 is presented by walgreens. i was waiting for to charlie. thank you, i'm gayle king norah

o'donnell and jeff glor. charlie rose is off today. hope he's feeling better. at least 36 people are dead in nepal after the earthquake 50 miles east of kathmandu. >> lawmakers reason to the exit when nepal's parliament building started shaking during the debate. people all over kathmandu went outside to protect themselves. the country is still recovering from last month. the quake killed more than 8,000. drenching rains are moving into texas as many areas clean up after devastating storms. residents picked through debris in van, texas. the small city saw a deadly tornado sunday that leveled a third of the town. and two people died. dozens of homes were damaged or destroyed. it was out there texas because of the weekend's heavy rains. floodwaters swamped yards and homes. there was also flooding in

northern colorado. some cars managed to drive through highways covered with water. heavy rains expected through the down plains leading to threat of more flooding. >> the death toll from general motor's faulty ignition switches has hit a grim milestone. 100 deaths are now blamed on accidents that happened after gm vehicles shut off without warning. at least 184 other people were hurt. the updated list appears in a list of families who getting compensation from gm. the automaker knew about the problem for more than a decade. it finally agreed last year to recall vehicles with those switch. this morning tom brady's agent said its ridiculous for the nfl to suspend the super bowl mvp. the nfl ordered brady to skip four games. the patriots were fined $1 million and stripped of two draft choices including next year's number one pick. team owner robert kraft is backing brady's appeal.

he said in a statement that the punishment quote, was based completely on circumstantial rather than hard or conclusive evidence. tom brady has our unconditional support. our belief in him has not waved. kraft said the team accepts any discipline from the league. >> sportscaster of showtime and fox jim gray is with us this morning. he interviewed brady last week a day after the nfl released its report on deflate-gate. we should mention showtime is the division of cbs. you say it was appropriate -- >> i don't know if there's appropriate punishment if there's no proof. probably no punishment because the impression has been left that something had gone wrong, fine the club. maybe a draft pick. spygate comes into it.

portions of the past have to be considered. i understand all of that but to take down the reputation of stellar in the course of 15 years in the nfl and imply that they apply to him and impugn his integrity i think is wrong. they have a terrible record upon appeal. ray rice's appeal was not upheld. it was thrown out same with adrian peterson. so i think the nfl has overpunished here. >> overpunished okay jim, there may not be a smoking gun, but there is a lot of circumstantial evidence, is there not? >> yes there is. and a lot of it looks bad. again, let's go back to brady. i think the four games it really at the crux of this. perhaps the rest of it won't be overturned. but i don't see how the four games will be upheld. there's absolutely nothing in there that points to tom brady having ordered, requested or

asked these balls to be deflated. >> let me ask you, jim, i read through troy vincent's letter to the patriots. and he points out that it's significant that none of the key witness, mr. brady, mr. jastremski or mr. mcnally were investigated. why do you think they did not fully cooperate with the nfl. this is an organization that they belong to. >> i'm not sure what fully cooperate means. if you're talking about turning over your e-mail your cell phone and your texts. i mean there was no jurisdiction here. there was no civil suit. there was no deposition. there's no criminal activity. does that mean that any employer, at anytime, because they're having an investigation can now demand the cell phone. tom and his wife are major superstars. she's the top model in the world. do you really want somebody going through your cell phone and sifting through it no

matter what the circumstances are? i don't think that's the standard -- i don't think that's the standard that any american wants their employer to be able to do. >> i hear you. just to point out troy vincent, though did say that they offered extraordinary safe guards by investigators to protect unrelated personal information that they would only look at the stuff that was relevant to exactly what happened. >> well, that's fine to say, until then they say, hey, you didn't provide it all, what about this what about that? i think it's wrought with peril. i think the nfl players association pressured brady tremendously not to do because that would have been a precedent. and had they gone forward with that, everybody going forward would say hey, tom brady turned over his cell phone, why haven't you turned over yours. >> many people talked to tom brady and reluctant to get to the report. at one point, you said what are you a slow reader? which got a laugh from

everybody. how do you think he'll talk once the latest ruling has come down? >> well i'm not sure how he's going to respond. i do believe he will absolutely appeal this. and the patriots and tom brady will go to war. they will not continue in this fashion. they will appeal this. they will come out guns ablazing. i think this is the seventh round of a 12-round fight. it's just the beginning. the nfl could have done away with this within 36 to 48 hours. instead, the commissioner went down this path where he hired a special investigator. you know they're bringing on their own trouble once again to themselves. it's going to cause a tremendous, tremendous fraction amongst the ownership and mr. kraft. the nfl office will now be bogged down in the appeal of a superstar like tom brady. it really to me is just the beginning, not the end. >> to be continued for sure. thank you, jim gray. >> jail norah, thanks. good to see you, jeff. and the barack obama foundation confirms that the official presidential library

and museum will be built on chicago's south side. there are two potential sites at the university of chicago. in the publication, the president said the location makes sense for him. >> the library and the foundation on the south side of chicago. not only will we be able to encourage and affect change locally, but what we can also do is attract the world to chicago. >> the president started his political career on the south side. and the obamas own a home there. and that will certainly bring a lot of development to that area. >> yeah the people in chicago are saying should it be built anywhere else? the answer is no. now that the decision is made chicago. rahm emanuel is doing the hula. >> big time in a tutu. warming up to the health benefits of your morning coffee. turns out dr. holly solstice is in the toyota green room.

they are celebrating more than 35 years of making music together. bat benatar and her husband neil "spyder" jigiraldo will show us why they don't get sick of each other on the road. americans. 83% try... ...to eat healthy. yet up to 90% fall short in getting... ...key nutrients from food alone. let's do more. add one a day men's. complete with key nutrients we may need. plus it helps support healthy blood pressure with vitamin d and magnesium. one a day men's. ...and the wolf was huffing and puffing... kind of like you sometimes, grandpa. well, when you have copd it can be hard to breathe.

it can be hard to get air out, which can make it hard to get air in. so i talked to my doctor. she said... doctor: symbicort could help you breathe better, starting within 5 minutes. symbicort doesn't replace a rescue inhaler for sudden symptoms. symbicort helps provide significant improvement of your lung function. symbicort is for copd, including chronic bronchitis and emphysema. it should not be taken more than twice a day. symbicort contains formoterol. medicines like formoterol increase the risk of death from asthma problems. symbicort may increase your risk of lung infections osteoporosis, and some eye problems. you should tell your doctor if you have a heart condition or high blood pressure before taking it. grandfather: symbicort could mean a day with better breathing. watch out, piggies! child giggles doctor: symbicort. breathe better starting within 5 minutes. call or go online to learn more about a free prescription offer. if you can't afford your medication, astrazeneca may be able to help. i'm really psyched subway's bringing the flavor with this new guacamole made from creamy hass avocados... people really love it.

guacamole guacamole guacamole see? try it on sandwiches like the new chipotle chicken melt with guacamole. subway. eat fresh.

♪ in our "morning rounds" a brewing debate that goes back centuries could finally be reaching a turning point. clear picture is emerging that coffee could help keep illnesses at bay only if you drink the right amount. >> there's so much contradiction, coffee's good for you, coffee's not good for you. a lot of people drink coffee. what's the bottom line. >> it's a confusing issue. there's so much research about coffee, it seems like every week the studies are predicting

something. there's been a shifting there's been a few what we call metaanalyses. there's a huge study which looks at all the studies that show something definitively. >> so you believe this one? >> yes. for most people moderate coffee drinking is not harmful. >> how do you describe moderate? >> moderate is three to five cups a day. but also there's a growing benefits that are real. ranges from decrease in alzheimer's disease to decrease in diabetes and death from all cause us. >> can't moderation be different for different people depending on how much you weigh, what your tolerance is caffeine and everything else? >> sure it can. when we're looking at the benefits, though instead of looking at overall body of research and what we're finding that eight-ounce cups of coffee

it's a you shaped relationship. meaning if you have one or two cups a day the benefits are weaker. but it drops off if you have five or six cups a day. by cups we mean small eight-ounce cups of coffee black or almost black. we're not talking about the 32-ounce mocha cappuccino situation. >> decaf? >> decaf is interesting. most have been done on caffeinated coffee. >> what is it in coffee how does it reduce melanoma by 25%, skin cancer. >> it's such an interesting idea. we often think as coffee to get caffeine into our body. we forget that the coffee bean itself has 100 different compounds. tons of anti-oxidants. some studies showoxidants than fruits and vegetables. >> good news for coffee.

next when we have a comparison which is better coffee or tea? >> tea. >> coffee or water? >> i'm fighting the battle. thank you dr. holly phillips. advocates say driverless cars are safer than humans behind the wheel. we'll see if new data supports that. you're watching "cbs this morning." >> announcer: "cbs morning rounds" sponsored by lyrica. that moving more helps ease fibromyalgia pain. he also prescribed lyrica. for some patients, lyrica significantly relieves fibromyalgia pain and improves physical function. with less pain, i feel better. lyrica may cause serious allergic reactions or suicidal thoughts or actions. tell your doctor right away if you have these, new or worsening depression or unusual changes in mood or behavior. or swelling, trouble breathing rash, hives, blisters, muscle pain with fever, tired feeling or blurry vision. common side effects are dizziness, sleepiness,

weight gain and swelling of hands, legs and feet. don't drink alcohol while taking lyrica. don't drive or use machinery until you know how lyrica affects you. those who have had a drug or alcohol problem may be more likely to misuse lyrica. fibromyalgia may have changed things. but with less pain, i'm still a doer. ask your doctor about lyrica. ♪ to you, they're more than just a pet. so protect them... ...with k9 advantix® ii. it's broad-spectrum protection k ills fleas ticks and mosquitoes too. k9 advantix® ii. for the love of dog™. are you so congested... it feels like that brick's on your face? try zyrtec®-d to powerfully clear your blocked nose and relieve your other allergy symptoms. so you can breathe easier all day. zyrtec®-d. find it at the pharmacy counter.

let's say this is your tv. and these are the channels you pay for with cable. maybe you're getting tons of science and animals when you're really into movies. or every children's show on the planet, when you don't have any kids. well now with fios there's a new way

to customize your tv just pick the types of channels you like best. like sports. or entertainment or news mix and match, or get them all. you build your tv package, and pay for what you want, and not for what you don't. now fios brings you a totally new way to customize your tv. at a price that's totally affordable. starting at $74.99 per month. get custom tv, including internet and phone price guaranteed for two years. plus, get a $300 visa prepaid card with your 2 year agreement. go to getfios.com to start customizing today. cable just gives you channels. fios gives you choice. call the verizon center for customers with disabilities at 800.974.6006 tty/v ♪

tech companies want to change the way we drive by having cars drive themselves. it makes them safer but testing means driverless technology doesn't come without fender benders. ben tracey shows us the new information on test car collisions. >> reporter: more than half a dozen tech companies are now testing their self-driving cars on the open road. but new data shows there have been some bumps along the way. the california department of motor vehicles says 4 out of 48 approved test cars have been involved in accidents in september. when the agency started keeping track. according to an associated press court, one involved a delphi automotive test vehicle, the other, a suv. >> even if it's a fender bender which the company says it should show problems with technology that could lead to more serious accidents. >> reporter: both delphi and

google said the cars were not at fault in eye of the events. in a statement posted online in google it acknowledges cars were involved in 11 minor accidents over six years in 1.6 million miles of testing. he said not once was the self-driving car the caution of the accident. but critics from consumer watchdog want google to release the report. >> we're very concerned about what went wrong and what has the potential to go wrong. and if we don't have the details, we haven't really trust this company to share this information. and to help us understand the limits of the technology. >> reporter: safety is the main selling point of driverless technology. >> my role as driver is first and foremost to keep myself and everyone around me safe. >> reporter: advocates say cameras and radar makes self-driving cars safer to their

surroundings. >> over 90% of conditions on the road are caused by some form of human error. and technology doesn't fail nearly as frequently as humans do. >> reporter: the companies funding driverless cars with the idea to eventually take off, safety can take a backseat to technology. for "cbs this morning," ben tracy, los angeles. we are in our toyota green room with -- guess who? you meet the nicest people in the green room. pat benatar and her husband is here too, neil "spyder" giraldo. we want to talk about your marriage, we want to talk it about your career. what makes the two of you work so well. >> oh that's a question? >> it's not a battlefield? >> well, not every day. >> no but it's 35 years. they have music. out on the road. and it's still a high, isn't it spyder? >>

we live in a pick and choose world.

choose, choose, choose. but at bedtime? ...why settle for this? enter sleep number, don't miss the memorial day special edition mattress with sleepiq technology. sleepiq technology tells you how well you slept and what adjustments you can make. you like the bed soft. he's more hardcore. so your sleep goes from good to great to wow! now we can all choose amazing sleep only at a sleep number store. save $500 on the memorial day special edition mattress with sleepiq technology. know better sleep with sleep number.

♪ love that "hit me with your best shot." welcome back to "cbs this morning." we're going to do that said sally mann's controversial photographs appear in america's galleries. she opens up to charlie about making art without apology. and pat benatar showed everyone that a woman can be a rocker. she and her long time husband neil "spyder" giraldo will tell us the secrets behind 35 years of making music. >> i know all the words. >> fire away! it's time to show you the headlines. "wall street journal" looks at when you should choose advil and tylenol. it says for a headache take tylenol, sports injuries reach

for motrin and advil. >> between caffeine and ibuprofen and acetaminophen. >> "the new york times" says stay away from sweetened calories. and beware of brady and go for eggs at breakfast. >> where is bacon? >> number one. >> sprinkled on top a little bit. the los angeles times said "american idol" will end its run after next session. it launched careers like kelly clarkson. executives decided to pull the plug amid -- let's try that again -- pull the plug amid steep ratings declines. but they brought us carrie underwood, jennifer hudson.

>> i know. it's amazing when you look back at the stars that they launched. sally mann soared to fame in the 1990s. the world renown photographer released a series of images. but with controversy, some of the pictures showed her young children not wearing clothes. 25 years later, mann looks at a new memoir out this morning "hold still." she met with charlie rose at the gagosian gallery surrounded by her iconic work. >> you seemed to always be interested in life and death and memory and history and place. >> yeah. that would be because i'm a southerner, you know about that. >> i do. we like the south. >> yeah we do. >> reporter: the south is more than a place to sally mann it's

home, family. and her inspiration which began with her father. >> he was a doctor. he was a medical doctor but he gave up the devoted one, he gave up a great deal yeah. >> reporter: he gave up what you are? >> he gave up literature and art. and those are the two things he loved. >> reporter: did your dad give you your first camera? >> he did, he handed it to me with virtually no explanation, this is how you handle the film and the light meter. you remember all of that stuff. >> reporter: yeah, i do. >> i just started taking pictures. it was an instant love affair. >> reporter: what was it? >> it was ecstatic, the joy of looking at a negative and going down your arms at other times i've said it's almost sexual in its intensity. you're just ecstatic. >> reporter: sally took that fire and ran with it but never far from home. she's photographed and worked on

her family farm for almost 50 years. she has an unflinching commitment to the past in approach and process. >> and you like home? >> i do. i do. it's harder. that's not why i like it. but it's harder but it also makes you get right to the essence of what you're taking the picture of. you're not distracted by the color. color is just an entirely different process. a way of thinking. i see everything in black and white now. i also see things, i see you in a little 8 by 10 rectangle. >> oh god. >> but yeah you start blocking out things and that's a really important part of taking a picture. the ability to isolate what you're concentrating on. >> reporter: for ten years she concentrated on her children. she photographed them playing and living. and she made art out of the ordinary.

but the nudity and mysterious nature of the print outraged some. did you know what you were doing? >> no i was just taking pictures with the kids around. and gradually, a concept built around that. >> reporter: that's what the immediate family was about. >> it was a documentary. >> to have americans around them metaphorically. they got much more complicated. >> reporter: now, they're all successful adults. how do they see the photographs? >> i usuallyuld answer them. . >> reporter: so we did. tell me what it was about. >> sally's youngest she was just a toddler when the pictures began. >> i think one of the things that you may not appreciate about the pictures is that we

were incredibly happy to have a mother who was home all the time. we got to work with her. she somehow found a way to make her work something that we did with her that was positive. we were proud of her. >> reporter: as the children grushgs grew, so did sally's fascination with the world around them. so she began to photograph southern landscape. the series are haunting romantic and sentimental, all at once. after landscapes, it was death. in her 30s, she watches her father die fearlessly. it infired a decade of jarring and thought-provoking images about the reality of life within. it is a reality all too familiar now. her husband larry has been the love of her life for four decades.

now in his later years, he's battling muscular dystrophy. together, they're facing it by documenting it. >> maybe one of my favorite bodies of work. i wanted to tackle this in so many ways. it's harder for him, though. i mean it's hard for me but it's harder for him. when you have a subject who's willing to put themselves out like that. there are pictures that i've taken that made me just ache for him. and i would say, are you sure you want me to show these pictures? he said, yeah. he believe what is we make together is important. >> reporter: over a long wonderful life sally mann has woven an honest and fearless tapestry of work. how did you know you were getting better? >> i think it's sort of like a thrill thing. i think the difference is that i used to be taking pictures to

save things. the impulse was to either take pictures to save something. or to try and see what something would look like on the photographs. now, it's a lot more important to me to actually say something. i don't waste anytime. i don't waste time. i work all the time. i never leave home. imean i just stay home and zoom in on what's ahead. i'm sure you do. >> in the end, it's love and work. it's love, family. friends. it's love of the world around you. >> right. >> you know at the same time it's work to find your place. >> and leave your mind. >> thank you for this. >> thank you. >> thank you. thank you is right. her work is so good. my goodness. >> absolutely gorgeous. >> powerful beautiful. look at this. >> this is her book that's out.

look at this great picture. not only for her children to see pictures of them growing up but it's you're moved by her images. it says something. >> and i love the title. by the way you can see the entire interview on charlie's pbs program. >> yes, he does have another job. he does leave home. >> so do you, miss gayle king. >> they are enjoying romance and rocked more than 30 years after music ahead, '80s icon pat benatar. there she is. and who's that cute guy next to

right now verizon is offering unlimited talk and text. plus 10 gigs of shareable data. (yeah, 10 gigantic gigs.) for $80 a month. and $15 per line. mo re data than ever. for more of what you want on the network that's #1 in speed, call data and reliability. so you never have to settle. now, also get $200 when you join and buy a new smartphone. stop by or visit us online. and save without settling. only on verizon.

♪ it is your classic rock 'n' roll love story. girl with a microphone meets boy with a guitar. pat benatar and her lead guitarist turned husband neil spyder giraldo, they managed to navigate through life producing 25 world recordings and 19 top singles. ♪ hit me with your best shot ♪ ♪ >> pat benatar embodied the

'80s. with rebellious songs, a sexy stage presence and a whole lot of spandex. but while all eyes were on benatar, she only had eyes for her lead guitarist neil "spyder" giraldo. ♪ the innovative musician songwriter and producer led benatar towards a more progressive sound. ♪ i need a lover who won't drive me crazy. ♪ >> featuring the hit "heartbreaker." ♪ ♪ break heartbreaker, dream maker ♪ >> reporter: and in 1981 the powerhouse cemented a new era. >> pat benatar was the second video we aired on mtv, spyder was the first guy to play guitar. ♪ >> she does some of her most

famous videos that we ever played on mtv. some things that are sort of etched in all of our memories. ♪ we are heartache to heartache we stand ♪ >> reporter: after three decades of marriage and more than 25 million records sold the couple continues to make music together. ♪ ♪ making love together ♪ >> okay. they belong together. pat and neil celebrating their 35th anniversary of making music together with a new cd and dvd collection. good morning to you. >> good morning. >> i have to resist all the cliches like "hit me with your best shot." how many times do people walk up to you?

>> there was an operator of a roller coaster of an amusement park said he would go home and shoot himself in the head because everybody says "here we go." >> i love the two of you together. what you do professionally and personally. neil, when you first met him, you thought, girlfriend you met the man of your life. >> i did. >> what was that like? >> like blinding white light. i thought to myself -- >> where was this? how old were you at the time? >> he was just turning 23. i was just turning 26. so we were really young and just saw him. >> so you like older men? >> yes -- >> younger men. >> what did you think, neil when you saw her, both of you were other people at the time? but you felt something for each other? >> undeniable. >> that's a loaded question

after hearing that. that was my line. as soon as i saw her, where have you been? >> yeah. >> and the remarkable thing was she was so normal. all the girlfriends in the past were pretty crazy. she was pretty normal. still is normal. >> in this case i have your taste, i could sing them over and over again. it marked my '80s in knowing the songs. how did you maintain a relationship through this massive stardom? >> yeah. >> yeah. >> well we had each other, first of all, and that was the most important thing. so anytime one person fell back the other person lifted them up. and i'm the annoying one that never stops work and writing. in the morning, i'd bring the guitar in and start playing. my wife would say get away from me.

then i'd sneak a song and start playing a little bit. she'd say, all right, that's pretty good. let's try doing it. >> a lot of that. >> it doesn't have a formula do it, it depends then we just go off and do individual parts. it wasn't that hard to be together. i really wish i had a better answer. it kind of just rolled along. >> she's the grounded one. >> she's the grounded one? >> oh yeah. >> oh yeah. are you kidding? he's like the lunatic. >> i'm not a lunatic, but i'm -- >> pat, you've been open about a lot of sexism that you dealt with in the music industry. >> yeah. >> has it changed? >> our daughter has said to me mom, it's like 2015 i don't have to be that anymore -- >> at the time together anymore, they were worried about your image as a wife and mother. they said i don't know if this is such a good idea. >> it was kind of like that

hollywood weirdness, people married to each other and things like that. it was shocking it was so late in the game. first daughter in 1985. it was shocking to me this was still going on in retrospect. >> 35 years later. >> it's odd when you do the true love video, they said you're going have a baby in the video. >> they didn't want the baby. >> it was a great quote from the manager. >> make it stop. >> yeah. >> congratulations. the 35th anniversary tour collection is on sale now. you're watching "cbs t

♪ well that does it for us. we'll see you tomorrow on "cb ♪ ♪

♪ you're only young once. unless you have a subaru. (announcer) the subaru xv crosstrek. symmetrical all-wheel drive plus 34 mpg. love. it's what makes a subaru a subaru.

skippy!! yippee!! fun fun fun! shiny! you never listen! what? is someone talking? skippy!! yippee!! look a ride! (vo) made with the funnest peanuts ever! skippy. yippee!!

is there an elk in your bed? with sleep number, now there's an adjustment for that. only at a sleep number store. save $500 on the memorial day special edition mattress with sleepiq technology. know better sleep with sleep number. >> here's what's breaking in toda y'snews in two.

>> kim kard aian, you won't believe what she plans to use social media for next. >> powdered alcohol? >> this is a ticking timebomb. >> what else could it be used for? >> this is a game-changer.- >> this plant can cause blindness in a matter of minutes. >> this is terrifying! >> that's today! ♪ ♪ [ applause ] ♪ ♪ >> hello, hello everyone! welcome to the show today. what if you could take a glass of water and, by adding a little bit of powder to it, you could have a cosmopolitan? sounds a little out of this world, but for better or for worse, it could be