newlyweds benjie smith and emily lau were separated. dancer rose metcalfe also still aboard decided it was time for someone to take charge. here again is "the wreck of the "costa concordia." >> i didn't have any training for this. there was suddenly an absolute rush of crew members, and i think that their superiors in the restaurants, kitchens and the gulley, in the engine room had told them to get out. and suddenly i had more people than i could handle. people were asking -- shouting their names at me, they were panicking and i was basically trying to keep order. i realized that we were actually tipping close to the water and if we stayed there, our feet were going to get wet. i decided to rearrange my muster station on the other side of the ship, on the up side of the ship. and i decided that this was going to be safer so that we weren't actually falling into the sea. so i actually had people coming up to me and asking me if they could go on my life raft. but a life raft can only hold 35 people, and it got to the point where i was act

it was my honeymoon with benjie smith. >> emily's aunt wanted to see europe with her husband and with a few of their friends, and they're from hong kong so they wanted someone who's fluent in english and also in german and italian and some spanish and a little bit of this and that and everything. so she would make a really good guide all over europe. >> and it went like this. hey, benjie, it's really cool, my aunt says she going to pay for our vacation and we'll go on this seven-day cruise ship and then we'll go to paris and it's really cheap because it's free. and then he looked at me. and just looked at me. >> she's the spontaneous half of our relationship. >> and he said "i need a minute." >> i had to slow down for a minute. i'm a bit more of i have to think things through. after the shot of the spontaneity wore off, i was really excited about the trip, too. >> we decided why don't we make this into our honeymoon trip. >> i got offered the contract two days after i graduated from darts college in london. it was a wonderful life. we got to dance, perform, get applauded by the audien