while working with the west virginia higher education commission and with, basically, beckley.d with beckley and bluefield state teachers' college of she had to leave because she couldn't afford the last year. and in 2005 my mother is in the class of 2005 having been given a doctorate in humanities posthumously, and that's my mom. my dad died too early, also, he died at 57 years of age. he was too young to die, but he worked so hard. three jobs sometimes. he would go pumping oil, and he would be digging ditches, and he'd be a janitor. many people would say, donald, you're going to kill yourself. he'd say i'd rather work hard than not and have my kids go through what i went through. don't let anybody define who you are. if front door is closed, go around to the back to get in. if back door's locked, go around to the side, maybe you can get in that way. tonight give up. never, never, never give up. and that was my father. and he was our moral compass. he had six girls. he raised six girls. and today when children don't even know up from down, you know, when a hero is just a sandw