that's a beautiful ring, auntie eleanor. nick's father had it made when he proposed to me.tudying law together. oh, i didn't know you were a lawyer! i withdrew from university when we were married. 0h! i chose to help my husband run a business and to raise a family. for me, it was a privilege. but for you, you may think it is old—fashioned. but all of this doesn't just happen. it's because we know to put family first. it's, it's. .. i don't think i'm going to mess with her! but isn't that great? it is a really terrifically steely performance. what i liked about the film, i mean, there has been a lot of talk about how culturally important it is, that we haven't seen a major hollywood studio produce a movie with this kind of cast since thejoy luck club, which is, you know, two decades ago... oh, yes, long time ago! ..and that means immediately the film comes with a lot of cultural baggage and a lot of roles that it has to fill. but the main question is, does it work, is it funny, is it engaging? and looking at some of the trailers i was worried it would be like sex in the cit