just like amina said, we need to be getting to know each other. some researchers back in the 40's came up with 4 important things to address prejudice. the first is getting it know each other, talking about it, getting it out in the open. the second is equal status, we're not just feeling sorry for those poor little whatevers that are difrplt than us, but we are all equal. the third one is working together and i think about the giants, we're all for the team, not all together not as if we are color blind and color doesn't exist but with our diversity. the fourth is with power and authority, the person who stands up and says this is what needs to happen, like a school principal who says we're not going to let kids go around the school saying that's okay, all these things are needed. >>

just like amina said, we need to be getting to know each other. some researchers back in the 40's came up with 4 important things to address prejudice. the first is getting it know each other, talking about it, getting it out in the open. the second

amina, you want to get us started? >> sure. in your packets you should have our program that we have locally in the bay area and we also have affiliated across the country in many areas. our dream would be to have a similar program to ours in every city in the united states. obviously that takes time, our speakers are volunteers, they aren't paid. it may take 4 or 5 hours to go into schools so resources are always an issue. many schools are afraid to invite speakers in to talk about any religion, but particularly islam, there's not always a clear understanding to what the first amendment guarantees, which is the right to teach about a religion but not proselytize about it. i think there's fear of associating with anyone associated with islam. there are events outside our control that creates more interest and unfortunately also makes people more afraid. one of the programs we are about to launch is putting all our content online so a teacher in north dakota where there are no muslim, potentially, no expert can come to her class

>> to play with their eight-month-old daughter amina. >> she even turns her cell phones off. when amina gets fussy... >> i really shouldn't do this. >> they both reach for her favorite toy. this is her favorite toy? no. her favorite toy is the blackberry? [gasps] >> we have her on the bed with a bunch of toys. >> and she'll always pick the blackberry? >> she seriously just made a phone call. >> [laughs] which means when amina grows us, she may have a house like greg shenkman's. >> my work is fun for me. i enjoy it. it's my hobby. >> greg shenkman is such a workaholic that he has wired his house with internet, telephone, and television in every single room. as ceo of the global high tech firm exigen in san francisco, he feels he has to be available to his customers at all hours. >> well, you lose something. you lose some days of your kids' lives. you lose some of those tender moments with the family. >> what happens when you stop working? >> i ache. >> you ache? >> well, if you go on vacation sometimes in order to sort of relax, it takes a little bit of an effort. >> i'll bet

. >> it's me amina, to tape this just to see that you can see how i look. >> reporter: and then thisof her. >> this is me without the head scarf so you can see my hair i described it to you before so now you've seen me without it and i hope that will you please. >> reporter: by june 2010 she was living in yemen in the arms of her new husband, anwar al awlaki. >> with us now is juan zarate good morning to you. >> good morning, jeff. >> is it easier or more difficult to infiltrate these organizations? >> i think al qaeda is under a great deal of stress at its core and affiliates and so in many ways they're having to trust more people allowing others to get closer to senior leaders and so in some ways it's getting easier but it's not easy by any stretch. al qaeda is sensitive about who it allows into its inner circle so that's why you have counterterrorism officials around the world always trying to get into the inner circles of al qaeda around the world. >> why would someone like morten storm be an ideal recruit? >> what you had with anwar al awlaki the pied piper of western recruits,