. >> benjamin van zweden: hello. >> stahl: hello. >> benjamin van zweden: nice to meetas close relationships with his whole family, including jaap's father, who recently turned 90. >> benjamin van zweden: octopus, octopus. >> stahl: the van zwedens have created a foundation that offers music therapy to autistic children throughout the netherlands, and provides a home for young adults with autism, where benjamin now lives, as his parents spend more time in new york. now you come here and see this. >> jaap van zweden: i know. >> stahl: as opening night approached, jaap seemed excited by the challenge. and, he has a new partner. >> borda: why don't we do something what nobody expects? >> stahl: deborah borda, who jaap personally recruited to leave l.a. to become the new york phil's president and c.e.o. all the orchestras are suffering in terms of audience, age of the audience. >> borda: remember, orchestras are creatures of the 18th century. and here we are, well into the 21st century, how do we take these orchestras and make them relevant to our time? ♪ ♪ >> stahl: well,