but also i can actually do everything without the apprecia. and you know just, it's good, it's fun. >> charlie: what was the most important thing he ga you siya? obviously the obvious is that he gave you a father, he gave you an opportunity to have a new life. buhe also gave you values. he gave you a standard, he gave you -- >> being very kin to people. he as you know he led by example and we have two friends who have been as lucky as we have been and then you know sandra who was from bosnia, who had helped a lot and anna as well from chicago. who also suffering from cancer and ted helped her a lot. but that's what he kept on tryingo instill in us to treat the lowest of people. but people who need that help suffering but also kids who are actually underprivileged. but also another thing he gave me school, you know. i remember graduating from pepperdine and seeing his smile. and i knew that i did what he wanted me to do and so it was the case with my brother getting out of high school. he was just beaming. you would never think this was a serio