john langellier: sex -- akim reinhardt: sex is about the biological. gender is about society and culture. are you born male or female or trans? that is biological. you first come out, ok. your sexual acts for biological. all right. gender is how society interprets the male and the female and the ideas and assumptions it makes about masculinity and femininity. this don't necessarily have anything to do with biology. let's assume for a second that you have a friend who is going to be having a baby. i know most of you are a little young for that, but use your imagination. your friend is going to be having a baby, and you decided as a gift, a shower, he will -- you are going to bring a onesie, the little things babies wear, you put them in. they throw up on it. if the kid is going to be a boy, what color onesie? just say it. and if the kid is going to be a girl, what color? if they are doing old-style, did not want to find out, what color are you going to get? yellow, green, things that are supposedly gender-neutral. what does that have to do with biology?