eleanor, excuse me, alice roosevelt lived in washington for years and years and years. she lived into the 1970s. she was born the same year as franklin roosevelt in 1882. and she had, she had a difficult girlhood herself with her own father, with theodore roosevelt. alice roosevelt when she had this house for decades in dupont circle in washington had a sofa in the front room and on the sofa there was a pillow. and on the pillow in needlepoint was the saying, if you don't have something nice to say about somebody, come sit here beside me. this was alice's approach to the world. and, but alice occasionally would find something in her heart to say, sort of good about somebody else. and she gave eleanor something of a backhanded compliment when she said, you know, eleanor, eleanor was not as ugly as some people seemed to think. in fact, when she was young, she had beautiful long, blond hair. and a tall athletic figure. now if alice had simply left it at that would have been fine. of course alice being alice she had to go on and say, if those hateful grandparents simply gott