sciences, the american academy of arts and sciences one the contribution award by the american psychological associationur book is, "the marshmallow test-- mastering self-control." this title has so many things i like "myself, control, and marshmallows." explain to the people out there marshmallow test. when did you hold these tests? >> most of the work was begun in the middle 60s, 1960s. and then it continued and continued and continued, and it's still ongoing now. >> stephen: so what's the test? >> the test actually-- you've got some-- you want-- and i -- >> stephen: i'll go with mine. i'll go with mine. these are pink. >> they're pink from paris. >> stephen: or paris. let's do the paris pink ones. we have three mash maloze here. how does the test work. >> it works like this. if i'm the child -- >> stephen: i'll the the child. >> you're the child. two here, one here. now, there's also a pel over here that you can ring. >> stephen: i ring it or you ring it? >> you ring it. >> stephen: damage. >> i come right back into the room. ring it again. >> stephen: ding. >> i come back into the room. now you can

according to the american psychological association, one in three teens and young adults is the victim of physical, verbal, emotional or sexual abuse by a dating partner. >> of teenagers who are in abusive relationships, three percent will tell an authority figure, six percent will tell a family member, but 75% will tell a friend. that's why we focus on kids. ( applause ) >> reporter: in july, 2013, more than 200 teens attended boston's break-up summit. >> like, there are multiple different types of break-ups. >> and it happens because you are incompatible. >> reporter: lauren astley's father malcolm was there, too. >> yes, it is terribly painful to have someone break up with you. it's one of the worst pains in life, but normal and not to be taken as failure or as a cause for violence. boys and men can step up together with girls and women and veto violence. >> we can change the environment. we could make it a safer place for women, a safer place for relationships. >> reporter: all through massachusetts, teenagers like these students from lincoln- sudbury high school... >> dating viole

according to the american psychological association, one in three teens and young adults is the victim of physical, verbal, emotional or sexual abuse by a dating partner. >> of teenagers who are in abusive relationships, three percent will tell an authority figure, six percent will tell a family member, but 75% will tell a friend. that's why we focus on kids. ( applause ) >> reporter: in july, 2013, more than 200 teens attended boston's break-up summit. >> like, there are multiple different types of break-ups. >> and it happens because you are incompatible. >> reporter: lauren astley's father malcolm was there, too. >> yes, it is terribly painful to have someone break up with you. it's one of the worst pains in life, but normal and not to be taken as failure or as a cause for violence. boys and men can step up together with girls and women and veto violence. >> we can change the environment. we could make it a safer place for women, a safer place for relationships. >> reporter: all through massachusetts, teenagers like these students from lincoln- sudbury high school... >> dating viole

they had the american psychological association who wnÑó< along with it and said there is no differencemen. and it muddies the waters. she hit him, too. do we say that that is the same thing. no, he isç 200 pounds heavier there and i think there needs to be protection. harken back titanic, women and children first. on the subway today no seat for a women. there is a difference between them. i think we miss something when we understand there is a difference between equal and value and not necessarily sameness. equality and sameness are not the same thing. we are equal in worth and value but not the same. and the french say viva uovuñla difference. >> going back to what dr. gina said. we have to remember where our culture is going and where it is going in the past decades. i was an actress and i grew up in hollywood, and i saw the degradation of our culture. there is a culture of violence. it is like it is almost like it is okay. and looking in the nfl in a way, it is like, they swept it under the rug a bit like it didn't matter that much. but it does matter. no one should be allowed to

we're hearing from the american psychology association anywhere between one and three or one in four women around the world experience abuse by an intimate partner in their lifetime in the u.s. 24 people are victimized every minute. an average of at least three women murdered by partners everyday and more than 12 million people victimized every year. and this is where you and i have agreed that the problem isn't ray rice, they do have an issue that they have to deal with there and they do have to deal with the problem within the nfl. but, again, this larger issue that needs attention, that seems to be ignored. >> michaela, i think about two of the most iconic comedies of all time "i love lucy" and "honeymooners." and both of those comedies had domestic violence as part of their comedic bits. ricky used to slap lucille ball on the bottom when she misbehaved. remember "i'll punch you to the moon." that's domestic violence and that was part of our comedic bits of two of the most iconic comedies of all time. that should tell you where we are and how far we've come in terms of domestic vi

the american psychological association says emphatically no.rchers tested whether foods can turn a frown unside down and the results found comfort foods did not provide any significant changes in moods. researchers believe we simply give comfort foods credit for our mood swings. >> taking a look at your money marriott hopes leaving envelopes in guest rooms encourages them to leave tips much the company's new campaign called the envelope please is partnering with maria shriver to launch the program starting this week marriott will start placing envelopes in its rooms across the us and can in a today. many travelers don't even realize tipping is customary. marriott ceo says a dollar to $5 is a customary tip depending on the room rate. >>> this is a little stunning. stutter out of the uk says 41% of women prefer to hear they look young rather than slim. so it appears that two-thirds use anti aging products to fight off father time. >> that is true for me. i was wondering. age 39.5 is the time when most women find themselves concerned about getting

the american psychological association says in, it doesn't. researchers tested whether foods can turn a frown, upside down, and the results found comfort foods didn't provide any significant comfort or changes in your mood. researchers believe that we give comfort foods credit for improving our mood swings. >> but you nothing makes you feel better than having a cheese stake, right. >>> reports of the effects of head injuries on nfl players estimates that nearly three in ten former players will develop cognitive problem. this is serious stuff here. the report was prepared of the nfl concussions lawsuit. it estimates 28 percent of all retired players will be diagnosed with alzheimer's disease or maryland rate dimension a. >>> one pet owner in australia stops at nothing to save life of her pet gold fish? the ten year-old gold fish underwent a 45 minute procedure to remove a tumor from it head. owner says tumor had started to affect the quality have of life. the vet says gold fish is now swimming normally again. >> ten year-old gold fish. i don't

same, but they have tried to force this belief on the public, and they have had the american psychological associationlock, stock and barrel and gone along with it. but the problem is it muddies the water, she hit him too in the ray rice case, do we say that's the same thing? i say no, because he's probably 200 pounds heavier than her and i think there needs to be protections for women. harken back to the titanic, it was women and children first. go on a subway today, they won't even give up their seat for a woman anymore. we need to go back to a day where the men get to be men and women because there is a divide between masculinity and femininity. >> i don't mean to be chauvinistic, but i do think we missomething wen we understand there is something between equal and value, but not necessarily sameness. equality and sameness isn't the same thing, of course we're equal in words and value, but not the same. and as the prince would say, viva la difference. >> going back to what dr. gina said, we have to remember where our culture is going, where it's been going over the past decade. i, you know, was an

according to the american psychological association more than one woman out of three in this countryerienced rape, physical violence or stalking by intimate partner during their lifetime. one in five female high school students reports being physically or sexually abused by a date. and consider this, on average every day more than three women are murdered by their husbands or boy friends. finally from the national coalition against domestic violence, comes this finding, boys who grow up seeing domestic violence are twice as likely to abuse their own partners and children when they become adults. spinach,carrots and peas. [guy] you love it so much. yes you do. but it's good for you, too. [announcer] healthful. flavorful. beneful. from purina. abe! get in! punch it! let quicken loans help you save your money. with a mortgage that's engineered to amaze! dad,thank you mom for said this oftprotecting my future.you. thank you for being my hero and my dad. military families are uniquely thankful for many things, the legacy of usaa auto insurance could be one of them. if you're a current or

american psychological association says no.rchers tested whether foods can turn a frown, upside down, and the results found comfort foods didn't provide any significant changes in moods. researchers believe we give comfort foods credit for our mood swings. >> it makes sense. comfort food like meat loaf and stuff like that, right. ized cream. >> ice cream, lot of ice cream and sprinkles it just depends. >> are you a classic woman you sit there, you are depressed. >> yes. >> and what? >> do you eat ice cream out of the carton. >> yes, going through a break up, get the whole tub, just get a spoon and just dig in. i like wine really. >> and cheese. i eat a little of both. >> wine and cheese. >> that will bloat you up and you'll be in a bad mood. >> then i will be single forever. >> every now and then if i get depressed, i will walk over to wawa and get a can of bake beans,. >> what does that do. >> i will crack that sucker open and eat it right out of the can. don't warm it up what is that supposed to do. >> even better, they have