so let's bring in the aforementioned amanda hess, who's in hartford, connecticut today, and amy wallacewrote a column for the "new york times" on the same subject last weekend. thank you both for coming on. >> thanks for having me. >> amanda, your headline's pretty stark about this being the next civil rights issue. why do you think local and federal authorities and sometimes even some of your own colleagues don't take this kind of harassment seriously enough? >> i think two things are going on. one is that violence and harassment against women has been discounted for many years in a variety of contexts. sexual harassment in the workplace, domestic violence were all sort of dismissed before they became civil rights agendas. and the second part is that we have this idea about the internet that it is separate from real life, even though it is increasingly central to all of our lives, and that idea has persisted and sort of contributed to the problem. >> i wonder if you and also amy would be willing to share an example or two if you can on television of this kind of harassment to give view