you were engaged to ali fedotowsky on "the bachelorette." didn't work out with her.s life like after that? and i'm sure there was a media storm and people were into your private life for a while, but... >> yeah, i mean, i think i-- after that all ended, i think i just kind of went back to living a normal life, and that's kind of where i'm at right now. >> yeah, and i knew you were really good about going back to san diego, just living your