including victor amato, who welcomed the news of bin laden's death. >> i was thrilled. it was the best news i've heard this years. >> reporter: but mary lou byrd says the pain of losing brendan and rosanne will never go away. >> we have our entire lives to continue without them with us. and that won't change with bin laden's death. >> reporter: reflections from one family and one town, still coping with loss, one day at a time. rehema ellis, nbc news, middletown, new jersey. >>> and in the light of this raid overseas, in the light of the news we've been covering, we'll be back in just a moment with a look inside u.s. special forces from someone who's been there. ec >>> there is a lot of attention being focused right now, for good reason, on u.s. special forces, especially the u.s. navy s.e.a.l.s. they took the lead in this attack. and when they're not working, they're famous for undergoing the toughest training anywhere on earth. we've asked someone special to join us here tonight. his name is eric greitens. academically, he went to duke and oxford. he has a master's an