becky hammonds: and that's when he accused me of being lascivious with the bartender because i was juste bartender. hoda kotb: they got into a cab to go home, and becky says toolan tried to grope her. when they reached her street, she didn't wait around. becky hammonds: i jumped out, and i ran. i literally ran across the street. hoda kotb: and now four years later, beth lochtefeld was in a frightening situation with the same man. but that night instead of grabbing her stuff from toolan's apartment when she got there, beth stayed, and leslie says beth later told her that things went from bad to terrible. and then he got very violent with her that night, and he sexually assaulted her. and i think that beth was probably sort of in a state of-- and it's-- it's a confusing thing when it's somebody that you're supposably close to violates you. and my guess is that she was just probably in a state of shock, and why she didn't leave that next day, i'm not exactly sure. hoda kotb: by friday, october 22nd, days after the dinner with her brother, beth had decided to leave new york. friends and fam