. >>> expressed the grief and dee letter to terrorists from antoine laras whose wife was killed at thebataclan. >> she was the most fiery brunette in the world. >> reporter: i will not grant you the gift of my hatred, antoine wrote. you want me to be scared. you lost. words instantly shared around the world. >> why the letter touched so much, it's because we all want to be hopeful for the world. >> reporter: a message that was also a love letter to his wife, written the day he identified her body. i saw her this morning, antoine wrote, she was just as beautiful as when she left on friday night. just as beautiful as when i fell hopelessly in love over 12 years ago. antoine says he is like any 17 month old son. >> he feels the pain the missing, he missed his mother. >> reporter: we are just two, into i son and me, he wrote, but we are stronger than all the armies in the world. for his whole life this little boy will threaten you by being happy and free. and he has a message for all of us, live life. don't let them win. nd listen to music and drink some beer. we are optimistic. so let's g