conversation with ben silverman, ceo of pinterest. he said -- you know?is like all these guys, these women out here, the leaders we look up to, it is like they all have this cool superpower. it has enabled us to do these amazing things that are all different. i thought that was an amazing insight. when i tell you an employer who to find your own means of being successful and to understand that there are many different have anbe successful, i agreement in ben silverman's language. find your individual superpower, whatever that is. if you do those things, if you and you manage, through deep caring about your people, without worrying for the thing about you, you will be as successful as you can possibly be. always remember that when you're thinking about communicating clearly with people -- you may think that people are fooled if you tell them what they want to hear, that they are not fooled. as a leader, you are totally transparent. if you try to lead in a way that is not indicative of who you are, they will see it, they will see through it. you will then l