. >> angccoro tmz, the note had the this mes to kate's 13-year-old daughter, frances bea tricks.ea, i have always loved you. this is not your fault. ask daddy. an "e.t." source says they had a rocky relationship. he reportedly wanted a divor and moved out of their home. david spade posted two of his favorite photos with her. one at a book signing. another at christmas time. he captioned bothers it's a rough world out there people. try to hang on. and kate's niece shared this sweet video of kate dancing with her husband. she wrote, knowing katy, this is how she would want to be remembered. hug your loved ones extra tight today. is there it's terribly, terribly tragic. >> actresses loved her bright and cheery designs. >> i loved her work. the first hand bag i ever bought was a kate spade hand bag. what can you say? >> i really love kate spade dearly. and i have worn her clothes so much. both in person and on my show, it's so sad. >> all i can think about is her, her daughter, and her husband. i'm not at the place to think about legacy.>> i thi aerhi and those that she left behind.