that is all over the tv which shows how they showed a woman how to save enough money to live at age leslie, and at the end of the commercial she is 186. this financial advisory firm has showed her how to save so that she does not need her social security or anything like that. it is part of a whole fantasy that you can control everything. i think whether you are religious or not, the idea that you can control everything, that just because you do everything, and we all want to do all we can to stay healthy as long as we can, that things are going to turn out perfectly right. half of people over 85 have alzheimer's disease. it is an aids-related disease for which there is no cure or effective treatment -- an age related disease. there is nothing we can do about it. these are realities we have to be thinking about. it is not just that people don't want to think about dying. they don't want to think realistically about what being old also means. tavis: your subtitle suggests that the myth and marketing of the new old age. we talked about the marketing a moment ago. who is behind the myth? who

age would be probably dead. >> how old are you? >> 80. >> what's your secret? >> good thoughts. good living. adventure. ♪ forever young >> he did look great for 80. leslietaying young inside and out at any age. >> i'm feeling -- >> he looked great for 80. he said the number, i couldn't believe it. i thought he was lying. >> 29, that's a little ridiculous. to start feeling -- >> highly newer on theic. i think -- >> why do women feel older sooner? >> we live in a society that is not as fair to women as it is to men, and it's been like that for a long, long time, but it's time to change that. >> yeah. >> women really -- a lot of it has to do with how you feel inside and how you project yourself to the world. you know, it's the same kind of thing with beauty when certain kind of woman walks into the room and you say, well, she's not really that pretty, but she has all that energy, she has all that verve, she comes and n and commands a room and you say who is that gorgeous woman? it's the same thing with age, and i have some great friends really who there's one friend who i talk about who lives out in l.a. and used to book my covers for me at another magazin

age of 18. a disproportionate number of them were african american and latino. can this pipeline to prison be stopped? with us, juvenile court judge leslie harris. i'm maria hinojosa. this is one on one. judge harris, welcome to our program. >> thank you. >> hinojosa: so leslie harris, you serve on the juvenile court here in massachusetts. >> yes, ma'am. >> hinojosa: and i guess, before anything, i am sitting before a judge, so should i call you your honor? >> in court, i'm your honor. >> hinojosa: okay, i hope i don't have to see you in court. >> no. outside i'm leslie. >> hinojosa: you're leslie. so we can do leslie. >> yes, ma'am. >> hinojosa: so you have a fascinating background. you grew up in chicago, on the south side of chicago. and you very easily could have become one of the statistics that we hear about-- dropout young black man ends up, you know, involved with the criminal justice system. you ended up in a very different place. you are now sitting on the bench, and you're looking at these young people who come before you. tell me a little bit about how you made that transition from almost being a dropout to ending up as a jud