are white people who suffer in some ways because of racism, but that doesn't negate the fact that ,acism is systemically disadvantages and abuses hurts people of color and we are not going to equate the two. and i would say when it comes to gender it is the same thing. i have compassion, everybody i know have compassion for men as victims, whether it is domestic violence, sexual violence, harassment, nobody should be treated with disrespect. let's not live in a fantasy world where he somehow we we somehow have equality of victimization. men's violence against women's weight greater than women's violence against men. host: let's go to iris. caller: good morning. hopefully they were taught wheret in their home, but does harassment stopped and romance begin? who is supposed to instigate it? is there no touchy-feely? are we all becoming robots? host: mr. katz. sexual-harassment involves repeated an unwanted behavior. we can't confuse these two things. we can't confuse romantic interludes between individuals, awkwardly trying to approach each other at a club or some other romantic setting, an