that anddecided to use ways to try to help myself learn when to keep my mouth shut.t has not worked. [laughter] tavis: i was about to ask them how is that project coming along? since you went there do you find that -- older, i grandmother used the phrase chronologically gifted. do you find that you care -- you care more or less about that? >> about what? rex about what you say and how people feel about what you say. >> i do care. is oney reason that -- of the reasons i write because i would like to fix things that appear to be broken. one assaulted be happy be happy and thrive. usetimes it seems -- i want all to be happy and thrive. know, i write to explore it and try to understand it because i can be very judgmental. tavis: i was in a conversation the other day with a group of other -- older persons and they were giving me some of the good things about getting older. you can speak your mind. you have paid your dues. you do not care what people have to say. you do not have to be so circumspect. >> it depends on who is saying it. that makes a big difference. some folk