we wt to eat what you eat and eventuly bger agrees. anhe takes them to a place where you ea and not only are they the only white people in this place. they're the only rich people in this place, and again, the whole place is a buzz, with these rich yog white people showing up at their place. they're dointhis o of a sense of good intention. they're doing this trying tconnect. th're doing this trying to recogni bigger. they're tryi to bridge, but here the problem. we fail to recognize the structure and culture makes it hard. and without addressing culture, the structure the power imbalance, bridging is very hard. so let me give you a more recent example. again, if you have a satury ternoon, nothing to do. i reckon a movie, recommended movie is called knives out. in this movie, there's a very rich family, and there's a caretaker. literally providing care to the fami. who's from latin america, and she's taken care of having a family and inoing some. she actually gets to know the family. they get to know her. and at one point there's a conv