do together everything just crumbled like a glass house you know i just throw one rock or what a b.b. gun and then we'll just shatter. if you don't care about yourself it doesn't matter it does not matter anymore it doesn't matter why are you here why are you living you don't want to live anymore you don't have self-love you know you don't want to live you know that's why women commit suicide you know that's why women you know people go into drug abuse and alcohol abuse it's all about self-love any type of use is about self-love not having self love it's important because that's the only thing that's going to the situation is the time to love yourself again people think she should have been able to get out of it why couldn't she get out of it i would never let that. happened to me i'd just leave those are sort of those famous last words kind of statements because this is an extraordinarily complex issue there is nothing simple about being a victim of domestic violence i will take your children away oh make sure that no one ever speaks to you again oh ruin your reputation i will make sure