we sit there and blahblah. fix it, please. >> we also spoke about what it takes to have a good life, especially with two young folks in a house. i was struck by something you said regarding your husband still having responsibilities in the house. you talked about the checks. >> yes. he always mentions he will bring deep checks to the house. i am going to bring the checks. he goes to work. he brings the check home. he says, do you want the check? yes, i want the check. i always want the check. in the middle of the night he says, i have to get the checks to you can have money for the children. he was very responsible. he still is responsible. he is the man of the house. that is why i tell him -- if you tell him he is sick, he gets angry. >> i was struck when i was talking to you and your partner earlier, i told you i was going to be asking this question and you could ignore it, and i was so struck by your response that she made to that question of, what does it take to have a good life? can you speak to that? >>