there's a fundamental distinction here between accepting who your child is and accepting their behaviorwe as parents must accept who our children are. who they are. we do not need to just automatically accept bad behavior. in fact, it's our job as a parent to teach our children what proper behavior is. >> what happens if i think my kids' bad behavior is who he is? >> well, that's an interesting question. i think if you go through the exercises in my book, the framework in my book for understanding who your child is, you'll have a better idea of whether it's behavior related or temperament related. >> i wonder how much this is from naturally so a parent's ego. i have a child, i want a mini me. if i'm good at music, you got to be able to carry a tune. if i'm a good speaker, you better not mumble. >> exactly, susan. and having a fantasy of who your child is going to be is natural. it's normal. everyone who has a child thinks in their mind, oh, i wonder if my child will be this way or that way. for me, i always imagined i would have a little girl who would sit in the stroller, i would push

i don't accept that view. already in the joint agreement, iran has agreed to put inspection of certain items, centrifuges, and other installations up for inspection hat are not readily changeable to the additional safeguards. i think it is an example for the whole world that you're doing it. i would like to see that improved. we have a particularly difficult problem. sensitive activities that can be converted and moved into a weapons area. it is up to the international community not to be static as the fundamental designer of everything, but to move ahead and try to find ways to improve capacity. a suggestion was made by a number of us that we should internationalize these facilities and there would be openness in what the facility was doing. and i think, iran has come back with that suggestion quietly nd in a number of areas. if i had my way, i would've started with the u.s. to take part in the enrichment facilities and put them under international ownership. the others that are nuclear powers, it would be pu

don't accept money from the friends of the public library. the public scandal of the privatization of our library is the indication of the central scam of city hall. the president of the library commission ~ gomez has been found guilty [speaker not understood] which was a willful violation of sunshine and found by the ethics commission to be found below the standard of decency. the city librarian luis herrera has been found guilty of three years of violations of the california political reform act and the california [speaker not understood] practices commission assessed a fine for violation of conflict of interest laws. there have been repeated violations of the sunshine ordinance, found by the sunshine task force to be found [speaker not understood]. we now know that in the 12 years that the funds have been raising fund for the branch library improvement program, the friends of the library expended 53 million. the amount expended for the benefit of the library was 5.1 million, 9.6%. these are all this year and come on top of the history of s

avenue and accepting a grant deed for these purposes; authorizing the conditional acceptance of an irrevocable offer for sidewalk improvements for ocean avenue east of lee avenue; declaring such areas to be open public right-of-way and dedicating them for right-of-way and roadway purposes; accepting maintenance and liability for these areas subject to certain limitations; establishing public right-of-way width and sidewalk width for the lee avenue and the ocean avenue sidewalks; approving an interdepartmental transfer of property for a portion of lee avenue and for a sidewalk area fronting a portion of ocean avenue; approving and making findings, including environmental findings and general plan and priority policy findings; and authorizing official acts in connection with this ordinance. ~ for these purposes. >> same house same call? this ordinance is passed on the first reading. [gavel] >> any next item. >> item 29 is a resolution imposing interim zoning controls to require that, for a 12-month period, in the area bounded by market street from van ness street east to 5th street on the north

we had to per sweet payment to accept bitcoin.hen we started, there was only one establishment in the entire state of utah. there was one barbecue restaurant outside of provo. outside of that, we had to approach merchants and say action hi, have you heard of no. >> can we pay you with this? >> you managed to get groceries, a gas station about an hour away that you had to drive to in order to get gas which sort of somewhat defeats the purpose, i guess. so you manage to get those e sessions. now you decide what you are going to do is have this three-month trip around the world and do a road trip from provo a lot way to new york. how is that? >> we had to rely heavily on the bitcoin community. they are not merchants that accept bitcoin. certainly not for gas. gas stations are owned by oil companies. they are not interested in -- >> a new way of paying? >> right. >> what does it mean to get the community behind you? we had to meet up with bit coiners all along the way. we were able to persuade some to accept bitcoin. we had to use in

you can accept over $50, but you can accept a token desk item, a paperweight or something like that. i could be worth a lot more. --is hard to figure out what that could be worth a lot more cured is hard to figure out what these things mean when there is a lot of gray area. host: what kind of gifts have been accepted? guest: we found that there was a judge in arkansas who had a $50,000 trip to italy given to her by an attorney. the year before that, she had a $12,000 trip to the caribbean given by the same attorney. we had a justice in illinois who had two country club memberships. a justice of indiana got tickets to the indy 500. we have a lot tickets, lots of conferences that they were given, hotel and board and flights out to -- which herbs to france -- we had trips to france, argentina. to charity galas, clocks, all cars of things that were reported. host: were there connections between the gift that were received? guest: would it not find obvious case is about. some of that may be hard to see. it may be that they are doing the right thing and not excepting gets from people they

tenants that keep getting calls from the landlord to, you know, intimidated them and push them to accept a buy out and we've seen examples and heard from individuals where the landowners have called and offered to buy them out so the tenant is a vacant the unit. we've seen the hear me out is increasing and we're seeing that reported drishlg directly from organization the tenant unions and other the main recourse the tenant can file a civil litigation matter in california supreme court and we know that that's a very dawn task and expensive endeavor and not surprisingly we haven't seen those kinds of cases being fidelity because it's difficult for tenants to very wellism of that recourse. it's that reason why working with the tenants advocates we've created this administrative process for tenant to make an official complaint about harassments. it creates a mechanism at the rent board for the tenants to file a sclament if the landowners is harassing the tenant to vacate the unit. the legislation would allow the attempted to file a complaint with the rent board that would schedule a hearing

but how is she going to feel if you accept it, then? i don't know. >> how do you feel about that? >> i don't know. i'm 18. i got to make some decisions by myself. >> yeah. i understand that. >> i'm willing to make the changes for the better for myself. i'm not a bad kid like that. i just went down the wrong path. i'm ready to go the right way now. i'm ready to get it over with. >> all righty. hope it all works out for you. >> it's better to get it over with. no more probation. no more restrictions. i can get on with my life, get a good job, and put this behind me. you know? >> three months in detention has changed aaron's perspective. but as he makes his way to court aaron's decision to accept the plea faces one more painful test. >> your mom's out there saying she doesn't want you to accept the plea. she thinks you didn't do anything wrong. so it's up to you. >> in the face of his mother's continued opposition to the plea bargain, aaron's resolve crumbles. >> i thought you just said you wanted to move on with your life. >> i did. >> yo

the amendment of the whole ordinance calls for accepting an irrevocable code and accepting an easement and accepting an offer for improvement related to the avenue northeast and the sense of an irrevocable offer for east of lee avenue and open right-of-way and roadway purposes. accepting maintenance and liability for those sidewalkss and establishing sidewalk with ocean sidewalks. approving an interdepartmental area for the ocean avenue and approving it making the finding in priority finding and 30 years the connection with this ordinance. i wrought a map for sftv. this is the general balboa park area and those two projects are for the eir stationary plan. of those projects that are in the ordinance contemplated in the ordinance. first is this easement area for brighten avenue and it's the are the sidewalks area depicted and lee avenue which is ocean near fee land and this is the larger adjacent to the property. this is lee avenue and the adjacent whole foods and rental property avalon bay developed. so if you have any questions i'm here from the mayor's office house of representatives

so, as a result we're looking at the worst air quality tomorrow in the accept clara valley. bringing us the seventh consecutive day and that's the 22nd alert since november 1st. we do have some changes coming. they involve wind, and we're looking at the upper elevations, very gusty offshore winds. so, a red-flag warning has been issued right now, right on through 10:00 tomorrow morning for the north and east bay hills as wind gusts up to 35-miles-an-hour. so that should mix things up a little bit. have your forecast for new year's eve and new year's day. coming up. >> we're learning about the new contract ratified by ac transsilt workers. the agreement includes a wage increase of 9.35% over the next three years and bus drivers and other works will need to make a flat monthly contribution of $120 for health benefits. ac workers approved the contract after voting yesterday. >> more than 200,000 californians will lose their unemployment insurance benefits today. congress failed to fund an extension for federal unemployment benefits that kick in after 26 weeks worth of state une

. >> we were the first cafe to accept it in palo alto. >> reporter: owner j.p. says the palo accepted about $4,000 worth of the coins since summer. >> one transaction a week. and two transactions a week. now, two or three a day. >> reporter: ocean blue sushi in sunnyvale is also expanding what it accepts. >> visa, master, discover, american express and bitcoin. >> reporter: the owner was getting tired of paying the transaction fees. >> a lot of fees. more than $3,000 a month. >> reporter: she decided to try bitcoin to cut the fees. and the bitcoin excitement is spreading. from the ski resort in montana, to a florida man buying a tesla out of a southern california dealership. and online sites like redit and o.k. cupid. even celebrities are getting involved in the currency. and sir richard branson, advertising virgin galactic future space flight is accepting bitcoin. you can think of bitcoin as a digital coin. people send to each other online globally. when you transfer them, there's an electronic signature. a string of characters. countless networks around the wo

they're requiring insurers to accept payment until new year's eve. they're also encouraging insurers to also take other measures and be more flexible. like perhaps just take partial payment or also perhaps accept payments that come in after the 31st and have that coverage go back retroactively to january 1st. clearly now with the website problems working and the website itself working, they want to make sure that people who sign up by december 23rd at midnight will have coverage starting on january 1st. although in a fact sheet released, they also said if it appears that people still have trouble signing up by december 23rd, they may very well extend that deadline. they're clearly, kelly, trying to make sure that they have the

we had to rely on educating people, persuading people to accept bit coin. when we started there was only one establishment in the entire state of utah where h we live tt used bit coin. we had to approach merchant, have you heard of bit coin. can we pay you with this digital currency. >> you managed to get some groceries. a gas station that was an hour away to get gas which somewhat defeats the purpose. but you managed to get those essentials. but now you decided you're going to have this three-month trip around the world. you're going to start from prove alprovoall the way to new york. how did you do that. >> we had to rely on the bit community. gas stations are owned by big oil companies. they're not interested in a new way of paying. >> what did it mean to get the community behind you. >> we had to meet up be bit coiners who would buy gas and we would buy it from them. we had to persuade people between provo and new york city, it was challenging. >> say you do get a business that agrees. do you show up and do a transfer electronically from your comr. you

so, as a result we're looking at the worst air quality tomorrow in the accept clara valley. bringing us the seventh consecutive day and that's the 22nd alert since november 1st. we do have some changes coming. they involve wind, and we're looking at the upper elevations, very gusty offshore winds. so, a red-flag warning has been issued right now, right on through 10:00 tomorrow morning for the north and east bay hills as wind gusts up to 35-miles-an-hour. so that should mix things up a little bit. have your forecast for new year's eve and new year's day. coming up. >> we're learning about the new contract ratified by ac transsilt workers. the agreement includes a wage increase of 9.35% over the next three years and bus drivers and other works will need to make a flat monthly contribution of $120 for health benefits. ac workers approved the contract after voting yesterday. >> more than 200,000 californians will lose their unemployment insurance benefits today. congress failed to fund an extension for federal unemployment benefits that kick in after 26 weeks worth of state une

. >> item four is a resolution retroactively authorizing the arts commission to accept a grant in the amount of $200,000 from kaiser permanente for the bayview opera house plaza renovation and rest raigdz for the period listed. >> okay. we have ms. axle to speak on this morning. >> good morning. you have the resolution for the arts commission accepting this grant and this is the tail end of fundraising for the capital improvement project for the bayview opera house plaza restoration and renovation project. after years of securing public dollars we turned to the private sector and this kaiser permanente $200,000 reflects the tail end of that effort. i can tell you the renovation will work on the corridor and the concrete in the plaza footprint and childrens' area and seating and performance venue and adding other green elements to the space. groundbreaking is in early march, 2014 we hope you join us here and i will answer any questions. >> any questions? okay. we don't have a budget analyst report for item four so we will move to public comment. seeing none public comment is closed. >>

accepted my ace finances and i accepted -- i accepted my and the uniqueness of my experiences from otherveterans. and the questions that arose from that, too. you have to have self acceptance, that comes from time. what i encourage to civilians who are like how can we help veterans? just consider the idea that they are always around you, even if you don't know it. of giveuraging thought is universal. you are going through a hard situation. i do not know what it is, give it time. give it time and things change. your appearance changes. the way you look at the situation changes. your perspective changes. you grow. there is a lot of growth and suffering. people do not realize that. you have to give it time. i do not thinkns are encouraged to give it time. a lot of people are like i'd need to know what happened to you now. i am interested now. there is an immediacy to the situation but transitions are gradual. there i'm notg saying anything mean to so much more to a person then saying ok, i want to hear your story, just tell me your story. well, right now i do not want to speak about it. lik

good morning, commissioners ame canti project director for dbi, we are actually in the user acceptance testing phase round two it has been in progress for the last three weeks, continuing through the end of this week, we received great feedback from the subject matter experts and as we find the bugs, they are being fixed but we expect all of the bugs to be fixed in the next three to four weeks and we are going to get into the next round of testing we also had our citizen advisory group hands-on testing yesterday, and we received excellent comments back from the members who attended and tested. so we have a long way to go, as we can see, and we are going to continue to make changes on the public facing side of the product and make some functionality changes, and the look and feel, we have got some good comments and we are going to implement those and we are also planning for round two, i am sorry round three of user acceptance testing which is schedule for the third week of january and following that is going to be training. >> commissioner mar? >> so, i was lucky enough to attend the t

while he accepted the report's findings. he did not accept its contention that members of the guard the place loyalty to the force of all honesty it be the police force the banks described is not the police force the tidy. everything we do in an unguarded moment. is designed to establish the truth. whether it's the investigation of crime dealing with road traffic matters. and the other incidents that we are required to deal with. and gotta check on him at all times. seeks to establish the truth. that is a reason to that and that will continue to be the case the chief constable of the psni said sophomore. he will be studying the report's findings that i should not distract from the strong working relationship the psni has to guard the mark in common is the guard officer who led the investigation which resulted in the former leader of the real ira michael would have been sent to prison for twenty years and therefore the tribunal's findings are particularly apart but chose to camp to the vast majority of his god the comics. he

basically accept this project. the fact is that the tenants of the eastern neighborhood plan propose and established that you would have greater densities along the major transit avenues. it would allow that in as a balance then against keeping certain properties at a much lower density and which are predominantly industrial type uses. if that's the case, then i'm accept iv of this particular project and it's density and it's height. i have not heard anything that would dispel the height calculation on the sloping site or cause me to question that. at this point in time what is based upon what is relatively new zoning. i'm glad i wasn't at the planning commission when the eastern neighborhood started because it would have lasted forever. but i am then prepared to support the permit, upholding the permit and denying the appeal. >> i think your comment are consistent with the way i have been thinking about this which is difficult because i understand the concerns raised by the people in the neighborhood who are going

but there has not yet been acceptance by the u.s. it is conditional acceptance.ditional upon agreement limitations and enrichment capacity and limitations of stockpiles and enriched uranium. on acceptance of monetary measures that would make enrichment program acceptable in terms of removing concerns about the ultimate intention of the program, the potential misuse of the program for nuclear weapons. it is going to be a very hard negotiation. before i accept his gratitude for recognizing early, let me say that at the moment the two sides have very different perceptions of what an acceptable enrichment program would be. this agreement tom referred to, the joint plan of action, talked about a mutually defined enrichment program based on practical needs. that is very important. because the u.s. looks at, asks itself what are iran's practical , needs for enrichment. it has a research reactor in tehran surprised -- supplied, by the way, by the united states. it already has enough fuel for a few decades. it has a big power reactor at a place called bashir that was supp

coins and more than 70 accepting light coins.almost 40 places in the ebay ara accepting one or both. >> at first i thought it was pretty crazy. >> reporter: economist and professor at stanford's graduate school of business isn't so sure about bit coins. >> it could be an interesting bet but it's not something i would recommend most people add to their portfolio. >> reporter: she does agree the future of how money moves is changes with the new system. >> the core of the innovation is the fact we have a secure, public ledger where i can move value from me to you. >> reporter: for bit coin believers, the numbers have mostly been on their side. >> eight months ago there were probably 200,000 people and now there's only 5 million people. >> reporter: and bit coin success is exactly what the owner of cupa cafe, an early adopter, is hoping for. not just for his business but as an investment. >> now the value has gone up so much, i'll probably just hang on to the bit coins. >> reporter: stephanie chuang, nbc bay area news. >>> coming up

. >> he accepted that he may not live to see the victory. but he did not doubt that the freedom struggle would triumph. >> mandela was imprisoned for 27 years. on february 11, 1990, at the age of 71, he walked free. cbs news correspondent bob simon covered his release. >> the mandela limousine was a beat up toyota. >> archbishop desmond tutu says prison made the man. >> he was a fairly robust and aggressive young militant who became a generous, understanding person. >> i cherish the idea of a south africa where all south africans are equal. >> in 1993, mandela and the south african president who freed him, f.w. de klerk, shared the nobel peace prize. a year after, mandela became south africa's president. >> bread, water, for all. let freedom ring. i thank you. [applause] >> mandela chose to serve only one term. in the end he came to personify the struggle, a political prisoner who became president and save case south african nation. >> he could have easily led our country down the road of retribution and revenge, and we would have been up a

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most egress it the threat on tenants and the bullying to accept buy outs you know tenants come in and/or and they're forced to face a impanel their notes aware of. and that's the landlord will just aisle them as they claim. you know the behavior i hear from some of the landlords makes me wonder if there's something in the water if being a san francisco landlord makes them crazy maybe they're drinking too many sugary benches we need some consistence on the behavior of those landowners >> thank you. next speaker, please i have a card from antonio gonzales. >> hi. >> (speaking spanish.) >> good afternoon. supervisors i think it is due time for us to fight for strong protections against harassment and against the displacement and evictions they cause. >> (speaking spanish.) >> i'm a volunteer receptionist it and i see people coming in our offices everyday with harassment cases with eviction cases and their suppressed and upset they come in in tears telling me about the behavior they're having to a face from their landlords. >> (speaking spanish.) >> one can i a woman came in and let me kn

that's really hard for the rest of us to accept. i don't expect everybody to accept that without skepticism but i think we have to least take a moment to consider what they say they're coming from. >> host: jeff chu, did you interview members of the phelps family, and were you out of the? >> guest: i spent four days in topeka having dinner with the phelps, talking to them, worshiping with them in church, going on protest within because of the wanted to understand what life was like in that congregation. they were very open with me and i was open with them as much as they wanted to know. it's pretty obvious on social media that i'm gay. i didn't tell them straight out. they never asked. i assumed that a new but it was never an issue. it never really came up. i realized that it didn't matter because they believe everybody was not a part of the church is going to hell anyway. so what does it matter if i'm gay? i'm going to hell for some reason. >> host: what you get find some of the mainstream christian religions? >> guest: i found a l

much an honor to be in the true right fantastic now your university is the first in the world to accept big coin. what tell us about. actually the initiative because he's an educational conglomerate and i would say because at the university of is a conglomerate it's a quite limited because we have apart from the university we have a punishing so just who is you know london we have a medical school in the we have a just because of cypress with our students eight thousand five hundred students and i look at it with how many companies are all over europe and to host us here only programs promote of the world and you're the c.f.o. chief financial officer and you recognize an opportunity in bitcoin is just part of what happened when there was a bail and going back to earlier this year remember there was a huge bell and there was a confiscation of people's bank accounts is this what the bell rang and suddenly became something to do actually has nothing to do with the bailout and the crises we have in this having requests from all over they were from students enough asia even the medica what u