althea gibson, obviously, i've told you about her. obviously, my mother and my father were a huge influence. they're a good team. they're good to each other. they loved each other. my dad's passed away, he passed away six years ago. they helped each other. they weren't afraid to cross the so-called female/male domains. like my dad would say, you know, betty, put your feet up, i'll cook tonight. oh, my god, you know? or she -- you know, whatever. they would help each other. my mother would usually defer to my father, they're that generation, but they were good to each other, they were kind to each other. not to say they didn't get into it, no one's perfect. but i think my brother and i saw that. they loved to dance too. aren't you a clogger? [laughter] yeah, you are a clogger and a dancer. so my parents love to swing dance, and i know you're a good swing dancer. so i think it's really important to have a sense of teamwork. and what was the question again? i'm forgetting. [laughter] >> influences growing up. >> oh. as far as males, reve