what allen alda suggested is that's not okay.ven bystanders can use if they see something going on. there have to be lines drawn. we should not have to bear the onus of this and police it. but something needs to be done. howie: there was a moving piece by selma hayek about harvey weinstein. she says he asked her for sex and asked to watch her take a shower and bullied her and said i will kill you. she says he pushed her in to doing a nude scene with another actress, ashley judd. and she had a nervous breakdown. she says she was too much of a coward to come forward. lynn: i have two reactions to this. when i read that gut wrenching piece by selma hayek, i remember when i was the sexual harassment ombudsman person, young women would come to me trembling. i felt that trembling when i read that piece. these women are too frightened to bump it up to the next level. howie: selma hayek was an unknown actress at the time. thanks for joining us. nice to talk to you. after the break i talk to meryl streep an -- and tom hanks. . . howie: i