of us have on our calendar this is the day in which we can -- because that part -- we've got an amicablef dealing with the kids and dealing with one another that is, you know, is really -- been quite satisfactory. and -- >> larry: you're the pained one so it has to be satisfactory to you. >> yeah, but, you know, i think there's enough pain in my family to go around for everybody. >> larry: by the way, so we have it right and the audience understands, nowhere in "resilience" do you name the woman with whom your husband had an affair and a daughter. you've asked us out of consideration not to use the name either. we will respect that. >> thank you. >> larry: and we will be right back. jooishg >> larry: we're back with elizabeth edwards. "resilience," terrific book, with a new afterword, now out in paperback. you have had to deal, in your life, with loss. the loss of a husband. nothing compares in loss to the death of a child though, right? >> nothing compares. >> larry: distant second. >> right. in some ways, that helps you keep some balance, you know, about how important whatever pain you