we would like to first thank the agencies part of the apa collaborative. thank you turf, baby ymca. thank you to all of the agencies working day in, day out. the samoan community center and all the case managers meeting with the families and thank the case manager and how do we complement that work and create a change in the city and county of san francisco. we would like to thank public housing, henry allah ez, where are you? thank you for making this space available. we would like to thank the police department and thank you for all of your work and strategy and working with us in reducing violence. we would like to thank wendy from adult probation. we would like to thank william juvenile probation chief. we really want to put a shout out to department of children youth and their families, maria, and the human services agency first five, and of course the public housing commission and everyone else who has worked tirelessly in this endeavor. to move forward formally with unveiling the family resource center we would like to have the officials that spoke to be part of the ribbon cu

as the apa warns, the harm can include anxiety, depression, even suicide. randi kaye profiled another young man who went through so-called reparative therapy with traumatic results. here's his story. >> reporter: when ryan was 13, his mother read his diary and discovered he was gay. that was the beginning of the most painful years of his life. >> for years, i thought that god hated me because i was gay. >> reporter: ryan says his parents were determined to change him. they signed him up for what's called reparative therapy with the national association for research and therapy of homosexuality, otherwise known as n.a.r.t.h. repartive they are therapy aimed at changing sexual orientation has been used for decades as a way to turn potentially gay children straight. >> every day i would hear this is a choice. this can be fixed. >> reporter: did you believe that? >> i never believed that. i know i'm gay just like i know i'm short and i'm half hispanic. i never thought those facts would change. it's part of my core fundamental identity. so the parallel would be

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. >> it's even great as a documentary in the making of apa apocalypse now. >> it's 1 of the best. us about your second favorite that we should see. >> number two is "from here to eternity" which is a really, really interesting film because at the time it was so controversial. it gives a really dark view of the military. and it's most famous for its love -- i don't know how to say it without getting flustered. the love scene on the beach which really made us have to teach an entire generation of people that sand is not a lubricant, stay away from the beach, keep it in private, but watch this movie to remind yourself how good of an actor frank sinatra is because this film has so much drama in it, and frank sinatra was spectacular. won a ton of awards. well deserved. >> can never go wrong with frank. finally, about 60 seconds left, "saving private ryan." you say see it again? >> i say see it again because not only is it starring a whole bunch of people you have to watch in a movie all the time, tom hanks, matt damon, paul giamatti, the list goes on and on, but that first 27 minutes o

you saw the apa poll. it shows more women are stressed out than men.e hostesses with the mostss. and they feel they have to do everything for everyone and everything has to be perfect at the dinner table. >> if it's mostly self-imposed, robi, that means you have to look within to try to manage the stres. you have to talk yourself out of saying i have to do or be everything for everyone? >> absolutely. i think when we fall into this mythic idea that families all get along great and everybody is handling this holiday stress better than we are, that's when we can be really tough on ourselves. so part of it is taking really good self care. make sure you're getting your rest, that you're eating well. you're not drinking too much. because once we treat our bodies badly, we have less emotional resourcefulness. the other thing is really important to take back control. sometimes when it comes to the holiday season, we feel we have to see people we don't want to see. we have to spend money that we don't have to spend. so it's really important to say to ourselves