yes, and it is also articulated by one black activist, 0wen alik shanadah, an african scholar and film human values while claiming to serve the interests of it." he supports women's rights, but i am just saying, this idea that you've got family units in africa, developing the idea from earlier, that women value having children in africa, and without the idealistical approach from the west. these ideas are fine, but i think you ought to get away from some of them, in the sense that the african — at the end of everything else, we are african women. women, and human beings. what i am trying to say is that valuing family, having children, is not the same as assuming that all one's existence on us is to make babies. cows do that too. you see what i am saying? i do see what you are saying. and when people say it that feminists are coming to ruin and when people say that feminists are coming to ruin african life, what exactly do they mean? let me give you an example then. in 1991, you published changes. and you actually won the commonwealth writer's prize. for africa. for best book, for afric