we talk with anthea butler, michael tomasky, chloe and ronald scott.mney said about mitt romney. this changes how we hear this. let's listen. >> again, people like to keep him in that narrative, so it's nice for me as a wife to be able to say no, look, this is the person that's really there, this is the boy that i knew, i still look at him as the boy i met in high school, when he was playing all of the jokes and really just being crazy, pretty crazy. so there's a wild and crazy man inside there. >> may 1st, there's a wild and crazy man inside. >> by wild and crazy, someone that violently polices other people's gender expressions. >> right. it is fine when it sounds like he is horsing around with the boys and with the sons, but when it's i held down a boy and cut his hair because i didn't like how he self expressed, it suddenly feels like -- it feels menacing in a new way. >> and it also says that nonconformity is not something he wants around anyone. so i think what this really shows is that it's going to go part to how he may even govern, even if he h