when bethenny frankel got married. oh, my god. oh, my god. i need alcohol. >> no, but this is important because i actually never forgot it, and this works in life. she stopped the vows in the middle and said i just want to look around for a second because sometimes you're so rushed in life you don't take a second and think about it. >> i wasn't comparing, i was just bringing up a moment they remembered that struck me. >> wow. >> a couple of things i love too. >> i'm having trouble -- i think i'm not going to be able to talk. this is awful. >> the drink? >> tell you in a minute. but go ahead. >> wait. what is this drink? >> it's a flu drink, but there's something terrible in that. something very -- what's in that? is that kerosene? what is in that? >> oh, my god. >> is that kerosene? that is awful. >> drink the water. >> i did drink the water. okay. >> one of my favorite moments -- i loved all the singing. i loved the music. >> oh, i loved james taylor. >> james taylor was great. beyonce was incredible. >> lovely. >> i loved -- i loved, loved,