and then there is beddy, betty, i am a concerned antiwar activist. how can people get involved.how can civilians help here? >> i mean, i have been involved with iraq veterans against the war and i have been really impressed with the operation recovery, they are trying to eliminate that commanders ability to like override a medical opinion. if somebody is already suffering from previous delight little, let's stop it there . we can talk about treatment but the best solution is prevent it from happening in the first place. >> louanne, i am sure tonight was difficult for you to talk about and relive. why did you come on the program . >> i basically came on the program because i want to find the way to get it out there that when these men come back, and they are tested two or three days later for ptsd, i believe they need a longer transition and more testing. i believe that the families need to know what to look for with their loved ones to try. because the people that may have these issues, may not understand what they have. and we need -- and the parents and the families need to kn