amy: let me ask you, there has been some push back at "the new york times" obit that included the line, julian bond's great-grandmother janermer. a number of black lives mattq) activists and others are tweeting about this saying, kentucky farmer instead of slave instead of addressing the issue of the impossibility for consent as a slave in the whitewashing of rape. >> slave mistress is a loaded terminology, and i would agree with that criticism because a mistress is someone who has a choice. and if you are owned by someone, you don't really have a choice over matters like that. it does show, you know, julian was very light skin. when i first met him, and it was all because of the privilege in the enslavers, that is where all of the light-skinned lac)h(eople came from. when i first knew julian, he was still on billboards in georgia because he was movie star handsome, and he would be on coca-cola ad he used to confess that because of that terrible problem, crime in the background of american history in gender, the most intimate moments that mixed slavery with rape, that there were a lot of problems about color within the bla