and allison gilbert knows them well, she lost her aunt, mother and grandmother to cancer. this is the article about how it impacts the way we raise our children. and allison joins me from new york with her doctor, who performed a mastectomy this summer. thank you for joining us. >> thank you. >> allison, i read the column that you wrote recently. it was quite striking, and i just wanted to share the opening of it. saying i'm not a helicopter parent, and i don't bake cup cakes, but readily would cut off my breasts for them and recently did. it really captures the attention, can you give us the story on what you meant by that? >> well, my kids are young, ten and 12, and i want to be around as long as possible for them. and i grew up as an older person. but certainly, i feel like i have grown up as an adult without my mom and dad. and i didn't want my kids to go through that. i want to be around for the day they get married, when they graduate high school even before that. and i thought the writing was on the wall with my family history. also, i tested positive for the brca ge