ashlea was the baby. their mom, monica, remembers how ashlea loved sports and music and art and bingo! >> it was our mom and daughter bonding time, and she'd just get all giddy and excited. >> reporter: by the time she got to high school, ashlea had lots of friends, even a boyfriend. and she was devoted to her two dads -- her father tommy and her stepfather, chuck, both retired police officers. didn't she talk at one point about getting into actually your line of work? >> she was interested in policing. i think that she took unique interest in it. >> reporter: but after high school she ended up working, for a short time, at blockbuster video. and that's where she met a customer named laura love. >> and i walked around the store for a little bit, and just kept lookin' at her, 'cause she was so beautiful. >> reporter: laura wanted to meet the girl behind the counter. they became friends. and then something more. >> we hung out for a few months, probably, like, eight months before it ever really got there. >