i'm melissa harris-perry and that was senator barbara boxer on friday reacting to the all-male panelttee on contraception. when i heard her sentiment, i went yeah, where are the women? why is it that as soon as we have a conversation about women, their bodies or their health, it's had by male religious leaders. let's play a little game, shall we? if i say to you, think of an apple, what pops into your head? i'll give you a moment to think about it. okay. did you pick number one. number two or this last one? time is up. i bet most of you chose the last one. that's okay. that's part of our scheme a. >> it's someone who relates to the events. if you have an apple product, you may have chosen the third one. this could apply to religion too and why people think of men as religious leaders. if i ask you to imagine god rather than an apple, most americans pick an old white man, a beard. the old white male picture pops into our heads even if we don't believe in god or if we don't believe god has race or gender. theologian carol chris says we take this image of god and apply it to religious i