>> there's a wonderful article by barbara annis -- >> yeah. >> thank you. about how women introduce ideas around table. they say, maybe we should consider, or another option might be, so, we're inclined to use a lot of worlds that have doubt attached to them? and they're read by alpha males or females as showing your incompetence or lack of thought. it is really worthwhile, practicing some of those thins.s saying things like, i don't believe we can move forward until we have considered so and so. you can still sound authentic, you don't have to thumb the table and say, we're not going to do anything until we've done this. but there are ways to change the way you enter a conversation that change the way you are perceived. and i've also had young women who said they never heard in meetings, who i've said, just sit forward. just sit up, sit forward and talk the space you own. how many other people fight on their planes with the person next to them? >> sure. >> any man who takes the arm of my airplane, the instabt he moves his elbow, i will be there. it's a sta