. >> acclaimed novelist ayelet waldman responds to the public outcry that branded her a bad mother for claiming she loves her husband more than her children. barnes & noble tribeca in new york city hosted the event, it's 40 minutes. [laughter] >> hi. okay, so i'm just going to launch into this. this is what we're going to do, we're going to read a little, then we're going to ask some questions. i want you to be thinking of your questions right now, here's why. there are stupendous prizes for those who ask questions, and you want to win a prize. you do, you know you do. i hope there's someone lactating. excellent. i'm going to read an essay called breast is best. once when my son abraham was six weeks old i was standing in line at a local bakery. i had him in a sling, and i was feeding him. the baby had finally taken his bottle, and i was loathe to adjust anything for fear of disturbing our tenuous peace. i rocked a bit on my heels. the baby paused in his sucking, and i held my breath. suddenly, a voice behind me said, you know, breast is best. i turned. the speaker, a woman a few years