annamarie is pet friendly. >> that is what i was going to -- >> i wanted sunny too, warm. so now we are going to see what we used to do in our workshops. every workshop had this kind of component. we would always have a panel of experts in the workshop. this panel when we say experts we were not talking experts who would come and sell you something. we are talking people who are actually living the option so talking about sharing housing we would have people coming and speaking about their experience in terms of sharing, or people living in cohousing talking about their cohousing experience as opposed to someone selling you the idea of cohousing and brainstorming of some kind to maximize the group so for example i may be standing up here and you might think -- the reality is you know as much from your own experience so we make sure everybody has a chance to express themselves. another thing we do, this is important for building community, deep introduction. when you go around the room and say who you are it is not about your resume or just your name. we talk about what you