he would -- there's wonderful correspondence between sam and his client, barlow.arlow writes and says it's the most candid letter writing about blogging i've ever seen. barlow will write and say, i want this so passed or disable writeback and say, okay, it's going to cost you. i'm proposing for dinners at $500 each and here are the people in i'm suggesting, but you do want to have? those dinners are pretty much all mail and more purposeful. but he often, often had dinners where he would just invite people he thought would be congenial. they did lots of foreign ministers and their american-born lies, members of congress that he knew from different aspects of his life. they were really more cultivating dinners. women would be president. i don't have any evidence that they withdrew while the men spoke cigars, whether or not it was to talk business. and sam was very respectful of women's opinions at these dinners. everybody who had dinner at sands wrote home about them and that's one of the reasons we know so much about these dinners. and they would talk about, you kn