behaviors. i think that in a, um, individual psychotherapy, in a one-to-one psychotherapy with the personality disorder patient, you have much more restricted opportunity for testing new behaviors. you have much more restricted opportunity for seeing the personality disorder behavior right front of you. if two narcissistic men are in the same group, one narcissistic man seeing another narcissistic man may able to say, "that guy is so self-centered. he never thinks about anybody but himself." and the other members may say to him, "that's exacy what youo." for many therapists, it's not a question of either individual or group work. both can be us gether. one of my patients summed it up well when she said, "in individual therapy, "i learn to understand mylf, "but in group, "i have to practice that understanding ver and over again, "and everything happens in group 1oo times quicker because m doingso many " becae borderline paties often have substance abuse problems, they need to have that treated concurrently. being involved in a.a. or n.a. provides a social support system which can be very helpful. um...b